I am 32 years old and a divorced man with a 4 year old son. Three months ago, I was introduced to a new girlfriend, and I almost got married to my girlfriend. My girlfriend mentioned it to me

I am 32 years old and a divorced man with a 4 year old son. Three months ago, I was introduced to a new girlfriend, and I almost got married to my girlfriend. My girlfriend made a few requests to me, and I replied to her at the time. I didn't expect to break up with my girlfriend immediately after listening to it, and blocked me. I liked her and thought it was a shame I could get it.

I've been through a failed marriage. My ex-wife and I met as part-time workers, when I was 25 and my ex-wife was 22. We work in the same factory, and it is free love. At that time, I had no house and no car, and my ex-wife insisted on marrying me despite my parents' objections.

In the second year after marriage, I regretted that my ex-wife had given birth to a child, did not do housework, did not do things, was lazy and lazy, and often quarreled with me. Once I slapped my ex-wife, and my ex-wife filed for divorce in a fit of rage, and the custody of my son belonged to me.

In the second year of divorce, a matchmaker introduced me to the object, the new girlfriend is not beautiful, but the person is more attractive, gentle and generous, is a kindergarten teacher, the monthly salary is 3,000 yuan, and it is also very good to me, she does not mind me taking a son.

Later, we got along very happily, and after half a year of dating, we arrived at the place where we talked about marriage. Before getting married, she made a few requests to me:

First: I am the first marriage, and the bride price is 160,000. This is our local custom can not be less.

Second: the wedding should be held in a big hotel, and a table should be more than 2,000 yuan.

Third: To buy a new house in the city, you must write my name.

Fourth: We cannot live with our in-laws after marriage.

Fifth: For the sake of work, I don't have children.

Sixth: After marriage, your salary must be handed over to me. I manage my household expenses, and I give you $500 a month to use.

After I listened, I said: First of all, you are a good first marriage, but I only have 20,000 dowries.

The house I live in with my son now can be used as a marriage house, my house is a one-hall and three-bedroom house, although it is a little old, but I can decorate it to make our new house, and I don't have the financial ability to buy a new house now.

In addition, it is possible to hold a wedding in a large hotel, but it can only be 1000 yuan a table.

There is also the fact that although you say that you don't have children for work, this is not justified, I married you as a wife, just so that you can have one more child for me, whether it is a boy or a girl.

I can't give you all my salary, because I have a child who has to spend normally, and my parents have to take care of it. If I give it all to you and you only give me 500 yuan for pocket money, how can I use it?

I just finished talking, and my girlfriend was very upset and said that I thought we were not suitable, let's break up. After saying that, my girlfriend turned and left, and then deleted all my contact information and blocked me.

My girlfriend made those few requests, especially when she asked me to buy a house with her name on it, and to give him all my pay card, which I could not accept. Then I replied to her questions, and she wasn't satisfied. So she broke up with me and blocked me.

I feel a little regret because I still like her. But she's going to break up, and I can't help it! Friends say my girlfriend's request is too much?

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