I am 58 years old, is a mother-in-law, I have two sons, when the eldest son got married, I spent 50,000, and then the younger son wanted to get married, I spent 350,000 to buy him a suite, big

I am 58 years old, is a mother-in-law, I have two sons, when the eldest son got married, I spent 50,000, and then the younger son wanted to get married, I spent 350,000 to buy a suite for him, the eldest son knew that he wanted to break off relations with me, I was angry and admitted to the hospital, I did not expect the eldest daughter-in-law's behavior but I was very moved.

I am 58 years old this year, my wife is 60 years old, my wife and I are both rural people, when we were young, we worked in the factory, and now when we are older, we work in the cleaning company, the salary is not high, the two together are only 6,000, plus the money from selling waste, you can earn more than 8,000 a month. We have two sons, the eldest son is 40 years old this year, the younger son is 30 years old this year, when the eldest son got married, the family was poor, only 50,000, let him be a door-to-door son-in-law, for this reason, the eldest son complained a lot about us, always thought that we were not good to him, let him look up in front of his daughter-in-law.

At the beginning, we let him be a door-to-door son-in-law was also forced, the eldest son did not go to junior high school, not that we did not let him go, is that he could not read it himself, said that he did not want to go on, later, we took him to the south to work, just at the beginning the salary was very low, only 800 a month, and then slowly rose to 2000, a long time, also saved some money, who had thought, he did not learn well, there was an accident, the previous savings were all lost, at that time, there was still a case, and later came out to find a job, many places do not want him, Life was very difficult, so depressed for a while, in the blink of an eye to 30 years old, to the age of marriage, we were also anxious, entrusting people to introduce him to the object, but he had a low eye, he had no ability, and he was suspicious of seven and eight, and finally, none of them were successful, and he was about to beat a single stick, I had a relative, kindly told us that there were three girls in their village, and they wanted to recruit a son-in-law, saying that the girls looked very handsome, and people were smart and capable, and asked us if we would like to let the eldest son try.

The door-to-door son-in-law is also stronger than the single stick, we persuaded the eldest son to meet the girl, did not expect this time, he at a glance on the people, the two soon got better, began to talk about marriage, the eldest son did not want to be the door-to-door son-in-law, said that we want to pay for the girl to marry back, but the girl did not do it, crying and telling him, if he did not do the door-to-door son-in-law, the two broke up, the eldest son was reluctant to the girl, finally, he gritted his teeth and agreed, we saw that things became, even if it was the door-to-door son-in-law, he also took out the only 50,000 yuan, Let him go to the girl to buy three gold and some home appliances, this eldest daughter-in-law is quite reasonable, every year every New Year's Festival will come back to visit us, the second year of marriage, they gave birth to a daughter, later, after two years and gave birth to a son, a family of four also lived very stable, the eldest son since the marriage, the whole person has changed a lot, people are diligent, but also stable, and the daughter-in-law opened a breakfast shop, the business is very good, even if people are tired, but the income is very impressive, do a few years, the car house has been.

I see the eldest son here can finally be at ease, just start to do the younger son thing, the younger son is 30 years old this year, but also to the age of talking about marriage, the younger son is docile, obedient from childhood, reading well, but also talked about a good girlfriend, brought back to us last year, the little girl looks very handsome, talks gentle, and my younger son is very compatible, I think of the younger son has a girlfriend, will soon talk about marriage, as a parent, how to prepare a house, Just a relative had a house that had not been renovated and wanted to sell, so I discussed it with my wife, and finally, I bought it for 350,000. Somehow this matter was known to the eldest son, he ran back to make trouble with us, said that I was eccentric, said that he was married, we only gave 50,000, and now my brother is going to get married, but we spend 350,000, and I want to make up the difference, otherwise, I will break off the mother-child relationship with me!

I was already sick, and when he made such a fuss, my old illness recurred, and I was immediately admitted to the hospital.

The younger son knew, with his girlfriend came back to see me, after knowing what had happened, he began to complain about me, saying that I bought a house how not to discuss with him, said that now who still wants the county house, he works outside, and does not come back to live, the house is a waste to buy, I heard this, I feel that I am simply a pig eight precepts looking in the mirror, two sides are not people! The heart was very uncomfortable, the first time I lost my temper with my younger son, let him get out of the egg, the house is not wanted, I will keep it for myself! The younger son did not leave, took his girlfriend to the eldest daughter-in-law, and did not know what to discuss with them, the next day, the eldest son and the eldest daughter-in-law and the younger son and his girlfriend came to the hospital, the eldest son did not say anything about making up the difference, actually talked to me with a pleasant face, and called my mother affectionately.

A little flattered, he asked him in surprise, "What happened?" Why don't you break off relations with me? The eldest son smiled and said, "Mom, they all say that mother and son don't remember overnight feuds, how can you still remember those broken things, you are my mother, you will always be my mother." "This mouth is sweet, I am a little afraid, I feel that they must have something to hide from me, I asked the eldest daughter-in-law, the eldest daughter-in-law did not hide, directly said the reason for the matter, it turned out that they discussed it yesterday, I spent 350,000 yuan to buy the house, the eldest daughter-in-law spent 200,000 to buy, and also borrowed 200,000 to the younger son to buy a house in the provincial city, that is to say, a total of 400,000 to the younger son, the younger son and his girlfriend also agreed to this matter.

At first, my brain was still a little dizzy, I couldn't figure out this account, and then I figured it out, I understood the meaning of the eldest daughter-in-law, I was very impressed with her, and actually gave me this confused account to settle, no wonder the eldest son also kept breaking off relations, but this is not nothing, she moved me the most is another thing, she said: "Mom, that house, I plan to leave you to live, then, we take care of your two elders is also more convenient." "What the hell is this fairy daughter-in-law?" Since she can arrange things so well, it is no wonder that my naughty eldest son is also obedient in front of her, and I, of course, say yes in a pile!

@Smart Yangjing88 Analysis:

This is the husband and aunt's family thing, to share with everyone, a family wants to be harmonious, inseparable from mutual understanding and tolerance, parents sometimes a bowl of water is not flat, encounter this kind of thing, we do not blindly blame, but, need to use wisdom, and a tolerant heart, find a way to solve.