divorce
Divorce, from a human point of view, is a good thing. At the very least, it gives people the opportunity to choose again. Some people are really inappropriate, it is painful to be together, and it is a waste of life for both parties. Some people, after divorce, find the right partner, which is even more of a good thing.
However, the drawbacks of divorce are indeed many:
First, of course, the most hurt is the child. Parents overestimate their children's ability to bear, in fact, parental divorce has a great impact on all aspects of children. They often do not express their inner pain and dissatisfaction, but accumulate unhappiness and resentment in their hearts. Slowly, some children will give up on themselves and live a negative life. Some people develop extreme personality tendencies, paranoid violence. Of course, there will be individual children who are sunny and confident, that is roughly after the parents divorced, both sides are still concerned about and caring for them, but there are really very few such parents.
Second, the instability of marriage has led to distrust of spouses. Trust is essential for the maintenance of a relationship. If you don't trust each other, it will inevitably affect each other's feelings. Such a vicious circle makes more people divorced.
Before, people thought that if you got married, yours was mine, and we would be a family for the rest of our lives anyway. Therefore, after marriage, money can be put together, work together, and know how to be considerate of each other, because one party's body is broken, and the money is gone, which is the other party's lifelong affair.
However, most people don't think like this now, they will think: "If you have no money, no appearance, no health, if you can't give me anything, will I keep you for the New Year?" ”
The rise in the divorce rate makes people more and more insecure about marriage and feelings, and more and more people feel that if I give everything I have, you will abandon me one day, what should I do? Therefore, they all secretly "left a hand". I always suspect that the other party is going to betray his marriage, and it is really difficult to be happy.
The rise in the divorce rate is, to a certain extent, people's emotional requirements are high, beautifying the appearance of marriage. In fact, no one can be completely compatible with themselves, and they need to be constantly running into each other to become more and more harmonious.
The essence of marriage is how two people get along. If you enter into marriage hand in hand, then give your trust to the other party completely! Believe in your feelings and go on the road ahead with the idea of living a lifetime.
To get along well is actually not difficult to say, it is nothing more than one party arguing with the other party to give way; usually think more about each other, know how to be considerate and take care of; what is happy and unhappy, share more with each other, listen to people to understand emotional cooperation, and the person who said it stands on the same position and emotional height. If you are not satisfied with each other, you should clearly put it in your heart, self-torture and accumulate hatred for each other, remember that the husband and wife do not have overnight hatred; do not try to dig each other's heart very thoroughly, and if you can't see it, allow the other party to hide it in your heart! Quarrel can be, can not say divorce, do not think about it to remind yourself of these two words!
Marriage, or think clearly before entering, and walk in for a lifetime! Don't let too many people come in and out of the marriage, affecting the happiness of more people!
