In the following cases, do not be reckless, but do the opposite. 01 There is such a poem: "I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, just on this mountain." "We are all worldly people, but we mistakenly think

In the following cases, do not be reckless, but do the opposite.

01

There is a poem like this: "I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, just on this mountain."

We are all secular people, but we mistakenly think that we are "otherworldly" and are accustomed to using ourselves as protagonists.

In ancient times, there was the "geocentric theory", which believed that the universe revolved around the earth. As we all know, no matter how thick the ground is, it will not be higher than the sky.

With the development of the times, our cognition has become higher and higher, and we have gradually understood: "Outsiders are clear, and the authorities are confused."

"Stupid people, self-righteous; those who fail are arrogant." We can understand the truth, but life tells us that there are always people who can't see themselves clearly, and even show off their mistakes as advantages; they think of themselves as a strong person and don't know the harm of being a gladiator.

So in the following cases, it is foolish to be strong and needs to do the opposite.

02

When the relationship comes to an end, don't dwell on it and let go decisively.

In the love battle, there is a show called "Ten Years of Fate, Why Give Up".

In the show, a man leaves his first love and soon gets married. The first girlfriend has been single. The man's marriage lasted about four years and then divorced.

When a man contacted his first girlfriend again, the girlfriend said, "Come to my hometown of Inner Mongolia to develop."

Losing feelings and being around for the second time would have been a good thing, but when they got along, there were a lot of contradictions. The girlfriend often suspects that he is unfaithful to his feelings, and the man feels that she is suspicious and cannot tear the other person to pieces. There were too many contradictions and broke up again.

Then, the woman got married, but divorced because her husband was idle.

Finally, a pair of first loves, each experiencing a failed marriage, the second time and then to the second time, but their lives are all trivia.

We always think that love is omnipotent and the most powerful force in the world. As we all know, tangled love will produce invisible cracks, and the ending will be more cruel than imagined.

What is vigorous is love, and what is intermittent is love.

I love the saying, "Loving someone is not about forcibly changing him, but about changing yourself and giving him a better lover."

If you try to change the other person, it will backfire. It is better to leave quietly and return to the original self.

03

When you encounter danger, don't move forward, go backwards.

The I Ching says, "You can see, and you can walk when you are lame." Walk on the tiger's tail, killing, fierce. ”

When a person can't see clearly, he has to open his eyes hard, sprain his ankle, and walk, like stepping on a tiger's tail, which is very dangerous.

A welder's eyes are sore and swollen because of the irrational use of glasses. He also forced himself to work, which could hurt his body or even lose his job. The best way is to rest and adjust your vision.

In some families, the elderly hide their illness and do not tell their children. He didn't say it until he was very ill. As a result, medical costs are greater.

Illness is illness, and pain is pain. Don't grind your teeth all the time. Your persistence again and again is accelerating to the end of your life, which is really terrible.

In this life, there are always rivers that cannot be crossed, mountains that cannot be crossed. It is not shameful that you take the initiative to show weakness, but you have the wisdom to stop loss.

04

If you don't have the strength, don't turn the tide, be good at hiding.

During the Northern Song Dynasty, Su Dongpo was a very talented person. He wrote a story during the imperial examination.

He wrote in the article: "When he said the third killing, Yao said the third killing."

He was the chief justice of Gao Tao Yao Di. On one occasion, he was sentenced to three heavy sentences, and Yao and the emperor were pardoned without questioning.

At that time, the chief examiner Ouyang Xiu admired Su Dongpo's talent, but felt that the source of the story was unreliable and unfounded, so he gave him the second place.

Ouyang Xiu asked, what is the story?

Su Dongpo said: "During the Three Kingdoms period, Cao Cao defeated Yuan Shao and won the beauty Zhen. Both Cao Cao and Cao Pi father and son liked this beautiful woman. After Kong Rong knew about it, he wrote to Cao Cao: "When King Wu of Zhou destroyed Zhou Wei, he gave the world's first beauty to the Duke of Zhou." Cao Cao wondered, is this true? Kong Rong explained: 'Take it for granted at this point'. ”

Obviously, Kong Rong was mocking Cao Cao's father and son; Su Dongpo was mocking some people at that time.

As the saying goes, "Cleverness is mistaken by cleverness."

Cao was severely punished by Kong; Su Dongpo was later relegated to the wilderness.

Truly intelligent people, when they encounter opponents and find a disparity in strength, will secretly work hard and know how to keep bowing their heads. If the other party hurts someone, they have to protect it, and they can only play sneakily, and it is not easy to say that it is not easy to sacrifice themselves for righteousness.

Instead of doing it skillfully, do it. Being good at borrowing is the real skill; being good at hibernation is the only way to become a master. body

05

The reason is already obvious. Don't get stuck, learn to obey.

In the "Vegetable Root Tan", it is written: "Whoever has a narrow path, leave one step with people; when the taste is strong, subtract three points for people to eat."

If you take it too seriously, you will lose.

The Northern Song Dynasty minister Fu Bi was abused on the street. He didn't mind at all. Instead, he said, "I think it's a guy with the same name."

A few days later, the abusive person, ashamed and embarrassed, took the initiative to apologize.

Ah, people need to be "rarely confused." If you're a smart person, don't compete with stupid people.

Win or lose, everyone knows, don't fight. Even if you've been slandered or misunderstood, forget it. After a while, the truth surfaces and you are "saved."

Actress Lin Zhiying said: "When people have an argument, they must first think about where they are wrong."

Even if someone else is wrong, reflect on why others are targeting you. It's much easier to change yourself than to change others.

06

epilogue.

Since ancient times, there have been strong among the strong.

After defeating the Shang Dynasty, King Wu of Zhou took two captives and asked, "What is the strangest thing about this country?"

One prisoner said, "The son disobeys the father; the brother disobeys the brother; the monarch's orders are useless."

King Wu of Zhou paid tribute to the captives and expressed his admiration.

It turns out that it is the one who bows his head that is truly strong; the brave are ignorant.

The more humble you are, the more noble you are.

The more low-key, the more successful.

In the decades of life, the strongest time is when you are soft and tough. I don't understand.

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