I am 33 years old and earn about 8,000 yuan a month. In the recent period, I have dated 4 elderly leftover women, all of whom are very strong. Now, I'm deliberately with a 32-year-old leftover girl

I am 33 years old and earn about 8,000 yuan a month. In the recent period, I have dated 4 elderly leftover women, all of whom are very strong. Now, I'm deliberately with a 32-year-old leftover girl, and I actually hate her and don't want to marry her, but I find her good points, and I really feel particular pain.

First, let's talk about my personal situation. I graduated from the second book, 174 cm tall, currently engaged in human resources work, bought a house and a car in a second-tier city, my parents have formal jobs, I am also the only son in the family, the economic conditions are still passable.

Because I have a more straightforward personality and don't know how to please girls, I still didn't have a family until I was thirty.

Later, there was really no way out, so I had to start blind dates again and again. Since I was in a hurry to get married, I deliberately chose girls over thirty years old to date, because I thought they would be more anxious, so it would be easier to catch up. However, after meeting a few girls, I felt like I was being beaten to the point of no return.

Let's start with the first girl. This girl was born in 90 years, with a height of 158 centimeters, a heavy education, is an assistant to the president, and has an annual income of about 200,000 yuan.

She and I met her in a café, and I waited for her for almost an hour before she arrived late.

"Let's not gossip, let's talk about the real thing, what is your monthly salary?" After taking a seat, she asked directly.

"About eight thousand, and there are some bonuses at the end of the year." I answered truthfully.

"Did I make a mistake? Less than half of me, you also came out on a blind date with such conditions, which is really a waste of my time. She said directly.

Since we were a bit non-speculative, I paid the order and left.

Let's talk about the second girl. The girl, who works in beer sales, was born in 1989, has a college degree and is 168 cm tall. To be honest, her external condition is particularly prominent, and she also seems to be polite.

She and I met at a Western restaurant, and the location was also proposed by her. After the meeting, she took the initiative to chat with me on a lot of topics, and we had a very good chat.

That meal cost a total of more than eighteen hundred. After that, we went to the movies again and walked around the mall for three hours. In the mall, she looked at the bag for a while, and then at lipstick. Since I was a boy, I couldn't be too stingy, so I spent another three thousand six hundred yuan in the mall.

I thought I had a play with this girl, after all, we got along more well. Unexpectedly, after only two days, she didn't reply to my message much. After another week, she actually began to annoy me and asked me not to bother her again.

I was also angry at the time, so I deleted her contact information. Later, when I thought about it carefully, I felt that I had lost a lot.

After another month, I went to see the third girl. This girl was born in '88, in terms of months, a few months older than me. However, I don't think age is a problem, as long as she really likes me.

The girl is 155 cm tall, has a master's degree, is an accountant, and earns about fifteen thousand a month. She and I met at a teahouse.

After meeting, I found that the girl's height is 165 cm, why is this so? Because her heels are so high.

After the meeting, we also chatted for half an hour, after which the girl said what she valued most importantly. The girl said that she did not care about the garage, and did not care about the man's income, but hoped that the man's height should be more than 178 centimeters, at least not less than 175 centimeters.

Later, after I said I was only 174 centimeters, the girl immediately fell silent and began to talk less. Later, I felt a little embarrassed, so I bought the order and left without looking back.

After these three blind dates, I felt that I had been greatly hurt and found that they had a common characteristic, that is, they had strong personalities and were quite demanding. Later, I felt that if I wanted to chase such girls, I would definitely have to follow them.

After that, I saw a fourth girl. This girl is 89 years old, 163 cm tall, engaged in real estate industry work, annual income of about 300,000 yuan.

After meeting, I deliberately said that my conditions were higher, for example, I said 178 cm in height, after all, I wear shoes that are so high, and I vaguely say that there are hundreds of thousands of incomes. In short, raise yourself a few notches.

Originally, I thought that the girl would be gentler after seeing my good conditions, but I didn't expect that her personality was still strong. She demanded that I hand in all my salary after I got married, and that I have to take on all the housework, and that I cut ties with all the opposite sex. Most incredibly, she didn't allow me to live with my parents.

In addition, she also asked for her name to be added to the house and cars, and asked to drive her to and from work every day.

For all of this, I have chosen to be inclusive. However, she also made a request that the first child born in the future must be given her surname.

In fact, at this time, I was already very disgusted with her, but for various reasons, I continued to choose to be patient. Because I agreed unconditionally to all her requests, she agreed to be with me afterwards.

I thought that she and I would break up soon, but after a few months of dating, I found some of her strengths, so I struggled with whether to continue the relationship.