#Emotional Review Award#Ask: Cold love, I like a boy for a long time, it seems that it can't be described for a long time, two or three months after knowing each other for four years. Confessed, he clearly refused

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Q: Cold love, I like a boy for a long time, it seems that I can't use a long time to describe, two or three months after knowing each other for four years.

Confessed, he rejected me very clearly, but I still liked him, liked him again and again.

Every time I talk to him or meet him by chance on the street, I get my heart away.

What's more exaggerated is that when I saw him the other day, I turned around, but my heart couldn't stop accelerating, and then my legs were still weak.

I know he's not as good as I've learned, and I know he may have a lot of bad habits I don't know, and he doesn't seem to look as good as I did when I first liked him, but I continue to like him again and again.

I don't know what to do, to be honest, I don't think it's very likely that I'm with him, but I always feel like he should be my partner.

For so long, I didn't succeed in letting go of him every time.

Cold Love Reply:

Obviously, this is a situation of acacia.

It's not that it's a disease, but it's definitely not good for your mental health in the long run.

Crush on a person for three or five years, whether it is a girl crush on a boy or a boy crush on a girl, this is a very common thing.

But in this matter, we must ultimately understand and grow.

We need to realize that there are some people in this world who have been sent by God to teach us lessons, and it will be like a spell on us, and we must break our self-limitations before we can grow to the next stage of life.

Therefore, to treat such a crush, it is nothing more than to express.

Think about it, you have confessed, he has clearly rejected, but you still like it again and again, and now it is a big deal to confess again, a big deal to be rejected again, what else can you do?

In the final analysis, it is actually action, and then set a stop loss line for yourself: if the confession is rejected again, then you should give yourself a chance to let go, you know?

Why didn't I succeed in putting it down every time?

Because there is an obsession in your heart - you think he should be your partner.

So, what we have to let go of now is not him, but this thought.

Always having a thought of wanting the other person to be your partner, of course, can't let go.

If you confess again and are rejected, you have to meet new people.

Like we said about the 100-day action, knowing 100 boys, once you have the idea of being with another boy, you will cling to another person.

Of course, it is best not to cling to any thoughts, but if you can't do it, you can at least overwrite the old ones with new ones.

This is better than being acacia, better than always being repeatedly stimulated on the same thing, and repeatedly letting there be a magic obstacle in the heart.