There were four girls who entered an industry on the same day, but ten years later they were developing very differently. The winner of the last life is the quietest, no line changes, no tossing, no relationship

There were four girls who entered an industry on the same day, but ten years later they were developing very differently. The winner in the end of life is the quietest girl, no line changes, no tossing, no relationships. The girl with the highest education, the best development at the beginning, and the constant tossing and turning in the middle, the girl who once had unlimited scenery developed the worst, or even the most depressed.

The first girl was the oldest of the four, the most experienced, and the only one to marry. She belongs to the one who is relatively stable in the early stage, knows what she wants, can persist the most, can stay up the most, works hard steadily, and relies on her ability to eat. At first, the four of them entered the industry together and entered a company together, but only she survived for three years, from a nobody to a project director.

Since being a project director for a year and with outstanding performance, she has begun the road of tossing and turning, which is also the so-called road of job hopping and promotion. This is what it has always wanted, the yearning for power, the yearning for the high circle.

In the process, all her achievements come from her social dividend, since she was first recruited as a manager by a peer boss she knew, she learned the importance of networking, especially the good fortune brought to her by the connections that have power over her.

Since then, she has paid special attention to her appearance, and has also begun the road of self-marketing, every day will send a circle of friends to show their beauty, eating, drinking and having fun of exquisite appearance and exquisite life, but where a little achievement is achieved, she will send a circle of friends to promote herself, and at the same time will borrow tall people to market herself, such as taking photos with a big guy, helping a big guy forward his promotional materials, and a big guy's meal.

She has a high-class mouth, a delicate face, an extreme advantage, a clear goal, and these constitute the spear that has made her, a methodology for her to attack the city, seize the workplace position, and win the economic income, hand to hand, application freely, at least so far.

In this way, she achieved her goal, but one thing is that she climbed very fast, every time she jumped a slot, she could get a promotion of the position, but she didn't stay long, she would leave for more than a year, although the position went up, but the company she went to was getting worse and worse, and she didn't make much money over the years.

You know why? Because she patronizes herself in marketing, she has not sunk her heart to polish her professional ability. And she is good at packaging herself, touting herself, good at showing her most exquisite side to others, the leaders and bosses who are attracted to her, do not know her true ability and level, the first sight is heartwarming, but the contact has been long, and the defects of ability have been exposed. As a leader and boss, always pay attention to profits, a person who can't create benefits, with high wages, but can't create value, the boss is not a fool, naturally he will want to force him to leave.

In fact, she counts the four people who have the highest achievements in the position, at least achieved their life goals, is a relatively smart, more powerful woman, living thoroughly, and has a way to do things. Over the years, I have not made much money, but I have accumulated a lot of high-quality contacts and resources, and my aura, circle and social status have improved, which is an intangible asset. But if she does not polish her ability, the road ahead will become narrower and narrower, because the tree is a big move, and the word of mouth in the circle is easy to spread.

The second girl is the kind of girl who looks very quiet, doesn't say much, is very measured in doing things and talks, lives a relatively simple life, and wants things that are relatively simple. She does not climb high, does not want to be a leader, and wants to do her business well to make money.

She didn't make much money in the first two years of business, but she earned a house in the third year, and then it was a steady development based on business capabilities. She has always been relatively stable, and she is the kind of girl who has leisure and money, cultivates her own acres and three-quarters of land, does not worry about other people's idleness, and does not care about other people's idle things. Because there was not much ambition, marrying a man in business at the age of marriage.

All along, the most unoptimistic thing is this girl, who feels that she has no ability, is too greedy for comfort, and has no ideas, and seems to belong to the kind of silly white and sweet girl who does not understand the facts and has no brains. As a result, in the end, I found out that she was the most stable girl who talked less, did more, did not like to express herself, did not say big words, did not show off, and knew what she wanted, and was also the happiest person among the four people.

It is often said that the quietest person in the crowd is the most powerful person, and this statement is not wrong with her.

The third girl has the ability and ambition, but she drills the money eye, and if she has money to earn, she will do it if she has no money to earn, and her utilitarian spirit is too strong. Because I always want to make money, I am constantly tossing, although I have been tossing and turning in an industry, but I do not know how to insist, only pursue immediate interests, so I have been circling at the grassroots level, I have been changing companies, starting, giving up, and I have never made much money. Later, because of the poor development, I changed careers.

The fourth girl, speaking of this girl is the most painful. The highest of the four people with academic qualifications, at first it was also the one that everyone thought would develop the best in the future. However, like the third girl, ambition and desire are too big, utilitarianism is too strong, short-sighted, coupled with lack of understanding of facts, emotional intelligence is too low, do not know how to protect themselves. A lot of things have been done, but they are all shallow.

In recent years, it has also been around the grassroots level, constantly changing industries, changing companies, and working for a period of time without making money, it will give up. Even if you do a good job, but you are too glassy, you can't be wronged, you can't suffer, but whenever you don't meet your own wishes, you will be angry.

Therefore, it is also a big ups and downs, it seems to be very beautiful, very free, very free, very willful, but it is all self-consumption. After a few years, the energy was too scattered and nothing was achieved, and because the development of classmates and friends was better than their own, they were unwilling, and the whole person became very depressed, depressed and depressed at home.

The same starting point, different thinking, different choices, in the long river of time, finally cast a different life.

Is the starting point important? It is very important, but more important than the starting point, the process is more important, but more important than the process is the goal setting and methodology, but whether the goal can be achieved, it is more important to persist, and to persist requires a strong heart and the determination not to give up until the goal is reached.