Has anyone lived like me for more than thirty years, has always been cautious and flattering personality, and many things are first considered by other people's feelings and attitudes, as if they have never been ？

Has anyone lived like me for more than thirty years, has always been cautious and flattering personality, and many things are first considered by other people's feelings and attitudes, as if there has been no way to live out their true selves. Sometimes you don't even dare to take the initiative to say hello to others, and you often think wildly or have a lot of things in your head, which will make you very tired, and it may not be a character that others like.

Personality is really a very difficult thing to change, although you know that such a personality is not a good thing, but after living for more than thirty years, and my mother has said more than thirty years, but I am still the original self, and this aspect of personality has not changed at all.

I don't know what I'm afraid of, what I'm worried about, in short, for so many years, it seems that I have been thinking about others everywhere, considering the feelings of others, and everything is to meet the interests of others first, but I haven't made many close friends, maybe it has something to do with my dull personality.

I wonder if I don't love myself enough, only by learning to love myself, others will respect you more and like you.