The son was married for 7 days, and the mother was about to break them up, and it turned out that the daughter-in-law hid a lot of secrets from the in-laws: she was 8 years older than her son, and she had a marriage, and there was a 10-year-old child. These are difficult for them to accept.
Yang Shishi, 31, is a teacher, and a month ago, her mother-in-law came to her work every day to make a big fuss, making her dare not return to her home and losing her job.
The mother-in-law always forced her daughter-in-law to divorce, resulting in her being admitted to the hospital twice, canceling the originally agreed wedding banquet, and asking for a divorce after only 7 days of marriage, threatening her with no peace and making her more afraid to go out.
Seven days after Yang Shishi and Nie Jun got their marriage license, her mother Liu Li forced the little couple to separate, and less than two months after their marriage, she locked her son in the room and let him hide. At this time, Yang Shishi and her husband had not seen each other for 5 days.
When they were just married, the relationship between the two children was very good, and after living together, they began a sweet life. Yang Shishi cooks, Nie Jun washes the dishes, and will bring a yogurt to his wife, will call her love name, and make a lot of phone calls every day.
Because Nie Jun needed to go out to work very early every morning, Yang Shishi got up at 6 o'clock every morning to make him breakfast, just to prevent him from going hungry.
I never imagined that their marriage would end up in such a situation.
It turned out that Nie Jun was now 23 years old, and Yang Shishi was 31 years old, and when the two got married, they hid the age gap.
A week after the marriage, Yang Shishi told the man's family about her age. Unexpectedly, they were all very angry.
Knowing the gap between the daughter-in-law and the son's age by 8 years, the elderly in the family could not accept it.
As Nie Jun's mother, Li Li did not interfere too much in her son's marriage and love issues, thinking that her son's girlfriend was only two years older than him, and later learned her true age from her daughter-in-law's mouth, and she was married and had a 10-year-old child.
Yang Shishi and her ex-husband met through blind dates, married for 9 years, and lacked care for her ex-husband in her life, could not meet material and spiritual needs, and just partnered to live and raise children.
Today, the child is raised by her ex-husband, Yang Shishi and Nie Jun are married, and the in-laws love face and do not let the daughter-in-law look at the child. Yang Shishi also did it.
For her age marriage history, Yang Shishi confessed to Nie Jun before marriage. The matter of taking the initiative to inform her family of her past history has been discussed by both husband and wife.
Nie Jun claimed that he did not know his wife's past, but Yang Shishi had recordings and witnesses.
Li Li, as a mother-in-law, before the marriage of her son and daughter-in-law, did not meet Yang Shishi 10 times, before not knowing the fact that she concealed, she was very satisfied with the performance of this daughter-in-law, and offered to give her daughter-in-law 88800 yuan of dowry money. Unexpectedly, the daughter-in-law deceived her like this.
Whether before or after marriage, Li Li did not meet her daughter-in-law's parents, so she directly gave her the gift money.
The little couple has been talking for half a year, Li Li has always felt that her son is very well-behaved and obedient, has no experience in social human feelings, does not understand things, and he did not read at the age of 15.
Thinking that her son was well-behaved and sensible since childhood, and her daughter-in-law's mouth was very sweet, Li Li ignored her son's marriage.
Nie Jun pursued Yang Shishi for three months, and the two were together. Nie Jun just looked at her good for him, and did her best in eating, drinking, and taking care of him. Even when things were exposed, he didn't think about the consequences. Later, because of the age gap, Nie Jun found that communication with his wife was not smooth.
When she was newly married, in order to maintain this sister-brother relationship that was 8 years apart, Yang Shishi felt that she had paid too much. Now the couple meets like enemies.
At this step of divorce, Nie Jun believes that it is mainly because the gap between the two sides is too large, and his family is not optimistic, he does not dare to ask again. As for whether what his wife said was true, he didn't care so much anymore.
1 It is easy for sisters and brothers to fall in love with each other, but it is difficult to keep each other
Nie Jun, a well-behaved and sensible child since childhood, chose his wife, which was different from his parents' concept of marriage, and chose Yang Shishi, who was 8 years older than himself.
When the passion of love gradually faded, he came to question the marriage, re-examined the gap between them, coupled with the intervention of his parents, and finally he chose to give up the marriage.
2 Marriage is not a child's play
Two young people married because of the collision of passions, and there is no consideration for the future at all, and they are not honest with the family members of both sides.
Can hide for a while, can not hide a lifetime. After the truth was exposed, after the spark of love dissipated, the marriage lasted only 2 months. Once a pair of sweet lovers, they have become indifferent strangers.
After the divorce, Nie Jun was in a very good mood, smiled brightly, and felt free. But Yang Shishi is in a heavy heart, attaches great importance to the marriage of marriage, loves this family very much, and wants to live a good life.
Because of an unwise decision, it had a serious impact on both families.
3 No matter how beautiful others promise, it is better to polish their eyes
Before marriage, Nie Jun promised to give Yang Shishi a home, and everything in the family would be solved by him. This made Yang Shishi very moved and really invested in feelings.
But marrying someone is not just marrying a person, but also a family, even a family.
If you don't understand each other's family situation and family concepts, blindly paying, it is easy to fall behind.
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