Text: Shi Yi long affection
Not every emotion has a destination, I will interpret your heart. Welcome to follow.
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Whenever feelings are mentioned, there will be many people who are anxious to express their confusion and tell the words of their hearts that have been held in their hearts for a long time but no one has spoken.
One reader left a message saying that since falling in love, she has begun to suffer from loss and insecurity, and even often feels that the promises made by her boyfriend to her are just lies, and even the sweet words that make her ecstatic are not true.
I believe that in a relationship, there are many people who have these confusions and thoughts. Some people even said that they are obviously in love, but they have never felt the love given by men.
Therefore, in order to find out their position in the hearts of men, many people can only keep trying, asking men over and over again whether they love themselves, and looking for clues that men love themselves.
In fact, whether men love or not, your feelings are the best answer. The man who makes you feel this way, don't doubt, he really doesn't love you.
First, he is always hot and cold to you, making you insecure
When two people are together, what women value most is whether men can give themselves a sense of security.
However, it seems that a lot of men are just being passionate about you when they're just with you. At that time, he only needed a word and deed to make you happy for half a day, and you could clearly feel that his love for you was sincere.
But I don't know when it began, there was no freshness between you, there was no passion to speak of, and he began to be no longer as gentle and considerate to you as before, and he would no longer say some vows to you that moved you.
Ran Ran and her boyfriend have been together for two years, and both have reached the age of marriage, but the boyfriend always keeps a secret about marriage.
Whenever Ran Ran asked him when he had time to discuss marriage, the boyfriend always looked impatient and said coldly, "What is the hurry?"
Ran Ran also knows that her boyfriend's love for her is not as good as before, but the main reason why she feels that her boyfriend is cold to her is that the two people have been together for a long time, have no freshness, and are tired of the current mode of getting along, as long as they are married.
But in fact, how can a man who truly loves you be cold to you because he has been for a long time? The most real reason why a man is hot and cold to you is that his love for you has come to an end, and his relationship with you can only end here.
So you have to understand that men who don't love you will snub and alienate you. The man who loves you will always make you feel his love, even if he does not explain it to you with words, but his actions are moving closer to you step by step.
Second, the relationship between him and you is very average, not like a lover at all
It can be said that the words and deeds of lovers are very intimate. Even if it is a very ordinary sentence, once it comes out of the other person's mouth, it will seem particularly ambiguous.
But not all lovers are intimate, and only two people who love each other will attract each other and slowly get closer.
If the person you love also happens to love you, then there can be zero distance between him and you, you can feel his meticulous care and love, and you can also see the proof that he loves you from the details of getting along with him.
Conversely, a man who doesn't love you, gives you a commitment, but won't put it into action. He says he loves you, but you don't feel the slightest love.
Although you are lovers, you do not have the trust between relatives, nor the ease between friends, and your relationship seems to be a make-up life.
He will not speak to you from his heart, nor will he tell you about the interesting things that happen in life, your communication is very little, every day is to do their own thing, you are like a wall between you, no one can cross.
Admittedly, this way of getting along shows that your position in his heart is not too important, your existence is at best a "partner" to him, and there will be no intersection between you except when necessary.
The man who makes you feel this way, don't doubt, he really doesn't love you.
Love should be able to make people warm, and have a full sense of security, if a man is always hot and cold to you, indifferent to you, the relationship between you is not intimate at all, can only show that he does not really love you.
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