Text: Shi Yi long affection
Not every emotion has a destination, I will interpret your heart. Welcome to follow.
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A few days ago, a friend complained to me that her boyfriend was a "vinegar jar" who liked to worry about everything, and she was just saying goodnight to a friend of the opposite sex who had a good relationship, and her boyfriend argued with her, and even got into a fight to the point of breaking up.
Friends always think that she is just sending a goodnight, and it is not a big deal, it is that the boyfriend is too careful and always likes to think wildly.
Listening to her keep saying that the boyfriend's is not, I suddenly did a little bit for the boy. Obviously, the friend did not realize that she was at fault, and in her opinion, it was normal to say goodnight to friends of the opposite sex.
As everyone knows, in the eyes of people who truly love you, goodnight means that I love you, and it is only between lovers that can be said.
Sometimes, you inadvertently say a certain sentence to the opposite sex, maybe you think it is nothing, but there will always be a lot of misunderstandings and contradictions.
I have to say that between men and women, as long as it is not a lover relationship, or everyone has a heart to belong, there are their own families, even if the relationship between each other is good, we must also grasp a good sense of proportion, what words can be said and what can not be said, we must always remember in our hearts, so as not to cause unnecessary misunderstandings.
No matter how good the relationship between men and women, do not say these words.
Thinking of you is an intimate expression that can only be found between lovers
A sentence that misses you contains too many thoughts and unspeakable words. Most of the time, we say "miss you" to our loved ones and friends, which is an expression of emotion.
But the most you say is when you live with a person in your heart, and he can't always be by your side, you can only express your thoughts about him through a sentence of "missing you".
That is to say, thinking of you, generally speaking, is an intimate expression between lovers. You can't just tell people that you miss you because you have a good relationship with the opposite sex.
As the saying goes: "The speaker has no intention, but the listener has a heart." "Maybe when you say this sentence, there is no mood fluctuation, and you have no other meaning, but the other party will inevitably guess and speculate on your sentence, and finally misunderstand what you say."
So, if you already have a significant other, you should keep your distance from the opposite sex, don't cross the line, in your opinion, a sentence that misses you does not mean anything. But in the eyes of someone who truly loves you, this is the ambiguous tone, and he will not only be jealous, but also sad.
It's nice to have you, it's an affirmation of the other half
I have met many people who habitually rely on others wherever they go, I don't know if you are the same, always hoping that there is such a person who appears next to you when you are lonely and helpless.
When he solves your difficulties for you again and again, and soothes the uneasiness in your heart for you, your heart will inevitably develop an attachment to him.
If you are a couple or a couple, you can safely say to him, "It's good to have you", because this is an affirmation of the other half, and having him will make you feel at ease, and he will give you a full sense of security.
But if one of your friends of the opposite sex is nice to you, he will lend you a helping hand when you need it, and you can't say to him", "It's good to have you" because of a momentary feeling.
Unless your feelings for him are not ordinary, you have different feelings for him in your heart, and you want to have further understanding and contact with him. Otherwise, it is best not to say this sentence easily.
Because once some words are spoken, they can never be taken back. Originally it was just a very ordinary sentence, but it will always make people think wildly unconsciously.
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Author: Shi Yi Changqing, a southern girl who loves words and lives hard, every word has its meaning of existence, hoping to give you strength and help you be strong.