Text: Shi Yi long affection
Not every emotion has a destination, I will interpret your heart.
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In the world of feelings, chatting is the fastest way to heat up feelings.
Two people who do not have any intersection in life, are irrelevant to each other, and have not even met each other, chat for a long time, and always have secret feelings for each other and have a special attachment.
You think that you occasionally chat with each other and share the joys and sorrows of life with each other because of a good relationship, just a friendship between friends.
As everyone knows, there is not much pure friendship between the opposite sex, and your dependence and trust on each other are actually because you have a good feeling for each other, are willing to open up to each other, and get close to and accept everything about each other.
I want to tell you that between the opposite sex, such a chat means having a good feeling for each other.
When you are in a bad mood, you will ask the other person for comfort
Some people say: In front of strangers, even if they are sad and unhappy, they will hide their bad emotions and disguise themselves as if they are okay, so that people can't see your inner waves at all.
And in the face of familiar people and things, you will remove all disguises, even if you are indestructible to outsiders, you will always show weakness and helplessness in front of those close to you.
Admittedly, most people only show a vulnerable side in front of someone they are intimate or like, in order to seek comfort from the other person.
If you are depressed and in a bad mood, you will always tell the other party about the troubles in your heart, and want to tell the other party about the things that make you unhappy.
When you get the other party's response and enlightenment, your mood will unconsciously change for the better, and the whole person will feel very happy, indicating that your heart has a love for him and likes it.
Of course, he will always talk to you from the heart, and when he is hurt and sad, he will always unconsciously tell you that he wants to get your company and comfort.
When they get along together, they will call each other in an ambiguous tone
When you get along with people, how well you relate to others often depends on how you call each other when you first met.
You may feel that it is not just a title, and it will not have much impact on the quality of the relationship. But in fact, when two people first meet, the first impression is very important, and the title is equally important.
For example, when you meet for the first time, after introducing each other to each other, you call someone else's nickname, or just call the last word of each other's name, which will make people feel very kind, so as to pull into each other's distance and establish a friendly relationship.
Similarly, the name of the opposite sex when chatting will also promote the feelings of two people, when you get along together, you will always use ambiguous titles to chat with each other, which is actually a signal that you have a good feeling for each other.
You know, how to call a person, mostly stems from the relationship between two people, just like when chatting with good friends, many people will affectionately call each other's "nickname", and when chatting with the opposite sex they like, they will always call each other in an ambiguous tone from time to time.
For example, many people are accustomed to calling the opposite sex they like "dear", "baby", "fool" and "stupid", these titles seem to be nothing, in fact, only two people who like each other will be so close.
When chatting, don't mind the other person asking about their family or private affairs
In the world of feelings, everyone will have their own privacy, will hide some small secrets in their hearts, and will not easily say their family or private affairs in front of others.
However, once you have a crush on someone and have a good feeling, your heart will unconsciously want to have further development with him, rather than just being a friend.
When the other party is close to you, you will not reject or get bored, but will also whisper joy in your heart, because you like him, want to have a deeper understanding of him, and also hope that he can know more about you.
Therefore, when the other party is chatting with you and asking about your family situation, you will always let down your guard and tell the other party, will not deliberately hide, and will not deceive.
When you talk about some personal matters, you will treat him as the closest person, and say them without reservation, even if some things have been hidden in your heart for a long time, you have no need to worry about him.
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Author: Shi Yi Changqing, a southern girl who loves words and lives hard, every word has its meaning of existence, hoping to give you strength and help you be strong.
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