Text: Shi Yi long affection
Not every emotion has a destination, I will interpret your heart.
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In this world, some people will love you, understand you, and cherish you, and there are also people who don't put you in their eyes and don't have to cherish you.
As soon as someone has a slightly better relationship with you, you pour out your heart and lungs for him and treat him as the most important person.
As everyone knows, you are just a dispensable existence in the eyes of others.
When he needs you, he will maintain close interaction with you, show a very warm look to you in all aspects, and suddenly have a cold attitude towards you after getting your help.
During the time when you are ignored and snubbed, you always find reasons in yourself, live carefully, and please others while reflecting on yourself.
But what you don't know is that you haven't done anything wrong, it's just that you don't matter at all in people's minds.
That is, wherever you are, where people who don't need you, don't care about you, what you do is superfluous.
People who want to tell you that they don't cherish you will look at you like this, and when they understand, they will let go.
Don't give your heart to the wrong person, in the end it will not only waste time, but also hurt yourself.
Do not accept your efforts, resist your proximity
In life, I will always meet a person who understands your sorrows and joys, and knows your warmth and coldness.
I didn't associate with you for the sake of taking, nor on a whim, but met you as if I had met another self.
Therefore, he will always seriously manage your relationship and cherish everything you do for him.
He doesn't distance himself from you because you're poor or worthless, and he doesn't pretend to be unfamiliar with your friends.
But there are really very few people around you who can be so sincere to you.
Some people, you regard him as very important, think about him everywhere, and share his worries, but people simply don't take it seriously and don't accept your efforts.
Especially in the case of many people, for the sake of his so-called face, he will always resist your closeness and does not want to have too much to do with you.
Even if he will explain to you afterwards, he will not sincerely apologize to you, but your existence is still useful to him.
Not speaking from your heart, always lying to you
The establishment of a relationship is premised on trust.
You trust him, and he trusts you, and you say to each other unreservedly the words that have been hidden in your heart for a long time but have never been heard by anyone.
Since you met each other, you have regarded each other as the most trustworthy person, no matter what you think, no matter what you say in your heart, you will no longer hide it.
But one day you find that the words you have said to him alone have suddenly reached the ears of others, and your little secrets have become the talk of others after dinner.
After slowly understanding it, you understand that the words he said to you in his heart, he said to everyone.
He has never said a word from his heart to you, and even the experience of making you feel empathy is just a lie.
Obviously, a person who does not speak to you from the heart, and even often lies to you, is only to maintain a superficial relationship with you, and does not take you in his heart at all, nor will he cherish you.
Disrespect your ideas and ignore your presence
I have always felt that no matter what kind of relationship, it should be equal and respectful.
He will not impose his will on you, and he will not ask you to pay more for him because you treat him with your heart.
You cherish him with all your heart, and he cherishes you equally, and he will never give up your relationship for the sake of temporary benefits.
In contrast, there is always someone who does not know how to respect you when they are with you, and even intentionally or unintentionally demeans you.
With him, he is always on the strong side, and you are like a small follower of him, who can only obey his dispatches.
Sometimes you want to express your opinion, but before you can finish speaking, he ruthlessly interrupts you.
In public, he is always playing with himself, knowing that you are not familiar with life, and he does not care about your feelings and deliberately ignores your existence.
In fact, such a person obviously does not respect you and does not put you in his heart, so he is not afraid of loss and does not want to cherish.
Some people say: When interacting with people, the most feared is that the true heart will be hurt and the true feelings will be disappointed.
But in the vast sea of people, meet many people, miss many people, will understand that people who are willing to cherish you, you never have to worry about losing.
And those who do not cherish you will make you pay unilaterally, one-sidedly please, and always reject your kindness when getting along with you, do not treat you honestly, and do not respect your ideas.
I hope that someone understands your piece of sincerity, and the true feelings will never be disappointed.
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Author: Shi Yi Changqing, a southern girl who loves words and lives hard, every word has its meaning of existence, hoping to give you strength and help you be strong.
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