Text: Shi Yi long affection
Not every emotion has a destination, I will interpret your heart.
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If you like a person, you will always miss it, even if it is only a short separation, you will be sad and lost.
In the days when you can't see each other, you will always find ways to maintain frequent contact with each other, ask about each other's situation, and care about each other's lives.
In fact, this is the most obvious manifestation of caring about a person, the love born of the heart, which cannot be hidden or disguised.
However, not all people who like you will care about you, and there are always some people who like you just with their lips and never put it into practice.
Your place in his heart doesn't matter, it's always you giving and taking the initiative between you, every time you're in contact with him, and he seems to contact you only when needed.
Seriously, men who can resist not contacting you don't really care about you.
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Men who don't care about you, won't be in a hurry after disconnection.
In a relationship, women will be insecure.
Even if there is only a little wind and grass or some small things, it will make women think wildly, and even suffer from gains and losses.
So, a man who really cares about you will definitely give you enough security.
No matter what happens, he won't snub you for a long time or not contact you for a long time.
After you break off contact with him, he will be anxious and uneasy, will worry that you will suddenly disappear into his life, and will be afraid that you will really leave him.
On the contrary, a man who doesn't care about you will not consider your feelings after disconnection, and his heart will not be in a hurry.
As long as you don't initiate contact him, he will never be able to initiate it for you once.
You think he's a character reason, not deliberately not contacting you.
But in the world of feelings, even the most introverted and shy men can't help but express their feelings when facing people they like.
A man who can bear not to contact you is actually not concerned about you, so he will not be in a hurry and will not be sad after breaking the connection.
03
Men who don't care about you, see face more important than you.
In the process of getting along, two people will always quarrel over some small things, and friction will occur because of disagreements.
At this time, the attitude of a person to you after an argument is enough to see what position you are in his heart.
People who really care about you, quarrels and contradictions will contact you in time, even if the wrong is not him, he is willing to put down his face, lower his posture and ask you for peace.
Girlfriend's boyfriend is like this, every time he has a conflict with his girlfriend and is blocked, he will always go out of his way to seek help from the outside world.
Those so-called faces are nothing compared to girlfriends.
However, if a man doesn't care about you, you don't want him to bow his head for you, and you don't expect him to put down his face for you.
Your place in his heart is far less than his face, he would rather you be sad and disappointed in him, and he will not take the initiative to contact you.
04
Men who don't care about you are unwilling to leave time for you.
There is a saying on the Internet: "Where a man's time is, his heart is where it is." ”
In a way, this statement is not without reason.
A man who cares about you will always worry about you, will always call you regularly to send messages, so that you can rest assured, even if he is busy at work and tired at work, he will not forget to say goodnight to you before going to bed.
It can be seen that men who really care about you are willing to spend time on you and are willing to leave time for you.
But, the man who doesn't care about you, even if he's idle every day and has a lot of time to eat, drink and have fun every day, he won't contact you.
Just think, how can a man who can resist not contacting you possibly really like you?
As the saying goes, there are three things in the world that can't be hidden: poverty, coughing, and love.
People who really like you, can't see that every minute and every second of you is suffering, so it is impossible to not contact you for a long time.
Instead of a man who really cares about you, his feelings for you are not deep, and his thoughts about you are not strong, so he can always bear not to contact you and is not willing to leave time for you.
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Author: Shi Yi Changqing, a southern girl who loves words and lives hard, every word has its meaning of existence, hoping to give you strength and help you be strong.
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