Text: Shi Yi long affection
Not every emotion has a destination, I will interpret your heart. Welcome to follow.
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The Internet said: "Beautiful women are more likely to attract the eyes of the opposite sex and attract the attention of the opposite sex." ”
That being said, not all women who make men think about it are beautiful.
Love is actually a kind of temperament, personality mutual attraction or complementarity.
For many people, having a beautiful face is indeed easier for men to fall in love at first sight, but love at first sight generally cannot withstand the test of time and distance.
Although a woman's good looks can make men move, but it can fascinate men, it must be an intrinsic quality that has always stayed with women.
Mr. Yang Dai once wrote: A woman who has no resentment in life is particularly worthy of respect, and a woman who never mentions the past brings her own nobility. Be a woman with a smooth wind and rain between her eyebrows, quiet in warmth, at peace in her heart, not impatient, light and cheerful.
I have to say that the women mentioned by Mr. Yang Dai are rare in life, and what can fascinate men is not their looks, but their attitude towards life.
Women who fascinate men, there are these differences.
Don't complain about everything, smile and face life
It's not hard to find that a grumpy, complaining woman is generally not popular with people.
And women who don't often lose their temper and can control their emotions are often more likely to be close to people.
They seem to have some kind of magic in them, and everyone who has come into contact with them will give them a high evaluation, and they are very willing to have a further connection with them later.
In fact, such women often do not complain about the unsatisfactory life, even if they have to work harder than others to live the life they want, they have no complaints.
They are always positive and optimistic about life, because they believe that there is no problem in the world that cannot be solved, and there is no obstacle that cannot be overcome.
Therefore, men prefer to get along with women who are not complaining, not negative, and full of positive energy than women who are good looking but always like to complain.
Not entangled in the past, full of enthusiasm for the future
Everyone will have some past that they don't want to recall, and there will be some secrets hidden in their hearts.
For men, once they decide to start a new relationship, they don't easily mention the past again.
Therefore, men generally do not want women to always ask about their former emotional life, nor do they want women to test their sincerity.
Some women are extremely insecure in their relationships, always worried that men still have feelings for their exs, and have not really let go of the past.
In fact, the reason why women have this kind of thinking is generally because they are not confident enough in themselves, so they put a lot of time and energy on men, so that men have no freedom in time and space.
And a woman who is not entangled in the past, with men will get along in a relatively comfortable way, men do not say things they will never ask more, men do not want to intervene in the things they will not be nosy.
In their view, the greatest sense of security for women is that they must be able to have a strong heart, be able to cope with the unsatisfactory life at any time, and the changes that will occur emotionally.
So, they don't take love as everything, they don't give up on themselves, and they surround men all day. In addition, no matter when and where, they will be full of enthusiasm for life, full of confidence in the future, and grow upward with a positive and optimistic attitude.
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Author: Shi Yi Changqing, a southern girl who loves words and lives hard, every word has its meaning of existence, hoping to give you strength and help you be strong.