Text: Shi Yi long affection
Not every emotion has a destination, I will interpret your heart. Welcome to follow.
-
Zhang Ailing once said: "The greatest happiness in life is to find that the person you love also loves yourself." ”
Deeply. In the world of feelings, the most embarrassing thing is that the people you love don't love you, and the people who love you don't love you.
But fortunately, there is always a person who appears for you, who knows that you are cold and warm, who understands your sorrows and joys, and who will wholeheartedly treat you in the long river of time.
Whether you are gentle or grumpy, he will not abandon you, spoil you with his only preference that belongs to you, and love you.
No matter how unreasonable you are, or how often you make trouble, he will give you enough patience to tolerate you and comfort you.
In short, with him, you never need to envy others, he will give you the pampering you want, will satisfy your princess dreams and girlish heart, and always put you as a small child in the palm of your hand.
I want to tell you: men love you to the bone, will be so to you, there is one to cherish with the heart.
Actively draw a line with the opposite sex and maintain an appropriate distance
In the vast sea of people, whether men or women, there will be more or less a few very good friends of the opposite sex.
In their spare time, everyone will always get together to chat and relieve boredom and joke with each other. There are even times when words and deeds have gone beyond the boundaries of friends.
But at that time, after all, there was no one in my heart, and I didn't care too much about these ambiguous actions and words.
However, once he has moved his heart to you and is sure that he wants to be with you for the rest of his life, he will shift his whole heart and attention to you.
He knows what you care about and knows exactly what you'll mind if he gets too close to the opposite sex.
There are some words that even if you don't say it and don't make any demands on him, he will take the initiative to draw a line with the opposite sex and keep an appropriate distance.
Even if he knew that once he drew a line with the opposite sex that was once very good, it meant that there would be less contact between them in the future, and there would be no more contact, and he would not hesitate.
Because he knows that you are the most important thing to him compared to other people, and you are the person he wants to spend the rest of his life with.
Introduce the people around you to you and let you fit into his circle
Many people who love each other are mostly from different environments, different families, and different circles.
Before they met, there was almost no intersection between the two people, so neither of them knew much about each other's social circles and were not familiar with each other.
At this time, if a man does not want to have a long-term development with you, nor does he intend to enter the palace of marriage with you, then he naturally will not want you to know the people around you.
Even, he will take it for granted that the fewer people who know, the better, so he will rarely take the initiative to disclose your relationship, even if he occasionally sends a circle of friends, he will deliberately set it to only you.
However, if a man loves you to the bone, he is eager to let the whole world know that you are his person, so he will always introduce the people around you to you and let you know his dating range.
In addition, the purpose of introducing you to his relatives and friends is also to hope that you can know more about him, slowly integrate into his life, and let you adapt to his living environment as soon as possible.
When you are unwell, you will be by your side and take good care of you
Women in love are not only sensitive and suspicious, but also have a particular vulnerability inside.
Especially when the body is unwell, it is eager to get the care and companionship of the other party.
But many men don't pay attention to details and can't find a woman's small emotions, so they will always ignore a woman's feelings when she needs it most.
In fact, in other words, a man who does not pay attention to details and does not know your emotional changes is just not attentive to you.
Therefore, when you ask him for care and companionship, he will always respond to you perfunctorily; when you have a cold and fever and need him, he will always find all kinds of reasons to get out; when you come to list the fake pain is unbearable, he will only let you drink more hot water.
Obviously, such a man doesn't really love you.
A man who truly loves you, as long as you need, he will put down his work and run to you, accompany you when you are unwell, take care of you carefully, give you warmth, give you companionship.
Whether a man really loves you or not, the difference is where the difference lies. You don't need to guess, and you don't need to try to test, and the man who loves you to the bone will naturally pay for you willingly.
A man, if you do the above three points to you, it is true love, there is no doubt, there is a point to cherish with your heart, because it is really hard to be willing to be such a person to you.
-End-
Author: Shi Yi Changqing, a southern girl who loves words and lives hard, every word has its meaning of existence, hoping to give you strength and help you be strong.