Love has always been a dance of two people, not a carnival of one person.
If a relationship has been one person silently paying, but the other person is indifferent and blind, then this relationship will certainly not last long.
Because one of them always does a lot of things for the other party and tries to make the other person happy, but the other party always ignores it, or only enjoys it, but never pays.
In the relationship, a person's one-man show is hard and helpless, and the heart is tormented, entangled in the other party's attitude towards himself and his own opinion.
Such wishful thinking may not be able to exchange for the other party's touch, and waiting for the other party's emotions will make themselves fall into endless suffering, both dazed and entangled, helpless and lonely.
Perhaps, one day, the paying party, who can no longer persist, will suddenly wake up and choose to end this one-man one-man show.
If in a relationship, the two people are in agreement, respect and understanding each other, help and pay each other, the two will truly get sweetness and happiness, willing to go hand in hand.
There is no doubt that being with someone who is happy with themselves is more liberating, more exciting, and motivated to persevere than with someone who does not love themselves.
If the woman you love allows you to do these three things to her, it is actually a hint that she is affectionate with you. Well, you can be brave and take the initiative to take a step forward and let her feel your affection.
01. Allow your proximity
Like, means a curiosity, a kind of care.
If you like a person, you will want to get close to each other, want to know each other better, and get close to each other's hearts.
If a woman allows you to get closer, it means that she has a good feeling for you, and her heart longs for your closeness, and you come to her side and appear in front of her eyes.
Even if she doesn't say it, her heart is very eager for you to be close to her, to accompany her, to care for her, to give her warmth, to illuminate her world.
A woman will promise you to meet her alone, be happy to contact you when you have time, and gladly accept your help, all of which is allowing you to be close to her, enter her world, and give her love and warmth.
And a woman who doesn't love you will only deliberately keep a distance from you, not let you get close to her, and reject you outside of her world.
Only a woman who loves you will allow you to be close to her, allow you to be by her side, and accept the warmth and tenderness you bring.
02. Allow your stubbornness
Everyone will have their own little temper, their own stubbornness and stubbornness.
No one will tolerate your temper and tolerate your stubbornness for no reason. A person who does not care about you will only have feelings of disgust and resistance to your temper and stubbornness.
Only those who love you will feel sorry for you, care about you, make appropriate concessions to your stubbornness, and silently tolerate your temper.
When you stubbornly insist on your opinion, instead of being reasonable at length, he will choose to respect your choices and your decisions.
Truly loving someone means learning to tolerate him, not trying to transform him.
The woman who loves you will allow your stubbornness, tolerate your temper, understand your difficulties, and understand your difficulties.
03. Allow your criticism
In this world, no one likes to be criticized and accused by others for no reason, except for those they care about and those who are close to them.
Faced with accusations from outsiders, our first reaction is to choose to fight back and protect our dignity. Instead of silently enduring and blindly compromising.
Only when faced with the reproach of our loved ones will we sincerely accept and silently reflect on ourselves.
In fact, this is not because of fear, but because of caring about the other party, trusting the other party, so willing to accept his criticism, accept his opinion.
A woman who loves you from the bottom of her heart and puts you on her heart will willingly accept your criticism and accusations when she makes mistakes.
She allows you to criticize, in fact, a kind of recognition of you, a kind of trust, a kind of trust.
Emotional Message:
A woman's love is not as direct and bold as a man's love.
Women are shy by nature, even if they fall in love with a man, they will not express their affection to each other bluntly.
Their love is implicit, it is euphemistic, but it is also the deepest and most tender.
The woman's permission to get close to you, your stubbornness, your criticism, is actually implying that she is emotional about you.
If you have true feelings for her, then please cherish this feeling and cherish the woman in front of you.
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