At 12 o'clock in the evening, my wife took my phone to play a game. She inadvertently saw that I transferred 80,000 yuan to my ex-girlfriend. She was furious and went back to her mother's house all night to complain. The mother-in-law immediately called and said, "Boy,

At 12 o'clock in the evening, my wife took my phone to play a game. She inadvertently saw that I transferred 80,000 yuan to my ex-girlfriend. She was furious and went back to her mother's house all night to complain. The mother-in-law immediately called and said, "Boy, how bold are you?" You dare to bully my daughter, come to my house, kneel down and apologize in front of your face! ”

I am Wang Jianguo, 38 years old. I worked hard in Beijing for more than 10 years, but still did not succeed. In addition to being a coolie, I was just an ordinary security guard. For more than ten years, he only saved 50,000 yuan, and in desperation, he had to listen to his parents and returned to his hometown.

In order to earn some gas, I took the 50,000 yuan and opened a small chicken farm on the back hill outside the village. After 5 years of hard work, my chicken farm has matured in scale and can earn 200,000 yuan per year. For this reason, my parents are also very satisfied with me!

After 2 years of marriage, my wife gave birth to a son for me, I am very happy, I think this is the beginning of my happy life.

However, there are also unforeseen circumstances. The following events directly ruined my happy life and made me fall into a difficult choice!

15 days ago, I was pulling a truckload of eggs to a big restaurant. Unexpectedly, I unloaded the eggs on the truck and went to the restaurateur to check out. When passing by the kitchen behind the restaurant, I suddenly saw a woman with a face full of vicissitudes, looking down and brushing the bowl. What shocked me the most was that this woman was actually my ex-girlfriend.

Speaking of my ex-girlfriend! This is a wound in my heart. My ex-girlfriend's name is Haiyan. She was my classmate. We both graduated from junior high school.

I remember working in the same factory after we graduated. Over time, we naturally fell in love and lived together. However, 3 years later, I went to her house to propose marriage, but was strongly opposed by her parents.

At that time, her parents strongly demanded that Haiyan marry an old man who was rich, and no matter how much we pleaded with each other, it was to no avail. In the end, in desperation, we were forced to break up!

Thinking of this, I immediately stepped forward, took my ex-girlfriend's hand, and said to her: "Haiyan, is it you?" How do you wash dishes here? What's wrong? Aren't you married to a rich man? ”

Haiyan was startled by me, and as soon as she saw that it was me, the tears fell.

After she had finished washing the dishes for a while, Haiyan calmed down, pulled me aside, and told me about her.

It turned out that after Haiyan married a rich man, the first two years were not bad, but since Haiyan gave birth to a daughter, her husband began to dislike her in various ways and often beat her. Later her husband found a beautiful woman outside and abandoned her directly.

After the divorce, Haiyan took her daughter back to her mother's house.

Unexpectedly, 30 days ago, Haiyan's father suddenly fell ill and fell into a coma, relying on drugs to maintain his life every day! It costs a lot of money to be hospitalized every day, and slowly, the family's savings are almost spent!

In this way, Haiyan had to come out to do part-time dishwashing to make a living!

Hearing this, my heart was sour, I took out my mobile phone, transferred eighty thousand yuan to Haiyan, and said to her: "Haiyan, you use this money first, don't rush to pay it back, I will have it later, there are difficulties you can come to me at any time, after all, you are my first love!" ”

Haiyan listened to me, excitedly shook my hand, hugged me, and burst into tears!

Unexpectedly, at 12 o'clock the night before, when I was taking a shower, my wife suddenly took her mobile phone to play a game and accidentally saw the record of my transfer to my ex-girlfriend.

Without even thinking about it, my wife was angry, and after I took a shower, I yelled at me: "You can, you actually carried me out to find a woman, and transferred eighty thousand yuan to others, are you very happy?" ”

After listening, I was speechless and could only smile bitterly in my heart.

When my wife saw that I did not speak, she thought that I had acquiesced, slapped me in the face, turned around and threw the door out, and returned to her mother's house overnight.

Early the next morning, I was woken up by my mother-in-law's phone. When it was connected, I heard my mother-in-law shouting: "Boy, are you fat?" How dare you bully my daughter? Come to my house, make things clear, get down on your knees and apologize. ”

My mother-in-law hung up the phone when she finished, and before I could speak, I could only smile bitterly and shake my head.

Just like that, I hurriedly put on my clothes and went to my mother-in-law's house. When I saw their family, they all looked at me coldly.

I tried to explain, but before I could speak, my mother-in-law said to me, "Son, since you're here, we don't bother to listen to your explanation, anyway, let the woman return eighty thousand pieces to my daughter." "Otherwise, you're ready for a divorce!"

Hearing this, I sneered in my heart, this is too unreasonable! They didn't even give me time to explain, so I made a decision.

Stand up and say, "No matter what you think of me, I'm not ashamed of what I've done, and if you insist on getting a divorce, I agree!" ”

With that said, I turned around and left! Anyway, I also have my own savings, why do you listen to their arrangements and make me kneel down and apologize? Where is the man's face?

Let's talk about it, I lent my ex-girlfriend 80,000 yuan, did I do it right?

@Xiao Liu's heartache

First of all: after reading what you said, I think you did the right thing. When your ex-girlfriend is in trouble, you can help her. If you choose to help, it means that you are a kind-hearted, sentient and righteous person!

Second: After your wife learned about this, not only did she not understand you, but she also joined forces with her mother to threaten you, which shows that they are selfish people and do not deserve sympathy!

So I suggest: you calm down for a few days and then talk to them finally and see what they have to say. If they're still so stubborn, then get a divorce!

Finally, we must understand a truth:

If a person is self-righteous because he has read a lot of books, does not listen to bad advice, and does not introspect himself, he will make people hate iron and steel. Not only do friends keep their mouths shut and stay away, but their loved ones also ignore them and let them act alone. How can such a lonely fate not be pitiable? As the saying goes, listen to people's advice, eat a trench and grow a wisdom. This is the right thing to do! Be kind to others