There is a young man, after getting married, like a changed person, his mother has always loved him, once he also sympathized with his mother, but now he listens to his wife, his mother kindly teaches him to go east, he prefers to go west.

There is a young man, after getting married, like a changed person, his mother has always loved him, once he also sympathized with his mother, but now he listens to his wife, his mother kindly teaches him to go east, he prefers to go west.

Every New Year's Festival, his mother taught him that now that he is married, he must learn to maintain the relationship between relatives and friends in the family, but he runs exclusively to his mother-in-law's house, and his relatives do not care.

In life, the mother watched her son work overtime until late at night every day, did not eat well, slept well, and was often looked down upon by his wife, saying that he would not repair the electrical appliances when they were broken.

The mother asked herself, it is true that her own child did not do a good job, kindly advised him to enlighten him, usually do things with sharp hands and feet, important things in the family, the man has to pick the responsibility, he does not listen, but also to say the opposite deliberately angry mother.

The son did not listen to the mother's advice, and the mother was also weak in front of the daughter-in-law, which further encouraged the daughter-in-law's bad temper.

There are inevitably differences between the family, but as soon as the daughter-in-law loses her temper, she will make a big fuss about divorce.

Sai De's mother-in-law had no words to say, thinking that who told his son not to be angry, and the son could not do himself well, who else could he count on?

No matter how you are a person, you can't lose yourself, even if you can't do your own job well, what do you take to love others, and why let others love?

In Mr. Lin Yutang's "Biography of Su Dongpo", Su Dongpo's life was bumpy, because of the "Wutai Poetry Case", his fate took a big turn, from a talent with long sleeves to a peasant with barefoot and short sleeves.

He has never given up on himself, not disturbed by the outside world, as the pillar of the family, for the livelihood of a family of more than 20 people, there is no money in his pocket, what to do?

First to solve the problem of food and clothing, the locals eat beef, mutton, pork no one eats, Su Dongpo does not care about the world's vision, but the creation of pork into a thousand years of famous dishes "Dongpo meat".

Others could not stop his feet, he had no salary, he supported himself, there was no government affairs, he was happy, accompanied his family to visit the West Lake, made friends with monks, and occasionally invited a few friends to write poems and paint and drink.

In the author Mr. Lin Yutang believes that Su Dongpo's living in the Lingao Pavilion in Huangzhou, Wuhan, is not much to boast about, but that small place has entered the literary world countless times and has been written by the poet Dongpo as picturesque.

His political enemies wanted him to die, but he lived a rich and colorful life, as if he were in heaven, happy as a god.

When he was at ease here, the palace informed him to return to the dynasty.

Political enemies impeached him for slandering the emperor, but he looked down on the kind of person who was only promised, flattered, and had no opinion. He said that if the courtiers did not tell the truth to the emperor, everyone would be harmonious, how to govern the country?

Su Dongpo could see clearly what tricks they had for these traitors and villains, and although he was repeatedly belittled or grounded and not given an important position, he himself had the people of the country in mind, and in Huangzhou, he saw the villagers eating babies, rushing to report to Taishou overnight, and providing a set of solutions that he had thought out in advance.

Everyone else is in the clouds, but he dares to speak out, and he can really understand.

The first thing he fought for at the imperial court was to "open up the way of speech", that is, to fight for freedom of speech.

He said: "Man cannot speak, he is isolated from top to bottom, he cannot complain to himself, it is like a horse." That is, if the literati cannot think independently and do not have the courage to criticize, freedom of speech will ultimately be useless.

He praised Ouyang Xiu instead of An shi, the king of nan.

He reported to the empress dowager that he wanted to completely abolish the Qingmiao Loan Law, which was enforced during Wang Anshi's reign.

He personally served as an invigilator, paying special attention to the selection of real talents by the state, and sometimes retrieving the examination papers discarded by other examiners and re-reading and re-reading and re-reading and admitting, from then on, he found that the examination system of the imperial examination needed to be improved, such as the wind of relatives at that time, the people recommended by the imperial family and nobles, Su Dongpo suggested abolishing the method of exempting the examination.

He not only dares to speak out, does things conscientiously and responsibly, is worthy of the people of the country, but also worthy of himself, and he is not afraid of how his political enemies let him wander the world.

If he is not given official duties, he can live freely, and if he is given official duties, he can do a deep victory over the hearts of the people and make people jealous.

When he came to Hangzhou, which he considered himself to be his second hometown, he devoted himself to serving the people of Hangzhou, building hospitals, building old houses, building barns, cleaning the drinking water system, cleaning the West Lake, building a pavilion, the people commemorating his virtue and government, giving Su Dongpo a statue in the pavilion, but it was demolished by political enemies, but it could never tear down the image of Su Dongpo in the hearts of the people.

Su Dongpo is optimistic, compassionate, and a good friend of the people of Li Min, a poet, painter, gourmet, and engineer.

He has been strengthening himself since he studied seriously, because he has done a good job of himself, these qualities have become his wealth and strength, and no matter wave after wave of suffering of others, he can come to cover up the water and have the ability to turn dry things into jade.

The young man above, if he can arrange his life properly and work smoothly, he takes the initiative to pick up this family, so that he can do a good job, and the elderly mother should be at ease. He himself can stand up and be a man, not half a point lower than anyone, but others will turn back to admire him.