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After 5 years of divorce, my ex-husband called me in the middle of the night and cried and said to me: Now that I know that you are the person I love the most, can you give me another chance to start over. After that texted me and mentioned it to me

After 5 years of divorce, my ex-husband called me in the middle of the night and cried and said to me: Now that I know that you are the person I love the most, can you give me another chance to start over. After that, he texted me and made a very unreasonable request to me, and I didn't even think about refusing.

My name is Xiao Yan, from the countryside, 33 years old this year, the ex-husband is a college classmate, the first year of college we chatted more, slowly understand the contact, we like each other, it is natural to talk about love.

The husband is an only son, a local, and the former mother-in-law did not want him to go to other provinces when he filled in the college entrance examination, so he chose to go to a local university. After graduating from college, my ex-husband said he didn't want to separate from me and asked me to find a job locally, in order to be with him, I agreed, my ex-husband entered a public institution under the arrangement of his parents, and I entered a small company as a clerk in order to survive.

After working for half a year, the ex-mother-in-law always let her ex-husband go on a blind date, and the ex-husband discussed with me that he would take me to see my parents, but my job was not very good, and I was a little inferior and did not dare to meet. My ex-husband comforted me by saying that his mother was a very kind and enlightened person, and she would like me and let me not be burdened.

The first time I met my ex-mother-in-law, I spent 1 month's salary to buy gifts, when she knew that I came from the countryside, there were 4 brothers and sisters in the family, she directly said that she did not like my family, and also asked me not to contact my ex-husband in the future, the ex-husband and the ex-father-in-law have been in the round field, and when she left, she also returned all the gifts to me.

After meeting my parents this time, I decided to break up with my ex-husband, the gap between us was too big, the ex-husband did not agree, saying that he had long been prepared to accompany me for life, let me give my ex-mother-in-law time to accept me, and he would also say good things for me in front of the ex-mother-in-law.

In order to be more compatible with my ex-husband, I found another challenging job, worked hard for 2 years, the monthly salary rose from 5,000 to 15,000 yuan, the salary was much higher than my ex-husband, and I was confident.

Ex-husband and ex-in-law mentioned our marriage, although the ex-mother-in-law did not agree, but the ex-husband is not I do not marry, can only agree, the wedding is very simple, the former father-in-law feels too careless to go, give my parents a bank card of 180,000, saying that it is not easy for my parents to raise me into a material.

After marriage, in order to reduce the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I proposed to my ex-husband to go out and rent a house, and the former father-in-law was very supportive, and the former mother-in-law was unwilling, proposing that we must rent a house with a key to her before agreeing.

After moving out, my mother-in-law came early in the morning, and we didn't go back until the evening when we rested, which was no different from living together. He also urged us to have children every day, which made me very stressed.

After 2 years of marriage, my stomach did not move at all, my mother-in-law was anxious, let me go for a check-up, said that there was a problem with early treatment, in desperation, I went to do the examination, the result was a bit weak, the doctor let the body conditioning.

The former mother-in-law thinks that the problem is in me, and she is even more disgusted with me, sighing all day long, saying that the husband's three generations of single transmission are afraid that the ex-husband's generation will not be able to break the incense.

Ex-mother-in-law from time to time to take back a variety of home remedies, let me drink, in order to reduce contradictions, she takes what back, I will eat what, after a period of time, the child is not pregnant, my stomach is a problem, I have protested with my ex-husband, but the ex-husband said that the former mother-in-law is also for my good, he is also looking forward to the arrival of our love crystal, I hope I can understand the ex-mother-in-law. My ex-husband's words made me feel insecure.

After being conditioned by the former mother-in-law for half a year, my stomach still did not move, the former mother-in-law was completely impatient, the Chinese medicine that boiled for me at one time was too bitter, I did not want to drink, the former mother-in-law said all kinds of difficult words came out, saying that I was a chicken that could not lay eggs, and still occupied the pit and did not pull.

Thinking about the various grievances I got married, I also broke out my dissatisfaction with her, and also smashed the medicine she bought for me and the pot of boiling medicine on the ground, and the ex-mother-in-law immediately called her ex-husband and ex-father-in-law to say that I bullied her.

As soon as my ex-husband came home, my mother-in-law accused me, and my ex-husband roared angrily: Xiao Yan, no matter how good my mother is, how can you do such an uncultured thing?

I sneered and said: Your mother will not want to cling to her son 24 hours a day, and she will not force me to drink these messy drugs.

The "snap" of my ex-husband slapped me in the face.

I looked up at the familiar and strange man in front of me and said sadly: Let's divorce!

When my ex-father-in-law first came, he saw my ex-husband beat me, and he taught his ex-husband a lesson and dragged his ex-mother-in-law away.

I entered the room and locked the door, tears could not stop falling, in this marriage, everyone is unhappy, the end is the best choice.

Although my ex-husband apologized to me, I was determined to get a divorce, and my ex-mother-in-law forced him to insist on it for two months, and both of them were exhausted, and finally they got their hands dirty.

After the divorce, slowly calm down, or will remember the ex-husband's good, we have a good relationship, if there is no mother-in-law in the middle of the trouble, we will be a very happy couple, I am also looking forward to the ex-husband can call me, said: wife, I was wrong, let's remarry!

One day six months after the divorce, I went to the mall alone and saw my ex-husband holding her ex-husband's hand with a woman holding her ex-husband's hand and laughingly picking up goods, and I completely woke up to the fact that we had already been human.

After that, I changed to a new city and started a new life, and also found a boyfriend who was very good to me, but after the previous marriage, I never dared to step into the siege again.

Late the night before yesterday, my ex-husband suddenly called me and said: Xiao Yan, my father died, and now I know that you are my dearest person, can you give me another chance to start over

Before my ex-husband could finish speaking, I hung up on him, and my failed marriage to him hurt me badly, and I didn't want to have anything to do with him anymore.

Afterwards, he sent me a text message asking if I could attend the funeral of my former father-in-law in the name of my daughter-in-law, a request that embarrassed me. I showed my boyfriend the text and he said he supported me no matter what decisions I made.

Although my ex-father-in-law was still good to me, in order not to hurt my current boyfriend's heart, I decided not to reject my ex-husband. Do people say I did the right thing?

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