A piece of kindness was given in front of the donkey liver lungs

Got into a fight with a brother the other day because of a word of concern for my words!

One afternoon, I called and asked what a brother was doing. If you don't see each other for a few days, do you want to sit together? He replied that he was going to do something on the street, so I asked him what to do? Are you going to meet a beautiful woman? [Laughs] (Man... Everyone understands Ha) As a result, his answer made me unexpectedly say: What is the use of beautiful women? I'm not interested in women right now! This answer surprised me so much (after all, for him to lack anything is not to lack women ah [teeth])! So I thought about whether it would be an argument with his girlfriend or break up, so I thought about it and casually asked, what's wrong? Did you quarrel with your sister-in-law again? Or did you break up? Half of this question is out of concern and half out of joke! As a result, his answer suffocated me, and he asked: Are you looking forward to breaking up with her? I said you said that it was too much, I didn't mean that, just cared about you, he said you want us to break up, right? You've all been almost together before! So I said a lot of ticking, how ugly it was to scold how ugly it was, and wanted to clean me up, I only said one sentence: You let me down too much, I can swear to heaven that I will never do anything sorry for my brother, I am scum but I will never do anything to my brother's wife, I have my principles and bottom line, you don't trust me like this, then there is no need to say! So I closed WeChat, so he pulled my WeChat to block the vibrato to take off...

When I heard my friend say that he and his sister-in-law quarreled that day, there was no place to complain, it is estimated that they are also arguing because of some unclear love and love, I hit the muzzle of the gun! Count me unlucky!

From this incident, I really understood some things: First, no matter how good the relationship is, you must be measured, and before you speak, consider what kind of person the other party is, and it seems to you that this is caring or loving, and as a result, others may not think so. Second, impulsiveness is the devil, and impulsive people can easily lose their minds. Third, we must act and speak in a low-key manner, think twice about everything, otherwise we will offend people and not know it! Fourth, stay away from the villains and the right and wrong.