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"It's not easy for my cousin to be at home, so let him come to our factory to do it, they are all brothers, so they can pull him." The wife said, "Good! If you want to help, you can help. ”
With a kind heart, he wanted to help his cousin through the difficulties, but he did not expect to sow the seeds of misfortune for his marriage.
Li Yanfeng / 36 years old
I am a person who has few words, is more like to use his brain, usually my wife will always say me, and he can't say three words a day, it is simply a mouth. In fact, our relationship is still very good, when I resigned to start a business, she was also very supportive of me, at that time the economic conditions were not very good, it can be said that my wife still suffered with me.
Fortunately, God did not treat me badly, let me have a successful career, the company gradually took shape under my hard work, began to make a profit, the old family people talk about me, will say that this boy can ah! Now they have become big bosses. In fact, what boss is not the boss, that is, the results of hard work.
My wife said she was bored at home, so I arranged for her to find a spare job in the company, that is, to pass the time. This year's New Year with the family back to the hometown, I was a little surprised to see my cousin, how shrewd and capable a person was, now become listless, there is nothing to talk about between the brothers, after my inquiry, the cousin told his experience.
It turned out that he was working outside last year, because of the fight and fight with the will, the negligence hurt the person to share the lawsuit, was fined to compensate the other party 200,000, which made their small family that was not rich, even worse, the cousin divorced him in anger, took the child back to his mother's house, and now the cousin is really an old brother, losing the motivation of life.
According to him, he still owes 80,000 or 90,000 to his relatives, and his life is very famine. I sympathized with his plight, and then advised him to cheer up and live a good life, and if he lived well, he still had the possibility of bringing his children and wives back! By then the home will be a complete home again.
My cousin said that when he finished paying off this account, people are old, anyway, the words inside and outside are a decadent look, I patted my chest and said you have to believe in my brother me, come to my company to do, absolutely will not treat you badly, in fact, at that time the company is not short of people, I am completely out of a kind of psychology to help him.
My cousin agreed, and went back in the evening and told my wife about it, and my wife said, if you want to help him, then let him go, I don't care.
I said that my cousin is a shrewd person, I arranged the business for him, he got started very quickly, about two months, did better than the veteran, see him so capable, I was secretly happy, helped others, but also helped myself, it is really god not to lose me.
I suddenly had a thought, why don't you let my cousin bring his wife? He is so capable, let his wife follow more learning, if the wife can get started quickly, then I will not have another left arm?
I told them this idea, both of them agreed, the cousin really dedicated, with his wife to run a business trip, everything is big and small, patiently teach his experience, the wife will also tell me what she learned, I can't help but secretly admire, one is willing to teach, one is willing to learn, the wife really progressed very fast.
Then I heard some gossip, saying that my cousin and wife had brought me green hats, and when I walked up to them, they unnaturally changed the subject again, but I could still hear it clearly, I laughed and didn't believe what they said, men and women together, there will always be boring people gossiping, that's my wife and cousin, I definitely don't believe they will do that.
Once I was out on an errand, because it was not too far, I did not drive, when passing a café, through the glass, I saw a couple sitting inside, the appearance is very intimate, close, I saw clearly that it was my wife and cousin, I felt the head buzzed, they did not see me, the cousin held my wife's hand, and she seemed to be still playing.
My heart ached, and I staggered over, is this a confirmation of someone else's legend? Did my two relatives really betray me?
I didn't have the heart to do anything more, I just wanted to find a place where no one was quiet, I went home, sat on the couch, and kept flashing in front of my eyes the scene I had just seen, now that the facts have happened, what should I do next?
Originally, he was kind and kind and wanted to help his cousin, but he did not expect that he would take revenge, and the salary I offered him was far higher than the industry he did, that is, he wanted to help her pay off her debts as soon as possible, and to take his wife home as soon as possible, but what did he do? And my wife, the woman who has the heaviest position in my heart, has also hurt me deeply.
The more I think about it, the more chaotic my brain becomes, there is hatred, there is the urge to divorce, and there is also the idea of trying to persuade my wife not to go wrong again.
Why did I think about my cousin, but he put on a hat! I can let him go, but can I do it without letting them break the thread? I feel that after experiencing this, I may never trust my wife again, and the person I love the most hurts me the most, in the face of these two shameless people, what do you say I should do? (From netizen narration)
Conclusion
This is an ungrateful cousin who not only betrayed his cousin's kindness, but also disrupted his family and did something sorry for his brother.
The wife of this netizen can also abandon the love of husband and wife for many years, and engage in ambiguity with her husband's cousin, and her behavior is not only her husband's sadness, but also her own sadness.
If these virtues are lost, they will only wear a human skin in vain, because their behavior has degenerated into beasts.
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