#One Person##Life Diary #This year's New Year's Eve was spent alone. Send the children to the countryside to their grandparents. My mother helped in the Hangzhou Temple, and she didn't have time to take care of me. dad

#One Person##Life Diary #This year's New Year's Eve was spent alone. Send the children to the countryside to their grandparents. My mother helped in the Hangzhou Temple, and she didn't have time to take care of me. Dad in Shanghai, in previous years will come, this year's Shanghai epidemic does not want to trouble, did not come to me.

Chinese New Year's Eve started to make headlines that divorced women don't have a home. For me, I don't agree. Where I am, I am home. Even this house is rented.

The belonging of the heart lies in the woman's confidence. Confidence lies in self-confidence. I thank my parents for having so many years of books not read in vain. I've always had that good belief that I can live anywhere and in any situation.

But the divorce really sobered me up. My Buddhist lineage does not represent other People's Buddhist lineages, this social Buddhist system.

It also made me sober up, how I used to be so muddy, how so many years have come to this. Maybe without divorce, life will continue to go on like this. Live like this.

Naked marriage, poverty, domestic violence, etc. have not thought about divorce. What does marriage mean to a woman? Looking back at myself stupid is not ordinary, it is myrrh to save. So God sent a little three. Allowed me to examine this marriage as a bystander.

I didn't give the children red envelopes in the New Year, and Bought a mobile phone for the boss. After these several contacts, the boss sighed more than once: Mom, I found that you suddenly have money. As children grow older, they weigh the pros and cons.

The output of value is where a person's light lies.

Before Chinese New Year's Eve, when he was video with the second brother, the second brother was very unhappy and said that his grandmother did not buy him shoes, so she gave him a pair of brother's shoes. The shoes worn by the second brother to the countryside are a pair of very old and broken, originally I said that I should buy shoes many times, I didn't have time to take him to buy, I wanted to buy them in the New Year.

Because of this, I re-added the former mother-in-law's WeChat, and the former mother-in-law told me that the old shoes were brought to the second son when his father and stepmother came to the countryside two days ago, and said that she planned to take the second brother to buy new shoes in a few days. My ex-mother-in-law told me this because I added her and then transferred 488 to her and asked her to buy new shoes for each of her two children for the New Year. The former mother-in-law said that she should not have received this money, but she received it after several greetings. After receiving it, I was relieved, and they helped me buy it, saving me a lot of trouble.

Maybe they'll think I'm being generous. Actually not, I have to think about it later. The ex-husband has no stable job, no stable income and a lot of social networking, mainly has not paid labor insurance and medical insurance. My parents have pensions and health insurance. Ex-in-laws had no pensions, no health insurance, no savings, and they were the ones I thought about the most. I used to dare not spend a penny, I was afraid that one day they would have something to do. Now that they are no longer my responsibility, I am naturally much more financially prosperous.