#一个家庭女人太强势, what will happen to this family # My aunt, my uncle belongs to the kind of person who will not say a word when a stick is beaten, and the economic power of the family is in her hands

#一个家庭女人太强势, what will happen to this family #

My aunt, my uncle belongs to the kind of person who will not say a word when a stick is beaten, and the economic power of the family is in her hands, perhaps this also contributes to her strength.

My aunt had little culture, the typical image of a rural woman, pungent, loud, and neighborhood quarrels, as far as I knew, had not lost much. Probably with my uncle went to the south to work for a few years, saw the world, and his temper narrowed a little.

When I was a child, during the summer vacation, I went to my grandfather's house to help collect rice, the rice field was by the small river, and my cousin (her son) and I, although small, still carried the basket to help carry the handle. The way back is uphill, the road is a very small gravel, easy to slip, I fell, a few handles in the back basket fell to the ground, dropped some rice, just happened to be this scene was seen by the aunt in the field, I don't know if it is in a bad mood or look at me unpleasantly, I began to scold me what fart use is not, even a handle is not good, roll back to your house... The little boy's self-esteem was already strong, and I threw down the basket and didn't wait for my mother (my mother also helped collect rice in the field), wiped her tears all the way home, and vowed not to go to her house again (it was impossible, grandpa and grandma lived together with my uncle's family, and vowed to be white). Later, my mother came back and told her that she was also angry at the time, and she quarreled with her aunt, and my grandparents also had a fight with my aunt. Although my aunt and I later apologized, her impression in my heart had deteriorated.

More than twenty years ago, my aunt instigated my uncle to ask for my grandfather's retirement salary passbook, and my grandfather was only sixty years old at that time, and his body was very tough. Grandpa did not give, aunt and grandfather had a big fight, aunt said that grandpa wanted to leave money to my mother, did not want to use for his son, threatened to beat my father as long as my father went to my grandfather's house and so on. However, my mother's temper is not covered, knowing that after this incident, I went directly to my grandfather's house and her pk, the specific wonderful I do not know, anyway, my grandfather's passbook she did not want to go.

Talk about my cousin, my cousin has not had good grades since childhood, he is introverted, his mother says that one is not two, and he does not dare to do it with his mother. The entrance to college was also because someone from his mother's family worked in the hospital, so my cousin was admitted to a medical college. After graduation, the job was also arranged by the relationship between the aunt and the mother's family. Now it seems that the strength of the aunt seems to have done a good thing, at least the cousin's job is stable.

This new year, my cousin got married, and coincidentally, the bride and I are also a little related. They met at my wedding. Cousin has not talked about love, people are a little inferior, but also eager for love, the plane is knocked down countless fights, resulting in his whole person is often a sluggish look, the image is not good, the bride, key medical school graduates, the image temperament is not bad, in addition to family conditions can not catch up with the uncle's family, other can be said that my cousin is not worthy of the woman. The woman has just finished the examination, there is no interview, the aunt wants them to have a child this year, and the woman is not allowed to get the third injection of the new crown strengthening needle... The woman was forced to agree, and after admitting that the interview was passed, she put the child on the agenda.

The character of a family mistress is crucial, strong or gentle tolerance is actually not a conflict, blindly strong, the probability will only lead to the unhappiness of the family, blind tolerance will not be happy, a successful man behind the woman must be smart.