A few years ago, I retired from my leadership position, married a divorced Ah Hua, and lived happily after marriage. But last Wednesday, Ah Hua got pregnant, which scared me overwhelmed, and then I made an adventure

A few years ago, I retired from my leadership position, married a divorced Ah Hua, and lived happily after marriage. But last Wednesday, Ah Hua became pregnant, which scared me overwhelmed, and then I made a risky decision. But hearing Ah Hua's words made me feel embarrassed and didn't know what to do.

My name is Liu Hao. I am 63 years old. I just retired from a leadership position with a monthly pension of 9,000 yuan. My ex-wife died a few years ago. After I retired, I didn't even have a talker. I was lonely and helpless.

I have two children, and people around me envy me, saying that I will be blessed in the future, saying that I have a good pair of children, and they make up a good sentence, but they don't know my difficulties. My son's wife is a model, tall and beautiful. But what she says about staying healthy is that she doesn't want kids. She only knew about skincare and shopping every day, and my son listened to him very much and rarely came home to see me.

I gradually understood that my son was unreliable, so I could only hope that my daughter could accompany me more. Unexpectedly, my daughter said to me: Dad, your pension is so much, isn't it good to live in a nursing home, how much is it saved? Why are you bothering my life?

What a happy man! I have two children, but none of them are willing to take care of me. That's ridiculous. I no longer have hope for my children. I realized I was 63 years old and should find a wife to take care of each other.

A friend introduced me to Ms. Yang, 58, of the old company. Ms. Yang has a daughter who works for an Internet company. She will also have a pension in the future. I think her situation is OK.

After we met a few times, she actually started telling me what to do. What was even more unexpected was that she said that I would give her the money and pension card in the future. So I took the initiative to stay away from her and alienated her.

Later, I met Ms. Luo at an event. She can sing and dance. Although she is in her 40s, she looks like she has been around for more than 30 years. 2 years ago, Ms. Luo divorced and has been single.

I was very happy with Ms. Luo, who was good at singing and dancing, and immediately pursued her. Ms. Luo quickly agreed to be with me, but I was desperate to find out that she was a gold worshipper. She often deliberately took me to high-end places of consumption and made me try my best to buy her gold and silver jewelry and expensive clothes.

I knew Ms. Luo was just using me as an ATM. Since then, I haven't thought about finding a wife in my head because I don't trust women anymore. I don't think any woman would really want to spend the rest of her life with me. They just want my pension.

A few months ago, I went to the wet market to buy vegetables, but I accidentally lost my wallet. There were some bank cards and a few thousand dollars in cash in the wallet. I immediately went back to looking for it in the same way. I saw a middle-aged woman standing at the crossroads waiting. Asked if I had lost my wallet.

As a token of thanks, I gave her $600, but she refused to accept it.

Since then, she and I have often met at the wet market, and gradually we got to know each other. Her name is Ah Zhen. She is 54 years old. She was divorced for years and had no children. Ah Zhen is very kind and capable, beautiful and cheerful, and I think she has a good personality. Therefore, Ah Zhen and I gradually got to know each other. A few months later, I got married to Ah Zhen.

In the months after our marriage, we had a very happy life. But unexpectedly, something unexpected happened.

Last Wednesday night, I made Ah Zhen's favorite braised pork. But as soon as the dish was served, Ah Zhen suddenly felt nauseous and wanted to vomit, and immediately ran to the toilet to vomit.

I was shocked. Because Ah Zhen has always had a good appetite, a good diet, and good health. Is she sick? Thinking of this, I quickly took Ah Zhen to the hospital.

I never dreamed that Ah Zhen was pregnant! When the doctor told her she was four months pregnant, she cried with excitement. Ah Zhen and her ex-husband have been married for many years but have not been able to get pregnant.

She asked the doctor a few times, but she still couldn't believe she thought she was dreaming. In fact, she had long lost hope of having a child, and she felt that she could not be a mother. But she didn't expect to be pregnant in her fifties, and she couldn't help but get excited.

But I didn't say a word, and looked at Ah Zhen with a straight face. Ah Zhen thinks I'm happy. But when I came home that day, I told Ah Zhen very seriously that I didn't want this baby.

Ah Zhen was stunned and asked me why? I told Ah Zhen: I used to believe in raising children to prevent old age, and others envied my children. But now that I'm old, the child's approach has disappointed me. therefore......

Ah Zhen cried sadly. She said to me, "There's a reason for not filial piety. You can't think of it that way. I can't agree with you. This kid is mine too. If you decide not to, let's get a divorce! ”

Listening to Ah Zhen's words, I felt very helpless. After so many hard days, I met Ah Zhen. We were also very happy. I really didn't want Ah Zhen to leave me. But I really don't know, should this child really want it?

@Little Orange Says Emotions There is something to say: the culture of filial piety has been popular in society for thousands of years, but now it is ridiculed and quite perverted. Many people began to ridicule others for relying on their children for the elderly, because they had saved pensions early, bought a lot of houses, and had their own ability to provide for the elderly. However, I don't know that in rural areas, when the insurance premium is not enough and the cost of illness is high, the elderly can only rely on "raising children to prevent old age". Besides, if parents love their children, isn't it also right for them to do some material help and spiritual comfort when their parents are sick or in financial difficulties? Many parents do not expect their children to support the elderly now, but if the situation changes in the future and they lose the ability to move, they still have to rely on the help of their children!

It can be seen that "raising children and preventing the elderly" is the only guarantee for the elderly, but it is also shameful. People often pay attention to "courtesy and exchange" and "repay grievances with virtue", which I think is also suitable for "raising children and preventing old age". If parents do their best to raise their children, they can also have reason to ask their children to provide for themselves in the future. What do you think? #Emotion# #情感PK台 #