Zhang Ailing said: I thought that love can fill the regrets of life, but what creates more regrets is love. In fact, the biggest regret of love is that two people who were originally in love with each other

Zhang Ailing said: I thought that love can fill the regrets of life, but what creates more regrets is love. In fact, the biggest regret of love is that two people who originally loved each other, when they finally walked, became two strangers. Among them, the biggest hidden danger and regret in our lives is the extramarital affair. Once caught up in it, it is often difficult to start and end well. 

The last resort will be

In fact, we can live without anyone. But why did you learn that your partner had an affair and continue to live with him? There are a lot of people, not for themselves, but for their families. I once saw a saying that said it well: We in marriage are destined not to be alone, and it is difficult to think only about ourselves. This is the sorrow of a lover. The more serious a person is, the more he encounters an extramarital affair, the more he cannot be alone. After all, no one wants to have children in a single-parent family. What's more, when he learns that his lover has an extramarital affair, he will cover up for him in front of his children and family, hoping that he can correct his mistakes. Just like this, with expectations, make up your life, you will have to go down, and the bitter water in it is swallowed every day. 

Can't go back to the embarrassment of the past

With an extramarital affair, even if it is painfully broken, it is very difficult for two people to get back together. Naranjande said: If life is only like the first sight, what autumn wind and sorrow paint fan! Many relationships, at the beginning, are agreeable, but in the end they become seemingly compatible, in fact, most of the reasons are the loss of the original intention. With an extramarital affair, and then return to the family, it is difficult to trust, it is difficult to get along, and the heart is separated by a layer. Life is like this, once something happens, there is no going back. The word "feelings", which kind of pipe is, we all want to be innocent, if mixed with impurities, just like rice contains sand, you can be full, but it is difficult to swallow. How many extramarital affairs are lucky? But how many hearts are lucky, in the end, they are all regrets!

Repent after parting ways

The person in front of you, you think is not good, do not know, he is also a treasure in the eyes of others!

Life is like this, when the person in front of us is unconditionally good to us, after a long time, we can't see it, and we always think that everything on the other side should be. Most people overlook that when others are good to us, it's not that we're good enough, but that the other person's feelings are deep enough. I don't know how to cherish each other's goodness, so I left a relationship outside of marriage, always thinking that the other party would not leave, and I didn't think about it but faced separation. Many times, people make mistakes, not because they can't resist temptation, but because they are too self-righteous. Finally, when he "played" enough and wanted to return to the family, he found that the home had been dispersed, and when it was time to remember each other's good, his heart was in addition to regret, that is, remorse. There's a line in "Fancy Years" that goes something like this; I never imagined that marriage would be so complicated. I thought it was a person who could do a good job. But two people together, just doing well is not enough. Marriage is concluded by two people, and only when two people take each other seriously and know how to be grateful together can they be truly happy and long-lasting.