Li Jun and I met on the Internet, I think the speculation of the chat, the long is also good, so, without thinking about it, I got married, and now I think about it, I am indeed impulsive, once, what he said to me, let us fall into an endless contradiction, we are only married for a few months, I am going crazy...
It was Monday, and I came home from work after a busy day and found him playing mahjong with a few friends who had tattoos on their arms, and the house was smoky and smoky, and as soon as I entered the door, I wanted to vomit when I entered the door, and I wanted to throw up. To tell you the truth, I was very angry as soon as I entered the door, I was a very clean person, and I was a bit of a cleanliness fetish, and I didn't say hello when I wore my slippers.
Although I was very unhappy in my heart, but his friends were there, and it was not convenient to say anything, so I casually promised them and went back to my bedroom. Their mahjong played until one o'clock in the middle of the night, and Li Jun didn't see me come out to cook, so he ordered a table of takeaway and called me out to eat, and I wasn't in the mood to eat and didn't go out. After his colleague left, I came out to see a mess on the coffee table. I complained to him: "Don't you go to the mahjong hall when you play mahjong?" Look at what makes the house a mess! ”
He didn't say a word, and cleaned the table and ashtray with his head down.
I continued, "Husband, next time you bring your friends back to play, will you tell me beforehand?" ”
He still doesn't speak.
I guess it was probably because I came back and lay in the bedroom without greeting his friends, so he got mad at me. I approached him and tried to hold his arm and snide, but as soon as I was next to his arm, he threw my hand away and yelled, "Give you face!" This is my home! Do you want to go to heaven? ”
I was confused at the time, yes, he bought the house he got married, but do you want to divide it so clearly after marriage? At this point, my point of anger shifted from playing mahjong to these words he said. I sat on the couch angrily, staring at him deadly, feeling that he was no longer the Li Jun of the time of online dating.
After that, as long as there were small conflicts between us, he never said a word, did not respond to a word, and then the cold war started, and then directly turned off the mobile phone and did not return home. I was about to be driven mad by his cold violence, and finally at the apex of my growl and his silence, I picked up a stool and threw it at him.
I was indeed driven mad by his silence, he was just traumatized and I didn't mean it. After the divorce, their whole family scoffed at me. I couldn't believe I was being pushed to that point. Or, love on the Internet is not credible after all. #Emotion# #Emotion Office# #I'm going to make headlines # #How to treat a cold and violent man#
@ Light Snow Qin Dream Warm Sun into the Heart Thanks for the submission, you and your husband are married through online love, the two indulged in the illusion of the Internet without thinking about making an important decision in life, it is irresponsible to each other, but also irresponsible to the family, it can be said that the network can not see the essence of a person, if you see through, how can you choose such a wrong decision, I guess you regret it now.
Cold violence is the most taboo in the marriage relationship, and the husband's coldness, alienation and indifference cause you to suffer serious mental harm.
Marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished.
What do you think about this kind of marriage? What is your opinion on cold violence in marriage?
Xinxue qin dream, warm sun into the heart. @Light Snow Qin Dream Warm Sun into the Heart Thanks for reading, click a concern, do not get lost [prayer]
