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When people pass 50, it is as if everything is new again, and life has opened a new chapter at this moment. People at this age are in a very stable state whether it is a career or marriage, there is no wind and sun, there is no wind and rain, everything is stable and peaceful. This may be the state of life that everyone yearns for, busy for most of their lives, some people may think that finally everything has stopped, just live a good life as a couple, but at this time the couple has no passion at that time, so many years of companionship, life has tied the two together for too long. Psychologists believe that after the age of 50, no matter how good the relationship between husband and wife, do not go too close, what is the reason for this?
Love has evolved into affection, and there is no freshness
After the age of 50, I thought that husband and wife could improve their quality of life by getting along, after all, they had been busy with their livelihoods all their lives, and the two people said that they had never lived their lives well. But really get along, only to find that the married life is not as good as imagined, you are used to keeping a relative distance, everyone performs their duties, a close but easy to quarrel, not as comfortable as before. The longer the time, the less "passionate" there is in love, and two people can only maintain balance when they walk towards each other at the same time. If the component of passion in love is reduced, it will give birth to partner-style love, and the love at this time will gradually move towards the transformation of family affection.
2, give the other party a certain space
After decades of companionship, we have long known the roots. Because the relationship is too strong, some people will forget to measure up, such as no longer asking for each other's opinions, privately flipping through each other's mobile phones; regardless of each other's feelings, do something very reluctant to the other party. Couples with the same hobbies can accompany each other and do what they love to do together. If you have different hobbies, don't embarrass each other. Give each other some space, because it is not easy to meet, and we have supported each other for so many years, this marriage is worth your protection! At the age of 50, even if you are close to each other, you must leave enough space for each other. No matter how good the feelings of husband and wife, two people have been together for a long time, it is inevitable that they will be disgusted, and it is also a good thing to have their own space between each other.
3. Respect each other and encourage each other to do what they love
In marriage, love is only a part of life, even if the love is fierce, in the later days, it will be slowly annihilated by the river of time. In fact, companionship is the longest confession of affection. In the past, they were often tired of being together, watching the clouds rise and fall, and remembering the sweetness of the past. But as they get older, they no longer want to be together. Although they became husband and wife, their hobbies were not the same. In the past, in order to cater to each other, they both sacrificed their hobbies to accommodate each other. Now that they are over 50 years old, the days left for the rest of their lives are decreasing day by day. They want to live for themselves for a while, do something they like to do, and see some scenery that they like to see. Therefore, Lei Fang slowly made a group of like-minded friends who often went out to travel, so that life had a sense of poetry and rituals from afar; and Lu Wei often studied flowers, birds, fish and insects with his friends, and lived a good life.
Emotional message: A marriage from white head to old age is never easy, it needs to be tolerated and understood by husband and wife, but also to continue to support and encourage, cultivate freshness, give each other personal space, and constantly cultivate the ability to solve problems, only in this way, marriage will become happier and happier under the management of husband and wife.
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