Although now the age of falling in love is getting younger and younger
It is said that even elementary school students have begun to fall in love
But more and more people are on the contrary
Start choosing to be single after working
In fact, this kind of person is not saying how bad their conditions are
Or there is no opportunity to contact the opposite sex
It's that he doesn't want to get off the list at all
So why are there more and more single people?
Is it that love is not easy to talk about?
Let's talk about this!
Now many boys who are still single at 3 or 40 years old are actually deliberately choosing to be single, and they think that there is another thing more important than getting rid of singleness: making money. It's not that they don't need an emotional life, but they don't look at the women they can hold in their daily lives, and they are even more reluctant to kneel and lick the women who fully meet his conditions.
What they think is that they will first drive a good car, live a good house, have a career, and live the life they want first, and then they will want to find the other half. So now many people are taking the initiative to deliberately choose to be single, and then put all their energy into making money.
This choice is already a very common social phenomenon. Of course, including many older leftover women, they are not unable to end single, and even the opposite sex around them is constantly, but they will choose to live a single life. Maybe the marriage is too heavy, or maybe it's too demanding. It's hard to say clearly, everyone has their own concerns.
In a social sense, this phenomenon will increase the proportion of singles, thereby affecting the birth rate and hurting subsequent economic vitality. For small individuals, it will cause the average age of marriage to get bigger and bigger, and now it seems that there are many people in their 30s who do not get married.
Let's talk about my personal point of view: First of all, the proportion of people who are independently single will definitely become larger and larger, which is affected by social trends.
Second, from its own point of view, or from an economic point of view, marriage and parenting are a matter of investment value.
Therefore, not getting married or dragging the age to a very large age and then marrying again is not cost-effective in every way. The only thing that makes sense is that you are willing to choose on your own (of course, there are many ideas that agree with this direction).
In fact, this choice is also a kind of helplessness, just like many older leftover women do not want to marry, but the asking price is too high. Emotions are just as important as careers, and they won't change for years. We really deserve the time and energy to solve our emotional problems, which is as important as working and making money.