Wen | Zhao Jingxuan
When it comes to "poisonous tongue" kung fu, Li Chengru ranks second, and it is estimated that no one dares to call it the first.
In the program, he criticized the old drama bones and intimidated the "small fresh meat",
Whether it is the famous Chen Kaige or the fledgling Guo Jingming, they have all been hit by his "knife of tongue".
In life, there is one person who is even more defiantly criticized by him, that is, his own son Li Dahai.
Li Chengru once publicly expressed his dissatisfaction with his son in the program:
What good is he worthy of my praise?
If you have no ability, if you have to be able to endure, you will look like a "human-like dog", which is still given by your parents!
How much does Li Chengru not want to see his son Li Dahai?
However, some time ago, it was reported that Li Chengru wanted to spend millions to buy a luxury car for his son.
He also gave his son the golden silk nan wood furniture in the Mansion next to the Forbidden City.
What Li Dahai said after refusing made Li Chengru look at him with astonishment.
Then, between the father and son of Li Chengru and Li Dahai,
What kind of grievances have been in the past,
What is the state of their relationship now?
01
Li Chengru was born in a family of rich Jia and lived a life of fine clothes and jade food since childhood.
My father opened a large silk satin village in Beijing and lived under the roots of the imperial city.
Flying kites in his own courtyard, he accidentally hung on the corner tower of the Forbidden City.
A large group of children in the family, Li Chengru ranked 11, and there were 10 brothers and sisters on it.
As the little young master of the family, Li Chengru before the age of 2 can be described as loved by thousands of people.
His father bought him a cage for grasshoppers, and he asked for 2 oceans.
You know, the 5 oceans of that era, ordinary people save points, half a year is enough.
Unfortunately, such a good day is like a white horse passing by, and it is fleeting in the blink of an eye.
When he was 2 years old, Li Chengru fell from the clouds,
The little young master of the Li family, who is well-bred,
It has become an "unlucky egg" that is so poor that even eating and dressing has become a problem.
Li Chengru's father died suddenly of an acute illness, leaving behind an orphan and widowed mother and a large son.
The mother was an honest housewife who could not bear the burden left by her father.
The satin house became someone else's, and 12 people had to live off their property.
The hemp rope was cut off in a small way, and the remaining family property was confiscated overnight.
Look at a room full of children waiting to be fed,
The mother, who had never exerted great strength in her life, had to carry wooden pillows on the railway.
One day tired back pain, not enough for a few children to plug their teeth.
As a result, the hunger of venus and hunger became the deepest memory of Li Chengru's childhood.
The first thing I do when I open my eyes every day is to think about how I can get a little food in my stomach so that I don't get dizzy with hunger.
To this end, he picked up rotten vegetable leaves and stole bean cakes in the stables.
Even for a bite to eat, 6-year-old Li Chengru and a child beat their heads and bled.
Recalling those difficult days, Li Chengru was both sad and proud.
Life is difficult, but he polished this piece of jade into a fine jade, emitting a dazzling light.
02
Li Chengru, 16, got a chance to work in a garment factory.
Ironing clothes every day, boring and boring, no challenge, 16 yuan a month.
After a few days of doing it, Li Chengru had the idea of becoming an actor.
He is very envious of the actors on the stage to interpret the joys and sorrows of life,
I feel that if I come to act, I will definitely not be worse than those people.
But to get into the industry, someone has to lead you through the door.
Therefore, Li Chengru went to see drama performances every day, not only to learn the acting skills of others, but also to create an opportunity for himself.
On this day, he finally waited!
At the entrance of the theater, he met the famous actor Dong Xingyi, who took three steps and made two steps to meet him.
Saying that he is a super fan of Teacher Dong, can he accept himself as an apprentice?
Dong Xingyi was startled by this rash boy,
Fixing the god to look him up and down, perhaps seeing that he was a piece of acting material, he actually nodded his head in agreement.
Li Chengru, in his heart, called a beauty, happy to jump three feet high.
In this way, he became a disciple of Dong Xingyao and stepped into the show business circle with half a foot.
Later, Li Chengru successfully starred in a drama and became an amateur actor for 5 years.
Amateur actors are a far cry from their original grand dreams.
So in 1980, Li Chengru applied for the Beijing Film Academy and became classmates with Zhao Baogang, Zhu Lin, Zhang Guangbei and so on.
Li Chengru thought that a walk of fame was unfolding in front of his eyes, but he did not know that what embarrassed him was still behind.
The next year, "Journey to the West" national audition actor, Li Chengru Xing rushed to the crew, full of confidence to play Tang Monk.
Director Yang Jie looked at his appearance, such a Tang monk did not scare the monster away, it would be good,
Still want goblins to run around on their butts? Yang Jie rejected him on the spot.
But Yang Jie gave him a lot of face to let him serve as a field recorder, and Li Chengru was indeed a talent.
He arranged the crew up and down, inside and out, without leaks.
Yang Jie was a hundred satisfied, but Li Chengru had his own ideas. He worked so hard, but not to be a field record.
He wants to play a role, even if it is small, he is confident that he can make the audience unforgettable at a glance.
But people are selfish, and Director Yang Jie is no exception.
She thought, I have a hard time finding such a powerful assistant, I can't easily let you act,
If this is red and the fire is up, where can I find such a capable field record?
Li Chengru stayed in the "Journey to the West" crew for 5 years, and he did not even catch a hapless goblin who appeared in the end of the play.
Disheartened, Li Chengru had to leave the crew and go to another world.
Don't say, you really let him seize the opportunity and become a billionaire.
03
Li Chengru's childhood craving for food has become his current pursuit of wealth.
Brain melon zi ling, three religions and nine streams of friends, information faster than others, Li Chengru in fruits and vegetables and aquatic products to make a small profit.
After a few years of groping and fighting like this, Li Chengru accumulated a considerable amount of money.
In 1990, he seized the opportunity to rent a shopping mall of more than 1,000 square meters in Xidan.
With a high salary of 6,000 yuan per month, 10 hot and beautiful women with outstanding appearance were hired as shopping guides.
Opened the first self-selected clothing mall in Beijing.
As soon as the "special special" opened, it exploded all over Beijing, and the banknotes flowed into Li Chengru's pocket like flowing water, and at most, 600,000 yuan a day!
The next year, Li Chengru set his sights on the foreign exchange market again, and the money in his foreign exchange warehouse reached 13 million US dollars, becoming a real billionaire.
Going out is either Mercedes-Benz or BMW, and purchased a courtyard worth hundreds of millions of dollars next to the Forbidden City.
Tens of thousands of suits, tens of thousands of ties, in his eyes is just a dime.
Even because the elevator clerk called him: "Li is always good!" He immediately threw out a $100 tip.
At that time, the four richest people in Beijing were all surnamed Li, known as the "Four Li of Beijing".
Once people have money, they will inevitably drift.
When Li Chengru returned home and saw the wife of the chaff again, he felt that it was not so pleasing to the eye, and often picked his nose and picked his eyes, feeling that the east was too west.
However, Li Chengru was proud of his days a few days later, and his doom came.
In 1993, because of the US-Japan trade war, the foreign exchange market shook the mountain,
Li Chengru returned to the pre-liberation one night and became a poor egg again,
Even with a thick black hair, he resolutely abandoned him.
Back at home, Li Chengru's bad temper intensified, and he often disciplined his wife with a straight face and yelled at his son with his throat.
This made the already precarious feelings of the two people go directly to the brink of collapse.
Soon the two divorced, and the ex-wife took her 8-year-old son Li Dahai out of the house.
I moved out of the luxurious courtyard and returned to the small house of 18 square meters where I lived when I was just married.
The kitchen is shared with the fourth uncle's family, and the toilet is shared by many families.
In order to find a job to support herself and her son, the ex-wife sent her son to a private school and went out to work on her own.
And Li Chengru, who has almost nothing, under the promotion of his classmate Zhao Baogang, entered the show business circle and participated in "Addiction".
And with the help of this drama, it has climbed to the peak of screen creation.
Since then, Li Chengru has relied on his excellent performance in "Six Groups of Serious Cases", which has become a mess and has taken on many plays.
He carefully pondered and experienced each role with his heart, which left a deep impression on people.
Li Chengru did not expect that his dream of being an actor for many years would be realized under such circumstances.
With fame comes wealth.
After Li Chengru lost his family, he lived the life of a rich man with acting.
At the same time, the ex-wife and son are still struggling to survive in the 18-square-meter cottage.
04
The ex-wife has no skills and can only earn some hard money by working hard, and Li Dahai's tuition fees in private schools are surprisingly expensive.
In front of a group of well-off classmates, Li Dahai felt that he was an ugly duckling with inferiority.
Eating and wearing are much worse than others, and learning is not as good as classmates.
In the fourth grade, once Li Dahai accidentally touched his classmate's stationery box to the ground, which was originally a very small thing.
However, the whole class laughed and watched Li Dahai bend down like an alien, picking up the scattered things of his classmates one by one.
No one helped, except for the coaxing, which was a harsh laugh.
The teacher also criticized him mercilessly in front of the whole class:
"Parents divorce should be more sensible, you look at you, learning so poor, needless to say sorry for this and that, just to drag us back, but also let people can't stand it!" 」
Li Dahai did not want to go to school at all, he wrote down his inner bitterness in his diary, and his mother once cleaned up the house, accidentally found her son's diary, reading and reading, his mother burst into tears.
Thinking that because of the mistakes of her parents, she had caused so much harm to her children, and she could no longer sit still.
Ran out to call Li Chengru, told his son what happened, and cried and begged him to take time to spend more time with his son.
Li Chengru was also very unhappy in his heart, and since then, he has often come to visit his son.
Who knew that due to The lack of Li Chengru in the life of mother and son in recent years, he only had a vague concept left in the mind of his son Li Dahai.
The son's resistance is visible to the naked eye.
Li Chengru was not discouraged, bought a puppy that his son liked, and when he saw the cute puppy, his son grinned and closed his mouth.
Just when the relationship between father and son eased up a little, Li Chengru's acting career was on fire again.
Running around all day to shoot dramas can't be busy, so can you still take care of your son? The father and son who were about to "break the ice" began to be cold again.
And the next few things that happened made the relationship between Li Dahai and his father even more intense.
05
When Li Dahai was 17 years old and sophomore in high school, his mother really couldn't afford expensive tuition.
Li Dahai also couldn't bear to let his mother work several jobs for herself.
He thought that he had grown up and should help his mother share the pressure of the family.
That year, he resolutely dropped out of school despite his mother's persuasion.
At this time, Li Chengru's career was flourishing,
He also chased after 5 years, painstakingly hugged the beauty and married the national first-class actor Shi Min as his wife.
After dropping out of school, Li Dahai brushed the bowl over the plate,
Singing and playing in the bar, stumbling and stumbling for a few years,
In the end, Li Dahai, who loves music, decided to set up a music studio with his friends.
Choosing a venue, decorating, buying all kinds of equipment, spending all the money, and lacking a piano.
He remembered that in his father's spacious courtyard, there was a piano in the corner that was rarely used.
I went to my father to discuss, can I lend him the piano first?
Who knew that Li Chengru was furious, let him "roll", and threatened to "not have anything in this family that is yours!" ”
Li Dahai was scolded and slipped into the wilderness and fled.
He swore that he would never ask for Li Chengru again.
Unfortunately, life soon hit Li Dahai in the face, and he reneged on his word.
In 2007, Li Dahai watched his mother for so many years, in a narrow and dilapidated 18 square meter space, living a difficult life,
He took out all his savings over the years, plus the money he borrowed from friends, a total of 600,000,
I want to buy a house outside the second ring road, improve my living environment, and let my mother, who has suffered for most of her life, live a good life for two days.
But how to make up the money, he had to come to his father's courtyard with a thick skin,
He spat out the request and stressed: I borrowed this money, I will pay you back, and promised to write an IOU.
Li Chengru said dismissively: No money to charge any fat people? When you have money, when you buy it again!
On the way back, Li Dahai had mixed feelings in his heart.
Later, others asked Li Chengru why he was so ruthless to his own son.
Li Chengru was blunt: I am afraid that my second-married little wife has ideas, and I have to consider her feelings.
However, Li Chengru's carefully cared for love was finally defeated by reality.
He and Shi Min, he can not do without Beijing, Shi Min's career in Shanghai.
Long-term separation of the two places, gathering less and more, many inconveniences, or let this relationship go its separate ways.
Li Chengru, who lost his marriage and love, looks 68 years old, and his body is not as healthy as in the past, but he cares more about family affection.
However, he still can't change the problem of "poisonous tongue", but after "poisonous tongue", he will quietly pull his son behind his back.
06
In 2013, Li Dahai participated in the "I Am Not a Big Star" program audition, and originally wanted to invite his father to the scene to increase his popularity and help.
Who knew that Li Chengru was at the scene of the show, and he was mercilessly criticized: "I don't support him in making music, don't say yes, I haven't heard it." ”
When the host asked him if Li Dahai was successful, Li Chengru narrowed his eyes and asked:
"Success? Without his father, do you know Li Dahai?
Playing billiards did not become a world champion, acting did not have a handy work, singing did not have its own style.
How do you make me praise him? Just look like a dog, that's still given by my parents! ”
The host's embarrassment filled the screen, but Li Dahai was convinced: "I understand my father, he is encouraging me!" ”
It turned out that behind such a chattering number was an old father's fist love.
Knowing that his son wanted to play billiards, he scolded his son for starting too late, while helping his son find a venue and contacting a famous coach to guide Li Dahai.
I heard that my son wanted to get involved in the film and television circle, and he was spitting on the stars, but quietly helped him contact the crew and find resources for him.
Seeing that his son did not even have a car, it was really inconvenient, and he repeatedly proposed to buy a million-dollar car for his son.
Li Dahai said: Buy me a 200,000, expensive is too wasteful.
Li Chengru also wanted to give his son the set of high-grade gold silk nan wood furniture in the courtyard, but Li Dahai said: "You still donate it to the Forbidden City!" ”
These words made Li Chengru stand in awe!
The son, who had never been an instrument in his eyes, grew tall for the first time.
Li Chengru once hated Li Dahai for being too "feminine" and lacking his unique grandfatherly demeanor.
In fact, while criticizing his son, should he reflect on himself, is there no reason for Li Chengru?
A 27-year period from the time he left his father at the age of 7 to the age of 34 added up to less than 100 days of meeting his father.
Isn't the lack of paternal love the most important factor in the son's current personality?
Fortunately, Li Dahai has a good mother, never instilled in him the concept of his father's badness, but also fortunately Li Dahai himself is kind, did not plant the seeds of "hatred" in his heart, those pains and resentments in the process of growing up, are just necessary experiences for life maturity, right?
In fact, Li Chengru is not a child, and how did those remarks that made outsiders listen to them particularly harsh?
Hate iron is not steel!
He is an old-school paternalistic style, after the winds and waves of life, he experienced the cold of the past, but he carried it hard.
Relying on his own hands and a head, to create a brilliant of his own, he looks forward to his son,
So when the son is not as good as he wants, not as good as he expected, he will be furious.
I was eager to scold him, let his son be empowered, and Mao Sai suddenly opened.
Unfortunately, he ignores the fact that growth, talent, and success are inseparable from love and respect, not mean sarcasm and indiscriminate blows.
Fortunately, it is not too late for him to wake up, may the father and son be able to truly be fatherly and filial in the future, you see even if I make insignificant progress, I understand the sincerity behind your roar!
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