In 2013, on the "I Am Not a Star" program, Li Dahai successfully went out of the circle because of the name of "the second generation of the most miserable star", and it turned out that he was the son of The old drama bone Li Chengru, and many people were very surprised.
Li Chengru and Li Dahai
When Li Dahai was not yet 8 years old, his parents divorced, and he lived with his mother in the old house when his parents were married.
As can be seen from the video released in the program, this is a large courtyard with the characteristics of old Beijing, the aisle is narrow enough to accommodate only one person to pass, and it looks like a small bungalow next to a room.
When you open the door, you will also use the traditional old furniture of the last century.
For example, the style and materials have become obsolete cabinets, small tables with the characteristics of the times, old high-legged single beds, and even a wall calendar that is rarely seen at home.
Lee Dahai's cottage
And there is no kitchen in the house, cooking has to go to another place. In the only few square meters of cottage, there are all kinds of kitchenware and ingredients piled up. The small bungalow that leaks everywhere is particularly cold in winter, but this kind of kitchen has to be shared with others.
No matter how hot it is at noon in the summer and how cold it is in the winter night, you have to go to the hutong and use the public toilet on the street.
Public toilets in the yard
Li Dahai has lived in such a home with his mother since he was a child and has lived for 28 years.
Watching his mother run around every day for her livelihood, riding a bicycle to go in the wind and rain every day, Li Dahai was very distressed.
In his sophomore year of high school, he couldn't bear to watch his mother support the family alone, nor could he bear that she would pay all the hard-earned money for her tuition.
Li Dahai and his mother
So at a young age, Li Dahai made the first major decision in his life, that is, he resolutely ended his studies, and then walked into society and began to work hard to make money.
At that time, he felt that he was already an adult, a man, fully responsible and capable of doing something for the family. He wanted to use his own efforts to help his mother relieve financial pressure.
Li Dahai talks about part-time work
After dropping out of school, Li Dahai worked as a waiter, served dishes, and also worked as a back kitchen apprentice, giving a hand to the master. Even if it is hard work, he has always insisted.
Later, he found that there were singers in the bar where he worked, and he could earn about 10 to 15 yuan for a song, so in order to earn more income, Li Dahai picked up the guitar and began to sing after work.
Li Dahai sang
However, due to his young age and lack of experience before, he could only get 7 or 8 yuan for singing a song.
But Li Dahai still insisted, on the one hand, he liked to sing, on the other hand, even if it was only a few yuan, as long as he insisted on singing every night, he could earn an extra salary.
Unlike his hardships, Li Dahai's father, Li Chengru, was revealed to have a large courtyard in Changping, Beijing, as early as a program on Beijing Tv.
According to his own account, there are 500 cherry trees in the yard alone, which shows that they are very valuable.
But it is such a very rich father, but when his son wants to lend money to his mother to buy a house, and he can clearly write an IOU, he also scolds his child: "No money, what house do you buy!" ”
Li Dahai narrated
In "Actors Please Take Place", Li Chengru's sharp words and relentless evaluation have left people with the impression of a "poisonous tongue" that scares everything, and many people think that he is too severe.
In fact, as a son, Li Dahai has also grown up in his father's repressive education for many years, and suffered a far more serious blow than the contestants in the show.
Li Chengru's poisonous tongue
Generally, the second generation of stars on the show, other people's parents have exhausted all their strength to help their children invite the biggest celebrity guests to cheer them on.
For their children's talents, parents are fully recognized, eager to exaggerate their children as a flower.
But when he arrived at Li Chengru's place, his painting style suddenly changed. As a father, he first refused his mother to cheer Li Dahai on the grounds that the child's mother was not a person in the show business circle.
Li Chengru
When the program team hoped that he would give the child some encouragement and help the child to invite guests to help, Li Chengru directly said that he would not help his son to invite guests, because he had always been opposed to him singing.
He felt that his son's work could not be taken out, and he was already very tolerant without preventing him from participating in the show.
Li Chengru did not support his son's career
It is also said that the current children have not suffered hardships, have not paid, and when they encounter a little setback, they feel that they are too bitter to be able to do it, it is simply a disease-free moan, and even think that Li Dahai has not inherited the very manly side of himself.
For his son, he gave the evaluation of "bullshit is not", and also said that he once said to his son: "In addition to looking like a human dog, there is nothing for me to boast about, but your current human-like dog appearance is also given by your parents." ”
As a father, he actually made such an evaluation of his own son in front of the camera and countless viewers, it seems that in Li Chengru's heart, Li Dahai is still far from success.
Although he stepped his son into the dust with a heartfelt sentence and made the scene of the show instantly cold, in fact, it can be seen that Li Chengru has great confidence in his son.
After all, he dared to say to his son: "If you can't even do these few, then don't participate." ”
It can be seen that in his heart, he still hopes that his son can win the game, but he does not say it in his mouth, and he has to hit the child and show the traditional Chinese education to the fullest.
Li Chengru's blows to Li Dahai have never stopped, and after he has achieved little and even surpassed some of his peers, he still has no mercy under his mouth.
At that time, the emerging talk show "Boast is Right" invited Li Dahai, and the program team originally wanted to do a parent-child theme content, so that Li Chengru would boast about his son.
But I didn't expect that this father not only did not praise the son's good in the first half of the sentence, but came to a merciless ridicule.
Li Dahai
Li Dahai liked music, and when he was a child, because his family was poor, he had no money to hire a teacher, so he was self-taught. If anyone's children can teach themselves, parents are estimated to be so beautiful that they will wake up laughing in their dreams.
But Li Chengru said that in addition to what his parents gave, you are nothing, there is no representative work of singing, and there is no representative work in the film and television circle. I decided to practice billiards hard, but I didn't get any awards in billiards, so I didn't have anything to boast about.
Li Chengru sneered mercilessly
In the end, he even left the scene directly, resulting in the subsequent recording being done by Li Dahai himself.
After the program was broadcast, it naturally caused a heated discussion among netizens, and everyone felt that the biological father was simply verbal violence against his son and did not respect his son.
Li Dahai participated in variety shows
But in fact, on the contrary, Li Chengru actually hurt his son very much.
When Li Dahai was studying music, he wanted li chengru's second wife's old piano, and although Li Chengru scolded his son in front of his face and drove him out of the house, he turned his head and bought him a more professional and brand new piano to send it over.
In order to make his son's future development fall, Li Chengru took him to shoot TV dramas together, and also recommended his son to other crews, bluntly saying that he hoped that when he still had the ability, he could successfully bring him into the show business circle, which shows the importance he attaches to his son.
Li Dahai and Li Chengru
Although Li Chengru verbally refused to lend his son a penny, he turned around and changed his residence, and offered to buy him a million-dollar car. In the end, Li Dahai himself refused, saying that it was good to have a car of about 200,000.
Obviously, what he did was good for his son, but his mouth was not spared, and it was no wonder that the host would ridicule Li Chengru, and the "poisonous tongue" on the program was trained on his son Li Dahai.
Many people may not understand why Li Chengru is so harsh on his son, so stingy that he is unwilling to give him half a word of praise at all times.
In fact, it is because Li Chengru himself has experienced too much and suffered too much. Later, he single-handedly created many miracles in life, so in the face of his relatively shy and docile son, he always felt that the other party was not working hard enough and was not successful enough.
When Li Chengru was a child, he lived in a luxurious courtyard next to the Forbidden City, and also experienced the days when he could only dig up wild vegetables everywhere to eat because of poverty, and he saw his 11 brothers and sisters, and two of them were starved to death.
When the salary of other people's families was less than a hundred yuan, Li Chengru had his own clothing mall in Xidan, Beijing, and the tip was 100 US dollars.
After becoming extremely rich, he suffered investment failures and was too poor to pay for a teacher, so he could only block the teacher at the door of the theater and learn the skills behind people's butts.
Halfway out of the family, he has created many classic roles in dramas, movies, and TV series.
Li Chengru has experienced great ups and downs in his life, and in the most difficult times, he has gone from the bottom of society to success through his own efforts.
Therefore, for him, the suffering experienced by the younger generation is not suffering, and he also hopes that his son Li Dahai can have his original ability, and he will not be easily defeated when he encounters anything, and he will mix up with his own ability.
Under his father's high-intensity repressive education, Li Dahai worked harder and harder, and now he loves music, has his own music studio, and launched his debut album.
After entering the show business circle, he also had a TV series starring himself. In 2017, he was selected as a young director in the "Youth Film Project A".
In addition to film and television work, Li Dahai also conducted professional, in-depth study and hard training in his beloved billiards, and was ready to compete as a professional player.
I hope that he can achieve excellent results, and I also hope that the old father Li Chengru can be tolerant, the times are different, we can't ask the current children with the previous standards, you say?
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