Nowadays, people are becoming more and more realistic about reality, because this is really reality. Feelings in the face of money, sometimes can often hit a wall, whether it is love or marriage, or an unmarried extramarital affair. Among them, the unmarried extramarital affair is even more money-based, and there is no need to say more.
How many people in marriage between husband and wife do not hurt feelings by raising money? Maybe it is now that people's hearts are becoming more and more realistic, they all know the importance of money in life, and no one wants to let themselves lack money to spend, so even between husband and wife, they often raise money on the red face, and the husband and wife compete for a red face. Some people may say that there is still less money, and if there is more money, there is no need to argue about anything. Maybe this will reduce some controversy, but if there is a crack in the relationship between husband and wife, they will still grasp their own interests the most on the money.
When my cousin came back from out of town, he would invite us to his house for dinner, and of course we would invite the couple and their children out to dinner. However, when we talk about family children, we can still maintain a peaceful state, but whenever we mention things about money such as money and family expenses, the brother and sister-in-law may argue about it.
The sister-in-law is an online saleswoman, working in a company, but there are two days off, so she has been doing this job in order to take care of the convenience of the children, and the monthly salary is based on her personal performance or more or less, which is two or three thousand yuan. In order to take care of her children and go to work to make good performance, she naturally also ate a lot of hard work. And when she said this, she said that my brother could not guarantee to give her two thousand yuan a month, and she still had to ask him with a thick skin, feeling very depressed, watching her grievances to tears, I also felt that she was indeed not easy.
What about my brother? He is a small contractor who works on the construction site, and he has made more money in the past few years, so he has been spending a lot of money and not knowing thrift, and now his business is not good, he makes less money, he still spends a lot of money, and he will feel that it is too difficult because his daughter-in-law asks for money. The two of them talked about their own difficulties, and neither of them felt that they were more aggrieved, so when they mentioned money, the two of them would fight to the point of blushing and neck-thick, and even quarrel.
We can only slowly persuade them, in fact, between our husband and wife, why not? It's just that you don't have to be too calculated to avoid quarrels. Everyone has a difficult scripture, life is not easy, making money is the same hard, no one is unwilling to work hard, as long as they make money, they are not afraid of hard work, but they are afraid of too much money between husband and wife to pay and get, once the psychological balance is lost, grievances will feel more.
The deepest feeling is that the most sincere feelings in the world are difficult to buy, and there is no need to worry about the amount of money and gains and losses. Therefore, there are too few such realms. It is more of a reality of the human heart and the cruelty of reality.
Raising money hurts feelings, and between relatives and friends, it is also the case. If you meet someone who borrows money between relatives and friends, you will lend it because of your kindness, but what about the person who borrows money? I borrowed for a long time, and I don't know how to pay it back. The person who borrows the money does not mention the matter of repaying the money, and the person who lends the money cannot take the initiative to ask for it, do not be okay, and if he wants it, he may become an enemy.
Mentioning money hurts feelings, or it is better not to mention it, but this society, this era, can not mention money? Besides, life is supported by money? So I had to withdraw money again. Even if it hurts feelings to raise money, you still have to raise money.
There is no one who does not bow their heads in reality, and if you do not have money, there will be people who stay away from you, for fear that your poverty will affect them. If you have money, there will be more people coming closer, because you have money and you won't borrow money from anyone. Therefore, no one will be afraid of you borrowing money, and they will dare to come closer to you. Reality is such a reality, not to accept it.
Why are women so financially independent now? I am afraid that it is too difficult to spend money on my husband, not only to see people's faces, but also to be buried and disliked.
In order to make herself more confident in life, women who are wives also know how to work hard to earn money and spend conveniently, do not have to look at their husband's face, do not have to reach out to their husband, they can do whatever they want, and they will not lose their right to speak because they do not earn money. Raising money will also have the confidence, so that you will not feel like a slave when you raise money.
I hope I am a peeping leopard in the tube, I don't want more couples or love, and I will hurt my feelings to the heart when I raise money. The sincere feelings in people's hearts are indeed difficult to buy with money, but they still need money to live a life. Between husband and wife, if they also maintain the same heart in money, they will be less calculated and more understanding, and they will not hurt their feelings when they mention money.
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