Divorce is becoming more and more common nowadays, from ordinary people to star artists, which are filled with various news every day, especially the divorce of star artists often sets off a storm of public opinion, causing great concern, and even affects the views of ordinary people on marriage and love.
And now in the TV series "Xiao Min Family", divorce has become the norm.
As a middle-aged urban family ethics drama, although "Little Minjia" has the romance of middle-aged people, it is no longer a Mary Sue with dog blood, but a grounded real life show.
The protagonists in the play have gone through divorce and remarriage, compared with the marriage and love attitude of the previous generation, it can be clearly seen that the marriage standards believed in by this generation are no longer "from one end to the end", but "if they don't work, they will disperse", they are "not going to be done, not to make up for work", and this concept is not only reflected in marriage and love, but also in every aspect of life and work.
Especially after the 90s and 00s, it has reached its peak, under the well-off level of life, the new generation will no longer compromise for any material, but the pursuit of inherent self-sufficiency, which is ultimately reflected in marriage and love, that is, to achieve respect and equality, when this marriage relationship is unbalanced, it is divorce.
In the play, there are exceptions to the marriage and love of the previous generation, that is, the mother of Liu Xiaomin and Liu Xiaojie, it can be said that such a family as a whole is a divorced family, which seems to have an intergenerational inheritance, and of course, it is a manifestation of the awakening of women's independent consciousness.
Liu Xiaojie is flash marriage and flash away, which is the state of the post-80s, and for Liu Xiaomin, it is still relatively conservative, and it is after many years that he began to fall in love again, and finally got acquainted with Chen Zhuo.
However, for Liu Xiaomin, she has encountered the trauma of marriage, and is also in a complicated period, that is, the sensitive period when her son is about to take the college entrance examination, and the sensitivity from the object of love, that is, Chen Zhuo is the ex-husband of her girlfriend, which makes her have to keep a low-key relationship, as a woman, she has always maintained a cautious attitude towards marriage and love, which is related to its own characteristics, and for men, it is not so, always want to be open and more transparent.
Despite such differences, Liu Xiaomin and Chen Zhuo are obviously the ideal state of many people, because this state is not something that everyone can achieve, which lies in the fact that the two really like each other, not for the sake of making it up, so although there are many contradictions, they can always forgive each other, even if they are interfered with by external forces, they cannot affect the relationship between them, and can make the relationship closer.
Having experienced the regret of marriage, for the two of them, it is not necessary to run to get married, but to reach a most comfortable state, although they want to get married, but the reality is full of resistance, but these are not so important to them.
Love and marriage will always be compared, in the play is still the case, love can have a variety of romance, but for marriage, it is necessary to face the chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, it is inseparable from the fireworks, but the two are not contradictory.
Chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea in life is not a burden of marriage, but an embellishment of marriage, which makes love more real, rather than immersed in various dreams.
In the past era of material scarcity, the public is still working hard for food and clothing, love for them is just a fool's dream, the so-called marriage is the fate of parents, the words of the matchmaker, with the influence of traditional marriage and love customs, so that most people will endure and stick to it, even if they suffer from various injustices, they will still end from one end, because this is the faith of marriage, is the bottom line that cannot be trampled.
But now has undergone earth-shaking changes, women's independence and self-improvement, so that they began to find their ideal love, although sometimes the head is hot flash marriage, but when it is not suitable, it will decisively let go, and no longer be bound by various marriage dogmas, more free and more courageous.
But even so, the pursuit is still love and marriage with temperature, not cold and impersonal selfish love and marriage.
Most middle-aged people will be trapped by age, because in their view, this age is no longer worthy of love, not qualified to fall in love, but "Xiao MinJia" tells these middle-aged people that age is never a constraint, but a precious wealth, more able to face everything calmly, deal with various problems in feelings, more responsible for marriage and love, and more know how to care for unexpected love and marriage.
Marriage and love have never had a standard answer, nor have they ever been exclusive to a certain age group, but belong to everyone, and everyone can have their own understanding and pursuit.