He Suohuan, a writer of sexual affective psychology, writes love stories, interesting strangers, and material knowledge.
In intimate relationships, people's feelings are actually mutual.
Like what:
When you love each other deeply, the other person can feel your thoughts;
When you hate the other person, even if you don't say a word, the other person can detect your emotional fluctuations towards him through your expression and eyes.
It is often heard said:
When a husband and wife have been married for a long time, they become brothers; Except that there is no love, there is everything else.
In fact, there are also some couples who are as loving as ever even after being married for many years.
Maybe no longer pursue vigorous love, but also maintain a thin stream of water, tacit love.
In marriage, how can you tell if your husband still loves you?
What are the manifestations that your husband loves you deeply?
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Your husband loves you deeply and will express his thoughts about you
There is a friend next to him, he has been married to his wife for 10 years, and he is still tired and crooked to make others envious.
He started a small business of his own, with his wife at home with two children and a full-time wife.
His daily habit is to call his wife.
Just like when you are in love, you have to make two or three phone calls a day.
Although it is all daily sharing and small talk, he has maintained this habit for more than ten years, from falling in love to now having two children.
Every time I eat with the two of them, I feel like a couple in love.
He said:
"When I married my wife, I was a poor boy who had nothing; Now that I have a small career, a complete child, and a good relationship with my wife, I feel that my life is perfect. ”
Special envy.
But behind the envy is also emotion, no matter what age, when a man loves you deeply, he is active and passionate.
Trust me, when a man loves you deeply, no matter how long you've been together, his love for you won't change over time.
On the contrary, the longer you spend together, the more he loves you.
Will express their thoughts, misses, and want to see you.
Even if he is tired of being with you every day, he will not feel tired.
Marriages that always maintain a "love feeling" exist.
That feeling is:
"Even if you do the same thing repeatedly every day, the emotions in your heart are different."
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Married for many years, still have a "youthful feeling"
A sense of youthfulness in men, a sense of youthfulness in women.
"Return is still a teenager".
It means:
No matter how old a man is, you can still feel his youthfulness and youthfulness in him.
His childish, authentic, relaxed side will unfold in front of you without reservation.
What does this mean? It shows that he loves you very much and is relaxed enough with you.
There is a concept in psychology called "self-exposure".
When we are in front of intimate, trusting, and secure people, we tend to show higher self-exposure.
On the contrary, in front of our disgusted, unfamiliar, and guarded people, we will become silent and cherish words like gold.
Another characteristic of a man who loves you in marriage is that he is relaxed and boyish.
You will often feel his heartfelt happiness, joy, contentment and relaxation.
He'll be happy because he's playing a day's game, happy about playing a game, and happy about going out to a good meal with you.
His positive emotions are based on loving you.
On the contrary, if he does not love you, only indifference remains in front of you.
There is no communication with you, no communication, no understanding, let your feelings go to the end little by little.
In women, the same is true.
Whether a woman is happily married or not, you can know by looking at her face.
Happy woman with a face full of confidence, optimism, cheerfulness and a positive smile.
An unhappy woman, even if she pretends to be good, her face is indescribably tired and anxious.
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Willing to "praise you" in front of everyone
Praise partners and accusatory partners are actually relative.
What does a complimentative partner look like?
He will praise you and express his approval, support and appreciation from the bottom of his heart.
You cook deliciously, and he will say, "It's a blessing to be with you, to be able to eat such delicious meals every day." ”
You are very capable, and if you inadvertently show some merits, he will immediately praise you.
When you participate in certain social situations together, you will find that he still raves about you.
Always say to others:
"It's all the credit of my wife, if it weren't for him, I wouldn't have had such achievements."
"In our family, I love talent the hardest, and I don't give much."
A man who loves you deeply will unabashedly express his appreciation and praise for you.
What does an "accusatory" partner look like?
That is: no matter what you do, he hates you and picks on you all the time.
Commonly used tactics are: taunt, sarcasm, belittling, blowing your self-confidence.
Which partner would you rather get along with?
Any relationship that makes you feel relaxed, happy, satisfied, and at ease with each other means that you have met the right person.
This is especially true for conjugal relationships.
Some people have been in love for ten years, and some people have been living together for years.
No matter what, happiness is the most important thing.