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There are more and more professional women in contemporary society, although on the surface it seems that the family is more harmonious and the living conditions are getting better and better, but behind it is the problem that many women are unwilling to have children. Mainly because after the child is born, as a professional woman, there is no time to take the child, or there is no willingness to take the time to take the child.
But taking children is a big thing after all, if there is no help from the elderly in the family, after women give birth to children, it means that their careers will end, and in the next few years or even more than a decade, they need to give up work for their children.
The husband roared: "My mother is not obliged to take the child, who gives birth to who brings", the ending is very relieved
Yue Yue and her husband met in the unit, both of them are well-known workaholic in the unit, often working overtime together in the company, and later after knowing each other for a long time, they felt very chatty, and their husband confessed to her.
After being with her husband, the days are very sweet, after talking about a year or so, the wedding was held, and the life after marriage is the same, every day I feel that my husband is good to me, Yue Yue is always beautiful in my heart, and I feel that I am married to the right person.
Later, Yue Yue became pregnant, and she could have insisted on working in the early stages of pregnancy, but as her belly grew larger day by day, she was no longer suitable for continuing to work, and finally she simply raised a fetus at home. Because there was no one to take care of her, Yue Yue called her mother to the house and accompanied her by the way, and lived day by day until she gave birth to a child.
After giving birth to a child and sitting on the confinement, during this period has been the mother in care, watching the daughter finish the confinement, the mother and Yue Yue proposed to go home, after all, there are still old people in the family who need to be taken care of.
After the mother left, Yue Yue began to discuss with her husband whether she could let the mother-in-law at home come over to help with the child, and the husband promised to be very good, but called the mother-in-law, the mother-in-law always dragged, always said that for a few days but still did not come.
Before Yue Yue asked for leave, the company arranged three months of maternity leave for her, and now seeing that the maternity leave is full, taking the child has become a big problem, at this time, she can only ask her husband again who to bring the child.
After hearing this, my husband said, "Can you call your mother again?" We can't pay your mom every month. Seeing that there was no other way, Yue Yue tried to call her mother.
Hang up the phone Yue Yue said to her husband: "My mother said, she also wants to help, but the family is really inseparable from her, you are not unaware, my father has been working outside for many years, the elderly in the family can only let her take care of alone, this is not a problem of money or money, mainly the child and your family name, let my mother take it, she is not obliged." ”
Originally, the husband did not have any reaction, but when he heard the last sentence, he immediately got angry, stood up and said to Yue Yue: "Isn't this your child?" Why is she not obliged to bring, if you want to say so, my mother is not obliged to take the child, who gives birth to who brings, you don't have to think about the work, honestly take the child at home. ”
Hearing her husband talk like this, he was very excited, did he have to take time and energy to pay alone after giving birth? Having a child has nothing to do with the in-laws, and it is better not to have a child at that time, and it is better not to have a child when it is better to have no children, and a college student who graduated from a prestigious university will be reduced to the point of being a housewife. Thinking of this, Yue Yue did not stop doing two, took the child back to her mother's house, and also changed the child's household name to her mother's family.
After changing the hukou, looking at her husband's regretful look, Yue Yue felt very relieved.
analyse:
In the problems that occur in Yueyue, there are many families that are facing such a dilemma. In the case that the elderly are reluctant to take children, many women who pay attention to their professions are not willing to give up their jobs at all, and they do not want to become a housewife themselves. The problem of having children may seem ordinary, but cases of broken families because of this problem are common. Therefore, before having children, couples must consider various problems after the birth of children, and cannot blindly give birth to children, resulting in frequent occurrence of various problems.
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