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Why do you have to take your time in love?

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Why do you have to take your time in love?

It's a good faith to take it slow, and now I prefer a slower relationship.

In this fast-paced era, everyone is pursuing speed, it seems that love has become a fast food style, how many people in order to rush to get off the list, and forget the original appearance of love.

In fact, true love needs two people to slowly understand, good love is never afraid of time, only because time slowly precipitated and become more determined.

Why do you have to take your time in love?

Yue Yue has been a junior, but has not yet experienced the feeling of love, friends around her have told Yue Yue, let her hurry to find a partner, but she has not met the person she likes, watching her friends one by one are off the list, talking about sweet campus love, Yue Yue also began to be anxious. She also wants to experience a sweet campus romance.

So she decided to start looking for an object, Yue Yue is a more introverted person, so she does not know many friends, under the advice of friends, she sent her message to the confession wall, hoping that she can find the object here.

Sure enough, not long after it was sent, many boys took her WeChat.

"Hello, I'm Xiao Lei, can I make a friend with you?" One such message popped up on WeChat.

"Yes!" Yue Yue replied.

Why do you have to take your time in love?

So the two people began to chat, that day they talked a lot, slowly have some understanding of each other, because Yue Yue was eager to get off the list, so the two people just chatted for two days to determine the relationship.

After determining the relationship, Yue Yue was very happy, so they decided to meet, the two people made an appointment to meet, and when it came to the agreed time, Yue Yue carefully dressed up and waited for Xiao Lei's arrival, and Yue Yue came to the agreed place in advance.

Xiao Lei also packed himself up early, came to the agreed place, met for the first time, they were very happy, and they also went to watch movies together, went shopping together, and ate delicious food.

Although the first time they met, yue yue always felt that Xiao Lei did not make himself so satisfied, because Xiao Lei's appearance was not the type that Yue Yue liked, and with the mentality of trying it out, Yue Yue and Xiao Lei talked about love.

The two people are also as affectionate as other couples, eating together every day, studying together, watching movies together, saying a few love words every day, and they have also become the envy of others.

Why do you have to take your time in love?

Time passed quickly, and in the blink of an eye, several weeks had passed, and Yue Yue still felt that she didn't like Xiao Lei much.

After thinking about it carefully, Yue Yue felt that she was actually anxious to get off the list, so she chose Xiao Lei, she did not like Xiao Lei so much, so it would hurt both people, and it would only be very painful in the end, so Yue Yue decided to confess to Xiao Lei.

This meeting, Yue Yue said to Xiao Lei with a calm mood: "Sorry, Xiao Lei, let's break up, in fact, we all know that we don't like each other, maybe we just haven't been in love for too long, want to get off the list, I don't like this kind of love, real love needs to take it slowly, we don't know each other much, just talked about a fast food love, I hope we can take it slowly, meet the person who really understands themselves, and hope that you can find the person who is really suitable for yourself, There are better people waiting for us in the future. "

At the end of the story, the two people broke up peacefully, no sadness, no pain, just plain, like losing something, and like never having it.

Because both people understand that this is not true love, real love needs to be slow, and slow is the respect for each other.

Later, when the people around her began to talk about love, and everyone also advised Yue Yue to get off the list, Yue Yue just smiled faintly, she would spend more time to improve herself, let herself take it slowly, because she knew that what she wanted, time would always be given to her, and now she prefers a slower life, as for love, she must also take it slowly.

Why do you have to take your time in love?

In fact, many people are like the protagonists in the story, seeing that the people around them are off the list, they are in a hurry to fall in love, find a person they don't like, and talk about a fast-food love, which is not love.

Two people together, spend more time chatting, determine the time to eat together and watch movies, chat about each other's lives, learn more about each other's preferences, understand each other's friends, instead of saying a few love words, making a few days of phone calls, like who to play with, hurry to find someone to get off the list in a hurry together, such a love has no love, only form.

We still have the rest of our lives, and there is no need to rush to finish it all at once. If you love me, then love slowly, longer. If you fall in love next time, then slow down, like it slowly, be together slowly, it doesn't matter if you meet you later, as long as it is you for the rest of your life, it is enough!

In the past, the carriages and horses were very slow, the letters were very slow, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime. However, now the fast-paced life has made many people talk about a fast-food love, and finally it hastily ended, leaving many regrets.

Love needs to come slowly, it doesn't matter if you are late, you will always meet the person who runs in both directions, he can accompany you for a long time, and slowly is growth, but also homework!

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The author | Li Juan

Editor| Zhang Cangran

Review | Wang Longlong

Review | Wang CenYu

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