No matter what kind of family, it seems that after a certain period of time, there will be a problem of worry - that is, the love of the child and even the marriage problem.
In recent days, a video of a university professor "soliciting marriage" for his children has gone viral. The information learned from this is that the mother who is married is a teacher at the School of Foreign Languages of Shaanxi Normal University, and the title should be associate professor or above. My father is also a university teacher in Xi'an, and his title should also be associate professor or above.
literary family.
The word to describe this family is the most appropriate, and everyone will wonder - such a good family condition, is the child still worried about finding a girlfriend?
In fact, sometimes whether you can find a girlfriend really doesn't have much to do with family. The real influence of the family on a couple is whether the last two people can smoothly enter the palace of marriage, and whether the life after marriage is harmonious and satisfactory.
The problem is, most people get stuck in the first step – finding a suitable partner.
Therefore, there is a pair of professors who marry their children, and it is reasonable to say that it is a marriage. Parents come forward, and they definitely hope that the child can find a girl who can go on forever. Unlike most families, parents do not "show off" or protect anything like others, such as having a car and a house and savings at home, and children do not have to care after marriage.
As high-ranking intellectuals, the "bride price" they give to future "daughters-in-law" is also intellectual. For example, this "mother-in-law-to-be" promised that if she could come together with her son, she would do her best to tutor the English of the "daughter-in-law-to-be" and help various English proficiency tests, such as level four or six, and specialty four and eight.
What are you waiting for in this breath? Don't be happy to meet the future "mother-in-law"! If it were me, I would say, "Mom, I'm coming."
Even more seductive is the "bride price" from the "father-to-be", who promises:
If you want to test for teachers, careers, and civil servants, you will provide one-on-one tutoring, and "iron rice bowl" is not a dream.
We don't care if this is a "painting cake", but this "cake" ordinary people can't draw, after all, the strength is there.
From the effect point of view, this way of marriage is deeply loved by many netizens, and some netizens commented:
mother! I'm going to have a special eight!
mother! father! I'm coming!
Although the effect is good, but you don't mention anything about other boys, isn't it a little bad?
Of course, netizens also remain sober, and most of them want to express their desire to pass the special eight and the expectation of the preparation of the landing. Therefore, netizens said bluntly:
Can you just live with your in-laws and don't have sons?
It's so real.
This pattern of marriage is indeed very interesting.
At the end of the article, the author also wants to give you a suggestion from your personal experience:
Undergraduate is really the best time to find a life partner, and everyone should seize the opportunity in time. At this stage, you will have plenty of time and not much academic pressure, and perhaps the biggest problem is the "financial pressure" after two people are together. Such campus love is really beautiful.
If you go to work or graduate school after graduation, and then think about this matter, you will no longer have the original feeling, and it seems that there are more utilitarian things. For example, blind dates may be to cope with the arrangements of relatives and friends, which is an irresponsible performance for themselves and others. For example, the graduate school stage may be entangled in scientific research, and three years is really fleeting. If it is a doctoral study, it may be more difficult to find, the age is on the one hand, their high or low will not become a larger influencing factor.
Readers, how old are you this year? Have you already found the right partner? Everyone is welcome to discuss their views and experiences in unsaling.