On a snowflakey noon in December 2009, Yang Deyu held a quilt and food, knocked on the door of his cousin Yang Suo's house, and was surprised to see his cousin lying upright in the corner, he touched the other's nose and found that he had lost his breath.
"Come on people, come on people, Yang Suo is dead!" Yang Deyu screamed in fright and ran out of the house.
The neighbors rushed to hear the sound, for Yang Suo's death, everyone was both sad and regretful, but more than that, they were sighing, because this 23-year-old young man with sound limbs was lazy to die.
In this world, is there really anyone who will be lazy to die? Yes, and the story behind him is really unheard of.
So what is the story behind this Yang Suo, who is known as "China's first lazy man"?
In 1986, Yang Suo fell to the ground in an ordinary family in Zhutang Township, Luoshan County, Xinyang City, Henan Province, and his arrival brought great joy to the Yang couple, who were already over 40 years old.
The Yang family has three generations of single transmission, coupled with the fact that the couple is old and has a son, they naturally regard this child as a treasure, and even named him Yang Suo, wanting to protect the flesh on the tip of this heart tightly.
Since the birth of his son, the second elder has opened the life mode of the darling demon, reducing his clothes and food, but doing his best to give the best to his son.
Despite the poverty of the family, the children had meat in their bowls, while they themselves ate pickle bibimbap every day, and the son satisfied him without saying anything when he said something.
Once, when there were guests at home, Yang Suo shouted: "I want to eat chicken legs", Yang Father actually left the guests at the dinner table, pedaled the bicycle for more than an hour, and bought the chicken legs back for his son to eat.
The children in the village can only eat the special snack lard steamed bun several times a year, Yang Suo can eat two a day, sometimes tired of eating a bite and throwing it away, other children see the saliva of hunger.
In addition to responding to the child's needs, they also treat their sons as "pets" as carefully cared for, afraid of the child bumping, they do not give him to walk on the ground, every day is not in the arms on the shoulders, even the work in the field with a basket to carry him, people's children are more than a year old has been jumping on the ground, but Yang Suo is 8 years old before he began to walk on the ground.
In other words, Yang Suo was still very well-behaved at the beginning, sometimes he would take the initiative to pick up a broom to help clean the house or something, but his parents immediately stopped him as soon as they saw it, "You don't do it, don't get tired, just play."
Slowly, Yang Suo got used to the honeypot-style pampering of his parents, and he began to do nothing.
In the blink of an eye, Yang Suo had already begun to go to school, but he was spoiled and habitual, too lazy to listen to the lectures in class, and the homework assigned by the teacher was too lazy to do.
As soon as the teacher criticized him, he ran to complain to his parents. Normal parents encounter this situation, they will correct their children's mistakes, but Yang Suo's parents choose to favor their sons, and they actually run to the school to ask the teacher for the crime, accusing the teacher of being too harsh on his son.
The teacher bitterly persuaded them: "Yang Suo, this child is very smart, he just doesn't like to do homework, if he can correct his learning attitude, he will make a difference in the future..."
Who knows, the Yang couple could not listen to the advice of the teacher, and still protected the calves in a vague way.
The school sometimes arranges labor classes for students to pick tea leaves or something, so as to exercise their hands-on ability, and other students are actively involved, but Yang Suo's father quickly instructed the teacher: "My son does not have to do anything at home, don't tire him, let him watch." ”
In the face of such strange parents, teachers are also very headaches. They really want to pull Yang Lock, but the parents' non-cooperation and partiality have hindered their actions, and over time, the teachers can't help it.
Later, Yang Suo simply skipped school for three days and let his parents beg his grandfather and grandmother to beg him to go to school, and in this way, his studies gradually became completely abandoned, and as soon as he graduated from primary school, he dropped out of school.
Back at home, Yang Suo started a long-term lying flat life, more than ten years old, he has no ability to take care of himself, even eating, dressing and washing have to be done by his parents.
Although they work hard every day, Yang Suo's parents are willing to do so, they will first help their son dress and wash his face every day, feed and drink him well, and then go out to work after doing everything properly.
The neighbors saw that the Yang couple spoiled their son so much, and could not help but be kind to persuade each other, reminding the couple not to spoil the child, but they still went their own way, and they also had a word: "What is wrong with my own children, don't you feel sorry for your children?" ”
Under the ultimate care of his parents, Yang Suo, who was born in the cold door, enjoyed the treatment of a rich and noble child without compromise, and became a young master who did not learn any skills and was idle.
If nothing else, he, a cold nobleman, could continue to be comfortable. In 1999, when Yang Suo was 13 years old, his father suffered from liver cancer, and soon left his most worried son and passed away.
Since then, the burden of taking care of Yang Suo and the family has fallen on his mother.
The death of his father did not make Yang Suo mature, he just felt that without his father's intimate care, his life was not as comfortable as before. As a result, he became more and more dependent on his mother.
In this way, the burden on Yang Suo's mother's shoulders can be described as heavier, and she has to take care of Yang Suo's giant baby's living and eating every day, and also go to the fields to work on the farm and seek a livelihood.
The indulged Yang Suo did not feel the hardships of the old mother at all, and he never wanted to be considerate and hurt her, and shared the burden of life for her. He simply enjoyed his mother's service with peace of mind and continued to live a corpse-like life at home.
As she grew older and overworked for a long time, Yang Suo's mother's body became weaker and weaker, and she began to be overwhelmed.
She realized that it was time for her son to learn to live independently and learn to take on some responsibilities, otherwise he would not be there in the future, what could he do?
So, she began to try to let her son do some housework, but Yang Suo has been accustomed to clothes to reach out for more than ten years, rice to open his mouth, ten fingers do not touch the Yang Chunshui, he is not even bothered to take chopsticks, where is he willing to do housework?
Once, Yang Suo's mother was sick and bedridden, and she instructed Yang Suo: "Go to the field to weed, my mother can't walk", but even if she repeatedly summoned, Yang Suo still couldn't move, and by the way, she threw down a sentence "You won't go to another day!" ”
Yang Mu could only lament one after another, wasn't this child in front of her used to it?
Yang Suo not only refused to help his mother share the housework, but whenever his mother was sick and could not serve him well, he would also be furious, shouting and scolding his mother, a look of unfilial virtue that had lost his conscience.
Overwhelmed, Yang's mother became ill with overwork, and when Yang Suo was 18 years old, she stuck in the field while working and died.
After Yang's mother died, Yang Suo's uncle took pity on his nephew and vacated a back room and asked him to move in.
In order to let him learn to make an independent living, his cousin Yang Deyu introduced him to the town's construction site to do things, but Yang Suo went to the construction site in the morning and felt that the construction site was too hot, and took advantage of the noon break to secretly run home and lie down.
Subsequently, his cousin introduced him to the hotel in the county to be a waiter, but he had always been served, where he knew how to serve others, as a result, he instead commanded others to serve him, and even when he ate, he had to help him prepare dishes and chopsticks.
Soon, the hotel owner sent someone to send him home. Subsequently, the cousin introduced him to several simple jobs, but none of them could be done for more than three days.
Facing this "unsupportable Ah Dou", the cousin did not have a rut, and he no longer introduced him to work. Soon, the cousin got married, and Yang Suo returned to live in his house, and Yang Suo never went out to work again.
In fact, even if Yang Suo does not go to work, as long as he is willing to work, he can live a stable life, because his parents have left him fields, orchards, vegetable fields, ponds and other resources that can allow him to survive.
But Yang Suo had long been accustomed to a life of pampering and pampering, and he didn't want to think at all, nor did he bother to do things.
In this way, he began the idle life of an unemployed vagrant, wandering around the village every day, or lying at home and sleeping in the dark, day and night, sometimes sleeping for a few days.
When he had no money to use, he took out the valuable things in the house and sold them, and gradually, he became a disciple of the family, and finally he could only become a beggar.
A big young man, do not wash every day, the whole body is dirty and smelly, a long hair is sticky and rolling into a mess; the clothes will not be changed for many days, really can't stand it, take it off and throw it away, change it again, get rid of the "sharp brother" one.
When he was too hungry to do so, he would go out and beg his neighbors, or go to the garbage dump to pull leftover meals and broken fruits from others.
The neighbors sympathized with him and would send him vegetables and meat from time to time, but he felt that it was too troublesome to cook them and let the food rot and stink in the house.
"Such a big person, you give him food to eat, he still wants you to feed him directly into his mouth", the neighbors who helped him could not help but shake their heads and sigh, and slowly, the neighbors no longer sent him anything.
In the cold winter, there was no firewood at home for warmth, so he took down the mattress and furniture as firewood to make a fire, and once almost caused a fire and burned himself.
What was even more surprising was that he didn't even bother to defecate in the hut, directly cut a pit in the floor of the house, squatted up to untie his hands, and directly covered up the matter with grass and grass after the incident.
A good house was torn to pieces by him, and the smell was so bad that even people passing by covered their noses and walked away.
Friends, relatives and neighbors at first still pitied him, but later he saw that he had been abandoning himself and not changing his inertia, and gradually stopped paying attention to him.
Yang Suo was just such a person who had been confused for several years.
In the winter of 2009, Zhutang Township was covered with snow and cold, and Yang Suo's doorway was covered with thick snow along the way.
Because of the rain and snow, he had not been out for several days, and he was hungry and cold, and he was lying on the ground.
Perhaps he was too lazy to even have the desire to survive; perhaps he was tired of living this kind of walking dead life alone for a long time, and he just lay quietly on the ground, not eating or drinking, waiting for fate to give him a verdict.
Gradually, he fell asleep, and this sleep never woke up again.
Yang Suo's cousin suddenly remembered that there had been no news of Yang Suo for several days, and was worried that he was hungry and frozen, so he rolled up a quilt, carried a bowl of hot food, and stepped on the snow one foot deep and one foot shallow to the door of Yang Suo's house.
Thus, the opening scene appeared, and he found that Yang Suo had died in the house. Yang Suo, 23 years old and in his youth, should have worked hard to fight for the future, but he was lazy, which is indeed unbelievable, but the root cause behind it will find that his fate is not accidental.
As the saying goes: "Parents love their children, then they have far-reaching plans", Yang Suo's way of loving their children is obviously contrary to the right direction.
They doted on him too much, doing everything for him, making him lazy from an early age and having no ability to take care of himself, resulting in his loss of the ability to survive after losing the protection of his parents.
It can be said that Yang Suo's parents tied up this good seedling with love and personally killed his chance to grow into a towering tree.
Yang Suo's cousin once said in an interview that among their eight or nine brothers and sisters, Yang Suo was the most handsome, intelligent and clever child.
He listened to songs since he was a child, and as soon as he learned to sing, he never lost to other children by playing gyroscopes, cardboard games, or anything.
What is even more amazing is that during his father's illness, he was able to take the money alone and take several trips to the county town more than 300 kilometers away to help his father enter a batch of goods.
But when he came home and was proud of the only great achievement in his life, his mother held him and cried bitterly, feeling that he was tired, and said that he would never let him do these things again.
It can be seen that such a good seedling, but in the end it withered early, in fact, there have always been traces to follow, that is, his parents buried his life in the name of love.
Yang Suo's story is even more thought-provoking while making people sigh and sigh: habitual children are like killing children, honey pots made by excessive spoiling by parents, for children, eating in the mouth is sweet, but after swallowing it is poison.
The true love of parents for their children is to learn to let go and let the children grow.