In the winter of 2009, a 23-year-old youth in Xinyang City, Henan Province, starved to death in his home. The young man who starved to death in his home was called Yang Suo, which means: in order to keep the child forever. This lock not only locked Yang Suo's life, but also the end of his life.
For people who can't grow up in a greenhouse environment for a lifetime, laziness is equivalent to burying a person alive, while Yang Suo's family is poor and the living conditions are difficult.
Such an environment has produced the titles of the first lazy person in Henan and the first lazy person in China, and the reason for this cannot escape the doting of parents. Coddling is not the original sin, but laziness in living with this "duty" tempts people to fall.
Locked in life
The arrival of Yang Suo added hope to the life of this poor family, and the parents specially found experts to name this new life, which is a new beginning for this family.
When he was 8 years old, Yang Suo's father still carried him with a burden and did not let him walk on the ground. As the saying goes: "Three years old to see the old", at this time Yang Suo is still as ignorant as a child.
At this time, the children in the countryside are generally precocious, and they know how to help the people in the family when they are not old, but Yang Suo's parents are distressed that their children will never let him help the people in the family. Yang Suo's parents had to cook for him on time every time they came home from work, and his mother personally fed Yang Suo to eat.
Yang Suo reached the age of school, usually pampered people who grew up in school can not stand a little grievance, after being criticized by a teacher, Yang Suo returned home and began to cry, parents did not ask Yang Suo the reason is just blind doting unconditional satisfaction.
In this way, Yang Suo's parents rushed to the school with anger to find the teacher and quarreled, although the teacher explained clearly, they still did not forgive. In this way, the teacher no longer paid attention to such a special person, and Yang Suo dropped out of school and stayed at home.
The beginning of the tragedy
At the age of 13, this is the turning point of Yang Suo's life. Dropping out of school at home, he has been staying at home unwilling to communicate with others, his parents still personally complete everything, his mother still feeds Yang Suo, and Yang Suo's eyes have no light.
At the age of 13, he is still living a life of wearing clothes to stretch out his hands and eat, but his father died of liver disease, and the burden of life was on his mother alone, which made the already poor family even worse.
After experiencing the death of her father, her mother shouldered the burden of taking care of Yang Suo and all the families, and Yang Suo was just as she was.
He didn't know what was wrong with his father? Nor did he have any sadness, and his father died while he was still ignorant. But his father still did not teach him the skills of life when he died, and his mother still doted on him without a bottom line. This cyclical laziness is also the beginning of the tragedy of Yang Suo's life.
Sinful love comes
When all the disaster comes, people can't even react to panic. At the age of 18, due to long-term overwork, Yang Suo's mother finally left him alone.
The death of his mother left the child who had been growing up hiding under the wings of his parents face the first difficulty of his life. But he can't do anything, he can't cook, he can't work, he can't get along with people.
For 18 years, he has been living in the small world made up for him by his parents, he has never wanted to take a step, he lives in his own world and does not need to understand and learn anything.
He had lost the emotions that a normal person possessed, so the death of his mother had made his life one less than one too cold to dress him, and he could not feel any pain from the people who fed him to eat.
Lazy people also feel troublesome to draw a circle, and Yang Suo, who has lost the care of his parents, will not do it himself even if there is food at home.
Heading for the fall
Laziness is the beginning of life and death, Yang Suo, who has lost everything, lives every day in a muddy nightmare, and his cousin Yang Deyu is worried that he cannot live independently and takes him to his home. Yang Suo, who went to his cousin's house, did not change himself because of the death of his parents, and still waited for others to take care of him.
When his cousin saw this, he asked him to follow him to the construction site, and the fatigue on the construction site made Yang Suo, a person who had never worked, unable to persist, and a few days later, he escaped from the construction site. This time, Yang Suo gave up the last chance to choose his life.
Yang Suo returned to the village, and in order to make a living, he was introduced by the people in the village to the county hotel and began to work as a waiter.
However, according to the hotel staff, Yang Suo did nothing after coming here, and asked others to serve him. In this case, he was sent home. After that, Yang Suo never thought of finding a new job.
The people in the village saw that he was pitiful and sent him some meat and vegetables, and Yang Suo hung these meats and vegetables under the house. He began to sell his belongings, and when he sold the money, he went to the restaurant to eat, but he never cooked his own meals. In this way, there was nothing in the family that could be sold, and Yang Suo began a life of begging.
Fireworks that have never bloomed
Yang Suo often did not have food to eat, and whenever this time he would run to his cousin's house to rub a meal, after eating, he would run back to his home to sleep for two days, and so on.
Until the winter of 2009, this year's winter was exceptionally cold, after several heavy snowfalls, the cousin could not see yang suo's figure and began to rush to Yang Suo's home in a hurry, at this time Yang Suo was already dead.
People in the village found stinky meat and moldy vegetables in Yang Suo's home, and there were also rice noodles at home. But these things are always complicated for Yang Suo, because lazy people even feel that the clothes on his body are heavier, let alone let him cook and eat by himself, and he eventually dies because of his laziness.
He died at the age of 23, but lost his life at the best of his life because of his laziness.
Yang Suo, he should have had a wonderful life of his own, but because of the unconditional doting of his parents, he developed a lazy personality, unwilling to face life and unwilling to make changes.
His parents' doting eventually became an obstacle to his inability to move forward in life. Nor did his parents teach him the skills to live alone. And his contentment with the safe house given by his parents also prompted him to eventually die.
In Yang Suo's tragic life experience, we can learn that it is a matter of course for parents to care for their children, but excessive care will become doting.
In the process of educating children, parents play a leading role, as parents can love but to grasp the scale, education itself is a long-term insistence on things, if as parents can not practice the education of children, then children can not have good development.
If it cannot be the right direction to guide the child's life, then the parents' love for the child will eventually become the child's harm. Parents want their children to grow up under their wings, but flowers that have not experienced wind and rain will eventually perish when the greenhouse no longer exists.
Only through the wind and rain can meet the rainbow, if Yang Suo's parents learn that their son will die of laziness in the future, perhaps they will change the way they educate their son. However, there is no possibility in life, and a person's life is only once. Articles from the web.