Laziness and industriousness are antonyms, both of which are used to describe human habits.
Some people are born diligent and some people are born lazy.
However, I don't know if you have ever heard of people who have lazily killed themselves?
In 2009, there was a man in Henan, too lazy to walk, did not want to eat, and finally starved himself to death in bed at home, which was also on the news, his name was Yang Suo.
Yang Lock, whose feet are not off the ground
In 1986, a newborn named Yang Suo fell to the ground in the home of a resident in Luoshan County, Xinyang City, Henan Province.
The parents were very happy about the arrival of this new life, and decided to treat him as their treasure in the palm of their hands, spoiling him like a pampered person.
The origin of the name Yang Suo is also quite said, because Yang Suo's parents are farmers, the usual job is to do farm work, in the eighties the idea of son preference is very serious, the father hopes that his children can stay by his side in the future, so he has the name Yang Suo.
The husband and wife discussed how to take care of Yang Suo and grow up!
Because I have to go out to work every day, I leave my children at home alone, and I am not at ease.
So it was decided to carry Yang Suo on his back, both to work and take care of his children, the husband and wife took turns to carry Yang Lock, in such a pampered environment, Yang Suo's life can be described as smooth.
Not only is it worried that the child will not be taken care of, but every time Yang Suo cries, Yang Suo's mother will always feed the child.
If this is not a problem when the child is young, because the baby is crying often means that the stomach is hungry.
But until Yang Suo is one year old, children of the same age have begun to learn to walk, Yang Suo is still in the arms of Yang Mother, his feet do not fall to the ground, every day noisily want his mother to breastfeed, according to Yang Mother recalled: "At this time, I was almost weaned, and the child would not be able to suck milk, and sometimes he would bite it." ”
And that's not even the most exaggerated!
Yang Suo reached the age of three, and children of the same age were already running around on the road, having fun with their friends.
But Yang Suo's parents are afraid that if their children go to play with them, they will be bullied very badly. And walking this kind of work, can not let the son to walk, they think that their children will be rich and noble in the future, go out to let people eight car to ask out of the kind of treatment, is so spoiled by parents, so that Yang Suo 3 years old can not stand steadily, let alone walk.
The neighbors around Yang Suo also found this child who was treated like a baby, and they asked Yang Suo's parents: "Is this your baby?" I see that my child is about the same age as you, my children are running in the field to play with mud, why haven't I seen your children playing with them? Yang Suo's parents said haughtily, "What do you know?" This treasure of my family will be a person who will make a lot of money in the future, eating mountain treasures and seafood, food, clothing, housing and transportation have special services, playing with mud is something that you ordinary people do, and my family's treasure life can be noble. If you come down and run around with your wild children, fall and hurt your body, you can't afford this responsibility. ”
It is precisely because Yang Suo's parents spoil their children that it is too exaggerated.
The neighbors around them have also advised Yang Suo's parents many times, so that if they teach their children, not only will they not be able to become talented, but after leaving you in the future, they will not be able to do anything, do you expect you to raise Yang Suo when you are old, or do you want Yang Suo to raise you?
Moreover, everyone is a common people, where is the high and low theory, socialism advocates the idea of equality for all, you as parents, this is not to teach children, but to ruin the children's life to understand?
Yang Suo's parents are not moved by how to persuade, still give the child the best and most thoughtful care, do not let Yang Suo take chopsticks and spoons when eating, wear clothes is also the parents to take the clothes to the side, bathing is also the mother to help Yang Suo wash clean. Where Yang Suo wants to go is not to walk, is to let the parents carry it, it can be said that they grew up on the back of their parents, if this behavior is placed on animals, perhaps only the habits of kangaroos and tree raccoons, the same as Yang Suo.
However, as Yang Suo grows up day by day, his height and weight are no longer suitable for being carried on his back, and Yang Suo's parents gradually cannot carry the children on their shoulders.
But he didn't want his child to walk on the ground, didn't want his heart and liver baby, and was a little wronged, Yang Suo's father came up with a ridiculous "good idea": strengthen the burden used to pick grass, and then put Yang Lock in the basket, and we two couples carried the child forward and backward.
What is even more unexpected is that Yang Suo's mother actually agreed with Yang Suo's approach, so every time Yang Suo traveled, he could always be seen sitting in the frame, carried by his parents one after the other.
Yang Suo's diet is also very picky, in order to give their children the best food, parents eat steamed sweet potato rice bran every day, and use the money earned from work to buy meat for Yang Suo to eat.
Over time, Yang Suo developed the evil habit of only eating meat and not eating vegetables, and not all meat can be eaten, only delicious meat, if the meat is too hard to bite, the taste is not fragrant enough, Yang Suo will choose to spit it out.
You should know that the price of meat in the nineties was far from the same level as today, and if you want to have meat at that time, it was definitely a wealthy family, and it was difficult for ordinary families to eat several meals of meat a week.
Not to mention waste, in the minds of that generation, wasting food was undoubtedly a waste of one's own life.
In the face of the picky Yang Suo, the parents not only did not reprimand and correct, but felt that this was a picky eater personality that only had a rich and noble life.
Yang Suo's parents will pick up the meat that their children do not like to eat, pick it up and wash it with water, and then leave it for themselves to eat, and it is precisely because of various bad habits that Yang Suo will step by step into the abyss.
Yang Suo actually noticed this kind of place that is different from others, and during an outing, Yang Suo asked: "Mom, why am I different from the children around me?" Why are they able to walk like you, but I have to be carried by you on a burden, is it because my feet cannot walk? ”
Yang Mother replied: "Yes, Suo'er, your fate is good, in the future will definitely become a big person with one hand covering the sky, how can a big person walk, they all have to be carried by others, walking is too tired, let your parents bear for you, in the future, after you become a talent, you must remember that your parents are good to you, don't forget that we have trained you to be talented." Yang Suo lived in the habit of his parents in this way, nothing, leaving his parents was equivalent to the fish leaving the water as helpless.
At a New Year's family gathering, Yang Suo's relatives all came to visit this child who was used to becoming a treasure, and Yang Suo at the table not only did not pay attention to etiquette, greeted relatives, but also looked at the table full of "vegetables", and when there was no piece of meat, he directly cried.
Yang Suo's father hurriedly asked why he was crying, and Yang Suo said a sentence that shocked everyone present: "What do you see what this thing is?" Is this for me to eat? Don't you know I love meat? What does it mean to set a table for me? ”
It is hard to believe that this is a child who is only ten years old, can say such words, the dishes on the table are prepared for everyone, but Yang Suo feels that it is prepared for himself, does not care about others at all, and does not know how precious meat is for civilian families, and Yang Suo is pointing in front of so many people, there are really no rules.
Relatives around pointed out that Yang Suo was not educated, there was no courtesy at all, and when he spoke, he was still aggressive, and he did not expect that the person who rejected this remark first was not Yang Suo, but Yang Suo's father: "You don't blame Suo'er, I am willing to feed him with meat, he is not used to these dishes I can understand, I will now go to the city to buy him his favorite chicken legs." After Yang Suo heard the chicken leg, he immediately stopped crying, and his face showed a proud smile, but in the eyes of his relatives, this child has no future, the most important morality of being a man is not correct, and how to achieve great things.
After Yang Suo's father bought the chicken legs back, everyone had already begun to eat, but Yang Suo sat alone in his mother's arms and ate nothing. Yang Suo's father handed the chicken leg to his son's mouth, Yang Suo only needed to open his mouth, and even without using his hands to eat meat, Yang Suo's uncle couldn't look down and said: "Do you think you are raising a child?" After you are so big a person, you still need others to feed, who will feed you when you grow up, and when you are old as parents, do you think Yang Suo can take care of you? If you are not with him, he is a waste. ”
Yang Suo's father heard such cruel words and said sternly: "This is my child, I want to raise how to raise, can not turn you to teach me how to do, in the future Lock Er will definitely become a talent, then you don't come to ask Lock Er to give you alms!" ”
The party finally ended in a confrontation full of gunpowder, Yang Suo's laziness and ignorant style have become more and more obvious in various manifestations, and his parents have fallen ill because of years of physical labor.
Suddenly, the family's situation was even worse
After Yang Suo was ten years old, his parents could hardly carry their children, so they taught Yang Suo how to walk, but at this time Yang Suo had been spoiled, and he angrily said to his father: "Didn't you tell me not to walk at the beginning, saying that you had been carrying me, why did you lie to me, why didn't you carry it, is it because of remorse?" Father Yang looked at the unreasonable child in front of him, and he could only sigh in his heart.
Accidents always come very suddenly, Yang Suo's father suddenly fell ill, went to the hospital to check for advanced liver cancer, the reason is that long-term physical activity can not be fully rested, nutrition can not be replenished.
Now if you want to be cured, you must surgically remove the cancerous part, otherwise the cancer cells will spread to all corners of the body, and you will not be able to cure it at that time.
Yang Suo's mother was very anxious, wanted to take out all the savings of the family for surgery, but found that it usually cost Yang Suo too much money to buy meat and snacks, there was not much savings at all, Yang Suo's father also said: "No need to cure, leave the money to the lock, I am destined to live only to this age, it seems that I can not enjoy the return that the lock gives me, after I leave you must take good care of Yang Suo, can not treat him badly." ”
For the death of Yang Suo's father, Yang Suo, as a son, has not changed at all, and he often complains that his mother is not doing things alone.
After the father left, the family had one less source of income, Yang Suo's life gradually became not very good, after the savings were spent, there was no money to buy meat to eat, Yang Suo even went on a hunger strike, did not eat any vegetables, Yang Mother realized that her son was used to "dead" alive.
Yang Suo's mother had to work two jobs alone in order to have money to buy meat for her son, a long-term tired job, and Yang's mother was eventually knocked down by the illness.
Looking at his mother who was lying on the bed unable to move, Yang Suo did not have any heartache, and even said to his mother, "I am hungry, you go and buy me some meat and come back, eat it immediately." Yang Suo's mother choked up and said, "Baby, I really can't move, there is some money in the drawer, you take it to buy it yourself, your mother wants to sleep for a while."
Unexpectedly, Yang Suo did not understand his mother, and yelled and scolded: "What is the use of you as a waste, you can't even buy meat for me, you simply died like your father." Yang Suo's mother was also angry with the spoiled child in front of her, so that she could not speak, and could only close her eyes and cry silently, and finally failed to escape the fate of death.
Without Yang Suo of his parents, a person can't eat, live and live!
When he had no money to eat, he lay on his own bed, did not wash his clothes in the bath, and did not change his clothes, and at first Yang Suo's cousins would help him when his parents died because of his brother's friendship.
But over time it was definitely not a good idea, and Yang Suo even felt that this was something that cousins should do.
Every time the cousin came to deliver food and money, Yang Suo not only did not say thank you, but even did not bother to go to the door, asking the cousins to send food to their bedside, they did not want money, as long as they came to send something to themselves, because they did not want to go out to spend it. The cousins saw that Yang Suo was so delicious and lazy, so they gradually gave up the idea of helping Yang Suo and let him kill himself.
Yang Suo lost the help of others, did nothing at home alone, and after eating all the food in the family, no one could send it over.
Finally, one night in 2009, the hungry and cold Yang Suo's consciousness gradually became blurred, and after slowly closing his eyes, he never opened them again, so a living person slept himself to death.
Parents' love for their children is beyond reproach, but excessive pampering is harmful to their children.
Yang Suo's laziness to death is just an example, he is more of a reflection of the parents' doting of their children, if Yang Suo cultivates the ability to be active and capable and independent from an early age, he will not fall into starvation in his own home, and even the death of his parents does not feel heartache.
He is not only lazy in behavior, but also unable to integrate into society ideologically, his parents always regard him as the center, and over time Yang Suo feels that the heavens and the earth are the biggest in himself, and he looks like no one in sight.
In the end, we were also punished by fate, and we should take this as a warning, work hard, and not become the second lazy person to be starved to death.