Remember what Rousseau once said:
"Man's education begins at birth, when he cannot speak and listens to others"
Therefore, parents are the first teachers of children's contact with life, whether it is living habits or polite upbringing, parents' education and guidance of children are also two people who affect children's lives.
Parents tie all their hopes to their children, regard children as pearls in the palm of their hands, "must not let the child suffer a little sin, a little grievance", the child's doting has become a common disease of many parents, and even some parents never let their children wash and cook, and even eat by people to feed, this kind of priceless love will cause consequences to the child?
Perhaps speaking of this, many parents feel that eating like this depends on their parents to feed too little, but he is real, and he also has the title of "China's first lazy man".
He is - Yang Suo, a Henan guy from an ordinary family and an ordinary family.
Yang Suo was born in 1986 in Zhutang Township, Luo County, Xinyang City, Henan Province, bringing hope to an ordinary peasant household, for his arrival, his parents are very happy, although the family life is not relaxed, but his parents injected all their efforts into his life.
It can be said that he gave him all his love and was very doting on Yang Suo. Whether it is the most basic laundry and cooking in life, washing his face is done by his parents, and even when eating, his mother feeds him bite by mouth.
In addition, Yang Suo's parents doted on him far more than that, when his parents went out, they did not let Yang Suo walk by himself, and the couple carried him with their burdens, or carried him out, even if Yang Suo grew up day by day, his parents still did this to him.
To the age when Yang Suo should go to school, his parents still have no bottom line to dot on him, even in school, Yang Suo does not love to study, nor does he do homework, the teacher educates him a little, he informs his parents, and the next day his parents will find trouble with the teacher.
He couldn't listen to any opinions from the teachers and villagers at all, still according to his own ideas, his bottomless love came to dote on Yang Suo, still yilai reached out to open his mouth, and let Yang Suo step by step into the abyss.
Loving children is a good thing, but over-spoiling, irrational love like Yang Suo's parents, what future will Yang Suo bring? What happened to Yang Suo's life later?
When Yang Suo's father was 13 years old, he died early due to ineffective medical treatment, and the burden of family life was all on his mother.
Even so, Yang Suo did not think of helping his mother to share everything in the family, and still selfishly enjoyed his mother's doting on himself.
And his mother, in addition to taking care of Yang Suo, who came to eat and open his mouth, also had to bear the heavy farm work in the family by herself, and every day she was tired and sore, even so, she was not willing to open her mouth to let Yang Suo help.
So day after day, year after year, Yang Suo's mother was finally crushed by the burden of life, and her body was not as good as before, at this time, her mother wanted Yang Suo to help her work, but it was Yang Suo's strong opposition, and even fisted and kicked his mother.
Finally, Yang Suo's mother also died of overwork.
And the family is only Yang Suo living alone, without any basis for life, family life can be imagined to be bad. When Yang Suo's cousin saw this situation, he took him to live at home and took him to work at the construction site where he was.
Yang Suo, who grew up in the doting of his parents, where he could bear this kind of suffering on the construction site, when he first arrived there, he was either too hot or tired, and within a few days he let people come back. Later, Yang Suo simply refused the job introduced by others and chose to stay at home and live a mixed life.
At first, I struggled to survive by selling my own things, and then I asked for food from each family walking the streets. When winter came, Yang Suo was even lazier, he burned all the house to keep warm, and even more because of the cold choice not to go out of the house.
In 2009, that year was particularly cold, it snowed for a few days, and his cousin went to see him with a quilt and food, but He did not expect that Yang Suo had lost his breath, was frozen alive, and starved to death there.
Yang Suo died in his own "lazy" way, and his departure may make many people feel pity. Maybe his parents shouldn't spoil Yang Suo too much, maybe his life will be a different scene.
There is no fault in the love of parents, but please do not love like this, excessive coddling brings a lifetime of pain to children.