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I believe that many people have heard such a parable, which is about a lazy man who has no self-care ability, who was taken care of by his mother from childhood and grew up, and was extremely doting. Once when his mother was about to go out, she hung a large piece of bread around his neck, enough to keep him up for a long time, but I didn't expect that the man was still starving to death, because he was too lazy to even turn the direction of the cake.
Fables are always written in a slightly more exaggerated way than reality in order to be thought-provoking, but this seemingly incredible story actually happened in life. It sounds unbelievable that a 23-year-old boy with sound limbs and a healthy body has starved to death at home because he is too lazy.
Born in 1986, this "China's first lazy man" was named "Lock" because his parents wanted to keep him around forever. Because Yang Suo was smart and cute when he was a child, his parents were extremely spoiled for him and did not let him do any work, Yang Suo has been living a life of wearing clothes to stretch out his hands and eat to open his mouth at home.
According to the villagers of Zhutang Township, When Yang Suo reached the age of 8, his parents were reluctant to let him walk, and they would carry him with a flat shoulder when they went out. If Yang Suo wants to help his parents work, his parents will also drive him aside and let him rest well. This situation did not get better when Yang Suo went to school, and whenever the teacher criticized him because he did not write homework and did not listen carefully to the lectures, the next day he would absolutely be run to the school by Yang Suo's father and mother to "ask the teacher for questioning".
After a long time, others could not control him, and Yang Suo himself had developed the bad disease of laziness. When he was 13 years old, his father died of liver disease and his mother's health deteriorated, at this time, he wanted Yang Suo to do some work and share the housework, but he was no longer willing to do anything.
The bottomless, unprincipled doting of his parents has already raised this originally intelligent and lively child, and laziness has worn away his initiative, and even consumed his affection and love for life.
In 2004, Yang Suo's mother died of overwork, and he had to move to the home of his cousin Yang Deyu. Yang Deyu wanted to take him to find a job, but Yang Suo said that he was not willing to do anything, and wanted his cousin's family to serve him, and finally Yang Deyu had to send him back to his original home, come to see him every few days, and send some food and clothing supplies.
Since then, Yang Suo has begun to live alone, but his self-care ability is almost zero, and he can only survive by selling median items. Later, when the family's things were sold out, he went to each family to beg for some food, and the villagers saw that he was pitiful, and often received some meat and vegetables, but as long as it was not cooked food, Yang Suo would not start cooking even if he let it stink.
On weekdays, Yang Suo lives a life of begging for food, sleeping, waking up and continuing to beg for food, and in winter, his life is even more difficult. The Yang family already had four walls, without any cold tools, Yang Suo could only take everything that could burn to burn for warmth, and finally even the only wooden bed in the family was burned by him.
The last time Yang Deyu saw Yang Suo was in the winter of 2009, when it snowed for a few days, Yang Deyu sent a quilt and food for Yang Suo, but when he pushed the door into the house, he found Yang Suo curled up in the corner, and there was no sign of life. Apparently, Yang Suo died of low temperature and starvation, and he was only 23 years old this year.
There is a cloud in the Zizhi Tongjian: "Love is not the way, and it is appropriate to harm it." "If parents spoil their children without boundaries and think that they love their children, they are actually harming their children's lives." If he could have been properly guided, Yang Suo's life could have lived a different way, but his parents' inappropriate education method deprived him of this possibility, causing a family tragedy, which is really sighing.