In a technologically advanced modern society, it's hard to imagine a man being stuttered to death at the age of 23, but such a thing is real. The name of the protagonist we introduce in this article is Called Yang Suo, I believe that many people have heard yang suo's name, but they do not know his story.
Yang Suo was the first lazy man in Henan, because laziness ended his life. Yang Suo's story was once published in a newspaper in Henan, the reason for publishing him is not outstanding, the reporter used him as a negative teaching material, aiming to encourage us to be self-reliant and diligent in life, and not to be lazy.
First, being spoiled by parents
In 1986, Yang Suo was born in a poor family in Xinyang City, Henan Province, because he was a child born when his parents were old, Yang Suo's parents unconditionally spoiled him. The family is very poor, but Yang Suo lives like a rich second generation.
Yang Suo's parents always carefully held him in their hands, and his parents lived in extreme poverty, but let him eat well and drink well. At the moment when Yang Suo was just born, his parents were excited for a long time, and then immediately spread the news to his relatives and friends, and the parents of the old man decided to raise Yang Suo as a prince.
From Yang Suo's name, we can see how spoiled his parents are, no matter how busy his parents are, they will always let a person spare time to cook for Yang Suo and take care of him. When the mother dressed Yang Suo, she was also careful, just in response to the old saying: holding it in her hand for fear of being dropped, and holding it in her mouth for fear of excessive temperature.
If Yang Suo's parents can fight the world, they would rather give the whole world to him to play. Since he was born, Yang Suo's parents have given him the best, and he was born in a poor family, but he lived a life of wearing clothes to stretch out his hands and eat to open his mouth.
When the other children learn to walk, Yang Suo is still lying in the arms of his parents. Yang Suo was already nine years old when he learned to walk, not that he had any congenital diseases, but that he was afraid that he would fall down and be injured when he walked, and he would hold him everywhere he went.
At the age of elementary school, Yang Suo was sent by his parents to the primary school in the township center. Yang Suo, who has been doted on by his parents since childhood, is not used to studying seriously in school, and he does not like to do homework at home, which is not a life that he can accept because of pampering. At first, the teacher would also teach Yang Suo, saying that he did not work hard like other children.
2. Drop out of school
After Yang Suo's parents knew, they immediately ran to the school and made a big fuss with the teacher, and the repeated noises made things change their nature, and the teacher no longer disciplined Yang Suo, allowing him to be lazy and addicted, which also caused Yang Suo not even to have a diploma from primary school.
After dropping out of school, Yang Suo slept at home every day, and he also wanted to help his parents do some work, but every time he got the same answer: It's too tiring to do these jobs, we don't want to tire you, we don't want you to make money, you go to rest. Yang Suo has been doted on by his parents since he was a child, and he believes that his laziness is taken for granted.
At the age of 13, Yang Suo's father fell ill with cancer and died of ineffective medical treatment. After that, the burden of Yang Suo's family's life was on his mother. Her mother did not make him do housework to reduce her burden, but took care of Yang Suo with all her heart, and no matter what Yang Suo asked, she would realize it.
At the age of 18, Yang Suo's mother died of overwork. Don't imagine that Yang Suo will change because of the death of his parents.
After losing his parents, Yang Suo lived a life of hunger, and he could only sell everything valuable in the family and buy some instant noodles to eat directly. The money sold allowed Yang Suo to live a good life, after which he had to go door to door to beg.
Over time, the villagers pitied Yang Suo, and every New Year's Day, they would organize a group to deliver milk and eggs to Yang Suo's home. But Yang Suo is too lazy, he is too lazy to get out of bed to cook these foods, even if the food stinks, he is reluctant to throw it away, the clothes on his body are dirty and never washed, he will only change a clean body, sometimes he can sleep for several days in a row, and when he is hungry, he will go out to beg for a bite of food when he can't stand it.
After two years of such a life, Yang Suo's living conditions became worse and worse, and he had to start seeking help from his relatives. His cousin Yang Deyu took pity on him and took him to his home to take care of him. Cousin Yang Deyu also found a job in the construction team for him.
Yang Suo did not exert any strength, he never did heavy work, always complained that the sun on the construction site was too sunny, the work was too tired, and finally sneaked home.
Others also introduced several jobs to Yang Suo, such as the job of a waiter. Yang Suo said that he did not know how to serve others, it was always his parents who served him, and he was not suitable for working in the hotel, and no one took care of himself.
Yang Suo lost patience with life, he did the best job - begging, living a lazy life every day, lazy vices are out of control, eating and sleeping, sleeping and eating.
3. Death
In the winter of 2009, when Yang Suo's cousin Yang Deyu returned to his hometown to deliver New Year goods, he remembered that he had not seen Yang Suo for a long time, he bought some food and bedding to visit Yang Suo's home, and also wanted to take Yang Suo to his house in the city for a year.
Unfortunately, when Yang Deyu came to Yang Suo's house, he found that Yang Suo had starved to death, and Yang Suo was only 23 years old at that time.
In 2017, actress Chen Shanshan overheard about Yang Suo, and she adapted Yang Suo's story into a movie. After the release of the film, it aroused the response of many netizens on the Internet, and the purpose of this film is to educate parents and children not to make any contributions to society when they are born, and not to be discussed as negative teaching materials by people after death.
Was Yang Suo really starved to death? Rather than being starved to death, he lost the ability to rely on himself in the transitional doting of his parents. In fact, in real life, we have seen many parents like his parents, always doting on their children, eager to provide a greenhouse for their children to become flowers in the greenhouse.
4. Summary
They want to give the kids a VIP treatment they never enjoyed when they were younger. In fact, this kind of care, this kind of meticulous care, is hurting them step by step, and is devouring them little by little. Children grow up to find that leisurely and comfortable jobs do not exist, any job requires full effort on their own, they simply cannot adapt to the environment of suffering and suffering, and they simply cannot willingly adapt to the unfair treatment of others.
Coddling can make children lose the ability to live, rather than making children overly dependent on themselves, it is better to let them try the hardships and setbacks in life early. There is a saying that if a person is smooth in the early stages, he will be knocked down by a small difficulty in middle age, so it is not meaningless to try the suffering in life.