In 2009, Yang Deyu came to visit his cousin Yang Suo with food and clothing, but what he did not expect was that he was still late.
When Yang Deyu arrived, his cousin Yang Suo was already stiff and dead for some time.
Yang Deyu hurriedly reported to the police, and the identification results showed that Yang Suo was starving to death!
You know, Yang Suo is still very young, only 23 years old, sober-minded, and his limbs are sound, how can he starve to death at home? And when the news spread, the local villagers said that Yang Suo did not starve to death, he was lazy.
How can a big guy die of laziness? What will happen to Yang Suo before he dies? What made him look like this? What kind of enlightenment does Yang Suo's life give us?
In 1986, a family in Zhutang Township, Luoshan County, Xinyang City, Henan Province, ushered in a great news, they were born a little boy, born white and fat.
The child's parents are all authentic farmers in the village, they have the idea of preferring sons to daughters, for them, after giving birth to such a big fat boy, there will be hope in the family! There is an old saying that goes: "Raise children to prevent old age", even if you are old, you have hope.
Father Yang smiled every day and couldn't keep his mouth shut, in order to keep his son around for a long time, he gave his son a name, "It is better to call yang suo!" Locked in the side of our old two from now on! You can't lose it! After Father Yang finished speaking to his wife, he went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register the child.
After Yang's mother sat in confinement, she also cared for this son, accompanied her son every day, and played with the big fat boy.
According to common sense, it is normal for parents to play with a child who is one or two years old. But this Yang Suo has grown to three or four years old, and he carries it in his parents' arms every day, and he hasn't even learned to walk!
All this made the villagers find out that something was wrong, and the villagers were very curious and asked Yang Mu, "Why do you still want you to hold this son every day?" Is there something wrong with his feet and can't walk? ”
After hearing this, Mother Yang was a little angry, and she said, "The boy of the family is different from you!" My little boy is a baby, what if he falls! He whose feet must not touch the ground! ”
This time lasted for another three years, and three years later, Yang Suo still couldn't walk. Someone else's six- or seven-year-old child, running and jumping on the street, is really walking like flying! Looking at the Yang family again, this boy still has to lie in the arms of his parents.
But I can't walk all the time, and that's a big problem! Yang Mother's body is not very good, holding Yang Suo every day consumes a lot of her physical strength; on the other hand, Yang Suo is also getting bigger and bigger, and her weight and height are rising, and it is not so easy to hold it.
When Father Yang saw this situation, he thought of a good idea: he found two large baskets and put his son inside. Since then, every time he goes out, he has to carry his son on his shoulder, which has become a "beautiful landscape" in the village.
In fact, if you simply can't walk, Yang Suo will not have the tragedy behind, and more importantly, Yang Suo wastes food and likes to pick fat and thin.
Although the family conditions of the Yang family are average, but his parents grow up for the happiness of their sons, so they eat, wear, live and travel are the best for him, this kind of doting makes Yang Suo extremely picky from an early age.
When he was young, Yang Suo followed his parents to eat some coarse tea and light rice, which was acceptable. Slowly, his father bought him some meat, chicken legs and the like for him to eat, and raised Yang Suo's mouth!
Yang Suo loves chicken legs, and his obsession with chicken legs is really fanatical, which has become an indispensable ingredient on their family dinner table.
At that time, the chicken legs made in the village were not delicious, and Father Yang had to run to the town far away to buy chicken legs.
Once, Yang's father took his precious son to a dinner party, and relatives and friends sat together, which was originally a very lively thing.
As a result, Xiao Yangsuo saw that there was no one his favorite meal on the dinner table and began to cry! Some family members also fed the meat on the dinner table to Yang Suo's mouth, and this Yang Suo picked and chose, but he refused to eat, and had to eat the chicken legs in the town.
Finally, Father Yang was helpless, riding a bicycle to the town a few kilometers away to buy chicken legs, the family saw this situation, they all shook their heads, helplessly sighed!
After Yang's father bought the chicken legs, he also fed them to Yang Suo bite by bite, and the relatives said: "He is so old, he can't eat it himself?" ”
Father Yang came and said: "No way, it's like this at home, get used to it!" Besides, I fed him and he wasn't tired! ”
Under the influence of his parents, Yang Suo was pretentious since he was a child, and he seemed very arrogant in speaking to others, and at first there were children playing with him, and gradually, due to his stinky temper, he didn't even have friends.
The reason why Yang Suo has no friends is not only because of this, the most important thing is that he does not know how to share and cherish. Once his parents bought him two lard buns, and Yang Suo was playing with many children.
The parents broke the lard bun into pieces and fed it to Yang Suo, and as a result, Yang Suo vomited out after eating a bite, and he hated it for not being delicious. None of the children around them had eaten this thing, and they were drooling.
After Yang Suo saw it, instead of sharing it with his friends, he threw the bun on the ground and stomped his feet twice! The children were angry when they saw it, and they all accused him of wasting food and not being able to play with him again.
When Yang Suo was seven years old, he was sent by his parents to a local primary school to study, and for a long time, his parents knew the importance of reading, and they felt that their children were so smart that they would be able to fly higher after entering school.
Reality hit Yang Suo's parents in the face fiercely! After Yang Suo entered the school, he was lazy and did not obey discipline, and soon became a standard problem student, and no one in the class was willing to be friends with him.
He was mischievous in the class, boasting every day, claiming that he was smart enough not to study at all, and the teacher asked him to do his homework, and he refused to listen.
The class teacher felt a lot of headaches for this student, so he found Yang Suo's parents, and the class teacher did not expect that Yang Suo's parents were also people who did not know right from wrong. After listening to the teacher's words, her parents actually said: "Our children are smart enough to write homework or not, in case writing homework exhausts my children, what can I do!" ”
This remark left the teacher completely speechless, and the class teacher felt that he could not cry and laugh, and from then on he did not force Yang Suo to write homework.
Yang Suo had the protection of his parents and gradually became rampant! In the class, they do not study, but delay other eager students, and many parents complain to the teachers after hearing the news.
The class teacher found Yang Suo's parents again and begged them to discipline their children, but Yang Suo's parents still refused to discipline, Yang Suo was like a fragile product, it was impossible to say, scolded!
Sometimes the teacher reprimanded Yang Suo at school, and Yang's father and Yang mother would even run to the school and theorize with the teacher, which really made the teacher embarrassed.
In the end, the teacher had no way, so he put Yang Suo alone on a seat and let him do whatever he wanted there, as long as he didn't delay the class.
Yang Suo spent six years in elementary school. Every day he would bring a large bag filled with snacks and toys that his parents had bought him to pass the time at school.
For other children, primary school is happy and beautiful, and for Yang Suo, school is like a prison, boring and boring.
Parents see that their children are like this, going to school has become a kind of torture, helplessly can only give Yang Suo to withdraw from school, Yang Suo after finishing primary school, once again nestled at home, became a famous "otaku" in the village
However, the life of the parents has an end, it is impossible to accompany the child for a lifetime, Yang Suo's parents only know the blind love, but ignore this fatal problem, they never thought about whether the child can be self-reliant after he dies.
In 1999, Yang Suo's father felt unbearable pain in his abdomen, vomited up and down diarrhea every day, so he went to the hospital to see a doctor, and the results of the hospital's examination found that he was already in advanced liver cancer!
For Father Yang and Mother Yang, this is simply a thunderbolt on a sunny day! In order to cure their illness, they took out all the family's savings, but to no avail, and soon after, Yang's father died.
Yang Suo has been playing alone for many years, has he received the correct education, for him, there is no specific concept of family affection, he only knows his feelings, does not understand gratitude.
The mother looked at her 170cm son, her eyes were full of tears, she cried and said to Yang Suo: "Son, after your father leaves, the family will be handed over to our mother!" ”
After Yang Suo took a look at his mother, he was silent, and then he ran to the courtyard to play, and when his mother saw it, she sighed and had an ominous premonition in her heart.
Since then, Yang's mother has borne the burden of the whole family, she went to the town to work during the day, and at night she had to go to the field to cultivate the fields, and came back to clean up the housework for her son.
Not long after, Yang Suo's mother fell to the ground because of overwork. When the villagers found out, they quickly sent her home and asked Yang Suo to take care of her mother.
He looked at his sick mother unmoved, but kept asking her to do this and do that, as if her mother was a person who was fine.
When the mother saw her son's behavior, she was heartbroken, and she said to her son: "Son, you have to go to see the land in the family, let's not play today, okay?" ”
As a result, Yang Suo did not agree at all, and her mother was a little angry, so she yelled a few times and angrily scolded Yang Suo.
This scolding, on the contrary, caused Yang Suo's revenge! No one would have thought that Yang Suo would actually do something to his mother, and his mother lying on the bed would be beaten by Yang Suo!
After Mother Yang was beaten, she cried bitterly, and Yang Suo's beating also shattered all of Mother Yang's expectations of him!
Yang Mu lay in bed for several days before she recovered her body. After getting better, she continued to return to her former life, going to the city to work and work as a farmer at night.
Long-term fatigue overwhelmed her body, and finally not long after, Yang Mu died!
After his parents left, Yang Suo couldn't help but feel dazed, he could still use the remaining money in the family to buy some meat to eat, and after a long time, he felt that he couldn't hold on.
The Yang Suo family has a total of eight cousins, of which Yang Suo is the best-looking among them, and the worst of them.
After the death of Yang's father and Yang mother, these cousins had accepted him for a period of time, but Yang Suo's vices were too many to be welcomed at all.
One of Yang Suo's brothers is called Yang Deyu, who is a contract foreman and has a lot of money in his family. He looked at his brother as pitiful, so he helped him for a while.
Yang Deyu thought that "it is better to teach him to fish than to teach him to fish", so he took his brother to the construction site.
On the construction site, Yang Deyu asked him to do some of the simplest work, such as moving a brick and pushing a small cart.
It was a hot summer day, this Yang locked on the construction site, find a secluded place to lie down and sleep, one will cry bitter, one will shout tired!
When the workers saw his ugly state, they all despised him extremely, and Yang Deyu felt that as long as his cousin was willing to work, he would be able to eat.
As a result, within a few days, Yang Suo did not say hello and ran back home by himself.
The well-meaning people in the village just started to give him a bite to eat, and after a long time, the villagers were annoyed! Yang Suo saw that the villagers refused to help, they sold their property, the family's color TV, bicycles and other things, pots and pans did not let go, all let Yang Suo sell it! Even the bed where he slept did not spare, and slept on the floor.
The clothes that should be sold are also sold, and all the money from the sale allows Yang Suo to change the fries to eat. Since then, Yang Suo can really be described as "the door is not out, the second door is not moving", and he has never been out of the house again.
His clothes have not been changed for a long time, he refuses to take a bath, his body emits a peculiar smell, fleas and lice have become regular customers, and defecation and defecation are solved in the house, and he does not even bother to go to the toilet.
Later, the villagers took a photo of him after seeing it, and after posting it to the Internet, he was named "the first lazy person in Henan" by netizens! Since then, his name has spread.
In December 2009, when the winter in Henan was particularly cold, Yang Suo stayed in the cold house and had not eaten for many days.
These days in winter, he relies on burning the furniture in the house to keep warm, and now the whole house, the things that can be burned have been completely burned by him, and he can no longer keep warm!
At that time, his cousin Yang Deyu had dinner at home, thinking of his cousin Yang Suo, who he had not seen for a long time, he felt that Yang Suo was also quite pitiful, so he prepared a meal and went to send it to him.
As a result, after arriving at Yang Suo's house, Yang Deyu found that Yang Suo had been dead for a long time! Finally, after identification, Yang Suo was starved to death at home! After the news of his death came out, people could not help but sigh, but no one would feel sad.
Yang Suo's life is a life of spoiling and spoiling, and the love of his parents has become a double-edged sword, which stabbed his family and finally killed Yang Suo's life! The fruit planted by Yang Suo's parents caused this tragedy!
Yang Suo used his tragedy to sound the alarm bell for many parents: the flowers living in the greenhouse may not necessarily bloom better, but they are likely to be unable to withstand the wind and rain. But society is full of winds and waves, and people can't grow up hiding under the protection of their parents forever!