Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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When you think of betrayers, you think of men at the first moment. And, first of all, it will be described by words such as "slag", "animal" and so on!
That's right, as long as the feelings are betrayed, no one is truly innocent!
All the helplessness and heartache in the feelings are not a reason for betrayal! And among the betrayers, there has never been only one man. Among them, women abound!
Moreover, the betrayal of middle-aged women is no longer a strange thing!
For women, middle age, what is the concept?
The appearance is not as good as before, the pressure in the workplace is too great, it is already a negative evaluation, the child is still growing, the elderly still need to serve, and the health of the body and bones is gradually declining...
Middle-aged women, both for family and work, are unspeakable pressures.
But why is she at this time, taking her own steps towards the door of betrayal, or are they not "busy" enough?
When a woman reaches middle age, why would she betray her feelings? In fact, the answer is very simple, nothing more than 3 reasons:
1: In ordinary days, men ignore themselves
No matter how old a woman is, she wants to be a spoiled little girl. Don't listen to some women saying:
I don't care about those formal surprises!
In particular, some middle-aged women are even more surprised by those formal surprises, scornful! In fact, they like those little surprises in their bones!
Women are always duplicitous, obviously wanting to never admit it. Even, I hope that men will take the initiative to themselves, send surprises and romance.
Feelings and chai rice oil and salt have always been contrary to each other. If you want to revel in romance, you have to get rid of the trivialities of chai rice oil and salt. However, who can get out of the infestation of chai rice oil and salt and fly away from chicken feathers?
In the passion is buried in blandness, romance is replaced by triviality. At this time, it is easy for a woman to find warmth in other people of the opposite sex.
These women may have passed on their own demands to men, hoping to be understood, cared for and considerate, but men think that old husbands and wives do not have to "rip useless", and women's will be watered by cold water in an instant.
And those other men who have ill intentions will most observe the minds of middle-aged women. Giving care and warm care in the most appropriate practice, it is easy for middle-aged women to respond with true feelings.
Betrayal, and so it happened.
2: Men don't know how to share and share
A good marital relationship requires life to be shared with each other and life to be shared with each other. When two people lose their desire to share and share, it is the beginning of a relationship breakdown.
In a skit, two elderly people are clearly remembered, "tacit understanding" to communicate only need to say a word, the other party knows each other's thoughts. Finally, one day, the old lady could not stand the "snub" of the old man and wanted to run away from home.
In the process of "running away from home", the two people finally counted a communication that was decades late. The old man believes that the life between each other has always been very stable, comfortable and happy, and there is no need to spend too much time and energy on business.
But the old lady thinks that no matter what time the communication is gone, it is that she is not important!
Although it is a sketch, it is a different interpretation of the real marriage and love life.
Unfortunately, as long as the desire to share and share between actual married men and women loses their desire to share and share with each other, it is easy for a third party to take advantage of the void.
In particular, for middle-aged women, men do not share and do not share with themselves, then they will go to find someone who "cares" about themselves. It really is in response to the sentence "A woman has no feelings, and whoever is good to her will go with whom".
But in fact, people who know that you have a family and are still "good to you" really love you?
3: In the mother-in-law problem, there is a man who escapes the problem
From ancient times to the present, the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a big problem that is difficult to solve! However, if there is a man between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law who can deal with problems, then all the problems will be solved.
Afraid of only fear, the problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, obviously only need a man's words to make big things small, small things, partial men pretend to be deaf and dumb, the attitude of both sides do not provoke, so that the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is maximized.
In the face of such pressure, middle-aged women will be sick and rush to the hospital because they have too long to release, and complain to "outsiders" and relieve pressure.
At this time, if there is a "very sensible" opposite sex, giving middle-aged women "good" advice and psychological comfort, middle-aged women will have unlimited fantasies:
How nice would my man be if he was? How nice would it have been if he and I had met earlier?
In this way, from spiritual dependence to good feelings, until crossing the last line of defense to do betrayal, women have never felt half guilty!
In a woman's opinion, if her own man is good enough, then she will not do the betrayal at all. Even if you don't do it right, it is forced by your mother-in-law and men to do it!
So that even if the betrayal is known, the woman would rather bear the insult than admit it.
In middle age, the other half's neglect of their emotions and feelings, their non-sharing and non-sharing of themselves, and the evasion of responsibility for the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are the main sources of betrayal of middle-aged women.
There are also middle-aged women whose marriages are extremely happy, but she is still betrayed, and it is likely that she has been over-pickled by happiness.
It's just that, in any case, the act of betrayal is not advisable. Especially for women and middle-aged women, they are already old, and they must not let themselves become a "style" problem master.
Maybe your marriage brings you endless torture, but you have the courage to betray, why don't you have the courage to give up marriage?
Ending an unhappy relationship is more likely to make you happy than using betrayal to discredit yourself, isn't it?
Don't betray with a fluke mentality or a victim mentality. You know, the end of a woman's betrayal is far worse than that of a man!
Looking at the current betrayer, the chance of a man's betrayal being accepted again is much higher than that of a woman. What's more, the ruthlessness of the third party has always been your overestimation of ta!
A middle-aged woman, the appearance score has been in the decline period, the figure has bid farewell to the perfect curve, the child has a man is still there, what do you think men outside the marriage relationship will love you?
A man outside of marriage, knowing that you have a family, children, a man, no longer young, and is close to you, giving you warmth and care, is just trying to take advantage of you – either physically or materially!
Don't be stupid, if you don't betray the current marriage relationship, you may still have a happy probability, once betrayed is a road of no return!
Therefore, all middle-aged women are advised:
The rest of your life is not much, think more about the rest of your life! Once the betrayal is formed, no matter how much misfortune you have, you deserve it!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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