Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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After experiencing betrayal, you can't accept such a fact for a while, and it feels like everything has come too suddenly, right?
In fact, where are there so many suddens?
In the face of betrayal, there is never hindsight, there are many details you actually already know, but at that time you are not willing to admit it. Like what:
1: In the interaction between ta and other opposite sexes, you intuitively feel the ambiguous breath, but in order to love you choose to trust.
2: He no longer wants to open his heart to you as he used to, but often hides from you.
3: Ta is busier than before, and it is more inconvenient than before or does not reply to your message in time.
4: Ta begins to require your understanding of ta, personal space, privacy.
5: Ta will not be able to contact you at any time, otherwise it is disrespectful to him.
6:Ta's socializing, you see the work partner, but intuitively find that they are not talking about work with each other.
7: Exclusion of intimacy.
8: Suddenly very good to you or suddenly very critical of you.
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In fact, the betrayer from the spiritual betrayal to the physical betrayal, every detail, you have perception. It's just that, as his lover, you are not willing to turn yourself into a suspicious person and affect each other's relationship.
So much so that your empathy has become the best reason for ta morality to kidnap you!
Two people together, the relationship management is very delicate! Sometimes, one person's intuition is really another person's lack of heart.
It's just that, in order to avoid anyone who is really suspicious of god and suspicious ghosts amplify the distrust and screw up the emotional relationship. So in rational thinking, people say "the evidence is conclusive"!
When the evidence is insufficient, even if there is really something unseemly, it will be said to be "catching the wind and catching the shadow". Therefore, choosing to trust and improve acting skills has become a real psychological game for two people together!
In the relationship between men and women, not every pair of lovers will use intuition to produce different feelings and then use reason to choose trust. There are many people who really love each other, will give each other the most solid and down-to-earth, even if sometimes because of some details of the contradiction, it is just to enhance the feelings of flirting.
In contrast, it is not difficult for people to find that in a relationship, the unreliable and truly down-to-earth trust that catches the wind and shadows at all times are really two completely different concepts!
Once faced with the betrayal of facts, remember: don't be wronged!
Really, your grievances can only be described in 3 words, that is: can't commit!
02
After experiencing betrayal, never have the following emotions:
1: The teacher asks for guilt, intending to make the betrayer confess everything!
2: Strike and retaliate against third parties, and forget the problem of consequences!
3: Collapse, break the jar and break it!
4: For the sake of resentment, the oath to die and the betrayer fish death net broken entangled!
5: Don't believe in love anymore!
In fact, in the face of betrayal, it is nothing more than an experience! The pain of falling down when I was a child, do I not remember the perception now?
At any time, you must believe that time can heal all your wounds! You won't forget that experience, but time will dilute your perception of that experience!
Whether the betrayer truly confesses everything to you or refuses to communicate, this in itself cannot change the outcome of the betrayal. You have to ask the betrayer to repeat the experience, but you are willing to let him sprinkle salt on your wounds.
Will those passages, which you hear and know more clearly, give you happiness?
The third party is wrong, but it is not something that you can correct by retaliation. You just have to take care of your own moment! You have to solve the problem, not add to the original problem! Do you understand?
A stagnant state, a dead net with a betrayer, these are all stupid things that consume yourself! Fundamentally, it doesn't have much of an impact on the betrayer! Because, he doesn't care about you, no matter how you toss and turn, he will not stab him.
Don't dare to believe in love because you have experienced betrayal, you just haven't met the right person in your previous experience! Don't think of everyone so badly because of a terrible experience!
03
After experiencing the betrayal, you only need to do the following two things:
First: under the trade-offs, whether the relationship is worth it or not is worth your choice to continue! If you continue, you must understand that it is only the relationship that continues regardless of the feelings!
Second: All the additional conditions - children, the elderly, are not the determinants of your marital relationship. The initiative is in your hands!
It's just that whether you go or stay in a relationship, don't reduce your love for life! Because, that is your own life, if you do not manage well, you will only live worse than the present!
When facing a betrayer, don't think he has changed! In fact, he has never changed, but he has not encountered the opportunity to betray you before.
To understand, betrayal requires more time and place. Once the opportunity is full, the act of betrayal is a matter of "natural success".
Looking back at the process of your acquaintance, acquaintance, love and then to union, whether the betrayer can make a betrayal act against you, you will immediately be relieved in the "sudden enlightenment"!
Betrayal is a premeditated plan formed in the days of stacking days! Its arrival has never had a foothold for the word "suddenly"!
After experiencing betrayal, don't consider yourself a very unlucky person. Be truly grateful, grateful, and see the true face of a person in an unbearable past!
Thanks also to the betrayer's poor acting skills, let you discover his next work when you still have a long way to go for the rest of your life.
Some people, when they see it clearly, look down on it. So, do you say you've had a chance to live again?
The world is very beautiful, don't stop because of a weed. Boldly go forward, the next stop will be willow dark flowers!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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