Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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What kind of people are happiest? Have enough money or a good lover? Or do you want to do both?
Be human, don't be too greedy!
Money is a combination of hard work and luck! Then, you have to have the ability to keep the money, and the money is yours!
The sweethearted lover will also make you have many emotions of self-doubt because of a chicken feather.
The happiest people are not worried about what has happened, try to live well in the present, and make a solid foundation for the future.
When a person is always worried about what has happened, and must not be good or steadfast in the present, then the thought of the future will panic. You say, how can such a person be happy?
What can a person who creates panic for himself all the time have but self-suffering?
Some people, before getting involved in marriage, have always been a master of reason, and they will also analyze all the unfortunate problems that may occur in the relationship. However, after ta really got involved in marriage, ta's former head did not know where it was lost.
Thus, in the marriage relationship, lose yourself, consume yourself, and suffer day and night!
In particular, when faced with betrayal, most people who experience betrayal have done stupid things that are not understood in an emotion that can be understood. In the end, hurting someone can't, hurting yourself is hit!
Facing betrayal: the source of your pain, only because of these points! After reading it patiently, you will definitely feel deeply benefited:
First: Have illusions!
After experiencing betrayal, some people are always unwilling to accept such a reality, and even recall that their coexistence with the betrayer was so harmonious and loving in the past.
There are also people who have experienced betrayal who are always willing to make excuses for the betrayer. For example: he is seduced, he is confused, he still has feelings and love for our relationship (and even children) ...
In the end, through countless in-depth conversations and redemptions, I found that everything was too much for myself!
In fact, people who experience betrayal are not willing to recognize the fact that the betrayer betrays themselves. So what are the facts? It is only the betrayer's own low character that will ignore morality, and those who have lost morality will not know what responsibility and reverence are!
That's why he betrays you!
So much so that you have too high expectations in the face of such an unbearable person's illusions, do you think you will be disappointed and miserable?
Second: do not understand the expectation of timely stop loss!
Experiencing betrayal is not much misfortune, the biggest misfortune is that you have to expect too much from the garbage man in a wrong relationship.
When you understand the fact that you will be betrayed, you will understand that in the face of betrayers, stopping losses in time is the best strategy. It's just that you can't follow the trend and stop the loss in time, but you need to make the final decision according to your actual situation.
The relationship continues, don't involve feelings. At the end of the relationship, you must ensure that you want to live better and ensure your best interests! Even if you have the ability to live independently, the benefits in the relationship can be completely abandoned.
Not for anything else, just for the rest of your life!
Stop the loss in time, never the end of the marriage relationship, but no matter where the tiger year relationship goes, you can do what you no longer expect from the betrayer!
Third: Not reconciled!
Do you know? Often people who experience betrayal will be more painful, tormented, and emotionally out of control because they are unwilling and angry! Unwilling and angry, the following wrong psychology will be generated:
I still love him so much, why should he betray me?
I can't give up for the sake of children and the elderly!
Am I really that bad?
Moreover, people who experience betrayal will also cause them to make wrong decisions and behaviors because of such a wrong psychology:
Put all your resentment on the third party;
Defend the relationship to the death and prevent the third party from succeeding;
Even if it is in vain, it will make the betrayer and the third party pay the price;
I want to redeem, as long as he turns back I will not hesitate to use any means!
Yes, you really read that after experiencing betrayal, the vast majority of people who experience betrayal are misleading themselves because they are unwilling. In the end, the betrayer and the third party are unscathed, but they regret it when they are sober.
Because, when I was sober, I realized how stupid I was!
Experienced betrayal and allowed yourself to have emotions, but be sure to learn to keep a little sanity as much as possible. Only in this way can we protect our body and mental health to the greatest extent, and not suffer other pain on the basis of being betrayed!
When you look down on the betrayer, you will know that you who have experienced the betrayal, the focus of life should completely fall on yourself, rather than leaving too much energy on the betrayer.
Unfortunately, in real life, too many people who have experienced betrayal have invested their energy in the wrong way, so they endlessly torture themselves. And in the days of self-torture, the betrayer is at ease!
So, do you really feel like it's painful to experience betrayal? In fact, it is because you don't see all the sources of suffering, which come from your own fantasies and expectations and unwillingness to trigger the wrong emotions and actions!
When you recognize the source of your suffering, you know how to redeem yourself!
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