The root of the trouble lies in yourself!
Angry because you are not generous enough; depressed because you are not open-minded enough; anxious because you are not calm enough; sad because you are not strong enough; sad, because you are not sunny enough; jealous, because you are not good enough.
The root cause of all these troubles is in ourselves, so every time a problem arises, it is an opportunity for us to find our own shortcomings.
The more you think about it, the more painful it is!
In life, there is as much suffering as there is calculation; as much tolerance as there is, there is as much joy. Both pain and joy are reflections of the mind, just as what is in the mirror is determined by what is in front of the mirror.
The heart can not let go, naturally become a burden, the more burden, the more unhappy life. A calculating heart is like a pocket, and a tolerant heart is like a funnel. Complex beloved calculations, simple hearts are easy to be happy.
Complaining is a poison!
Complaining about it destroys your will, cutting you complain about life is not as good as improving life, after all complaining ≠ solved.
Find more ways to do everything, find fewer excuses, and the strong are not without tears, but running with tears!
Regrets!
Life without regret is the Tao, and life without complaint is virtue. What is gained should be cherished; what is lost is given up. Too much care will halve the joy of life, look down, and everything will be relieved.
Attachment is actually a burden, even a kind of suffering, too much calculation becomes a kind of bondage, and being lost for too long becomes a kind of pain. Giving up is not giving up the pursuit, but let us face life with an open heart.
Good heart, all good!
Good mentality, good popularity, because you know tolerance; good mentality, do things smoothly, because informal; good mentality, happy life, because you know how to let go.
Don't let the temper be as big as the skill, the more capable people are, the less tempered they are.
People with a good mentality are harmonious and perfect everywhere. A good attitude can stimulate the greatest potential in life,
Is your greatest asset.
Source: Chicken Soup for the Soul