The person who makes the betrayer addicted, has done enough 2 "touching" scenes, which is very critical!

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People who have experienced betrayal often wonder the following questions:

That third person, where is it better than me?

In terms of ability, appearance, and family lineage, I am a superior candidate, why should I be betrayed?

Why did I choose to forgive him, or did he repeatedly betray me?

Ta Ming has chosen to return, why is he still obsessed with the third person?

What is the third person in the end?

Most of the people who experience betrayal use emotions to misplace the focus of their lives when facing betrayal.

We all know that the betrayer's act of betrayal is merely a submission to desire under selfishness! Whether the betrayer can return is mostly due to the "pros and cons" weighed, and the party who maximizes his own interests is the party chosen by the betrayer.

In this regard, people who have experienced betrayal can never use reason to measure the current relationship if they cannot jump out of the circle of negative self-consumption. Instead, he will sprinkle salt on his wounds in the comparison between himself and the third person.

So, why is the third person involved in the marriage relationship of others so unbearable, why is it still remembered by the betrayer? Between the betrayer and the third person, is it just a desire to take what is needed?

Actually, it's not!

The reason why many betrayers are obsessed with the third person, although they are not moved by the true feelings, but they must be touched in their bones, so they can't help but leave their hearts in the third person.

If you have experienced betrayal and really want to catch the betrayer, then there is a very important point that you must know in advance and cannot be ignored:

The person who makes the betrayer remember, the skill is not small!

In particular, most of the people who make the betrayer addicted have done enough 2 "touching" scenes, which is really critical:

First: I won't bother you in any way

In "Keeping Marriage Like Jade", Zhao Mingqi made a betrayal of his wife with a woman named Huasha during the period when his wife was on a business trip for half a year. He thought he could be at ease in the relationship and continue to live a "loving" life with his wife.

But I never thought that I had been "obsessed" with this woman.

Hua Sha said to Zhao Mingqi, "I will not cause you trouble", but Hua Sha's big and small trifles, Zhao Mingqi is not in place. Why?

It is because HuaSha has a weak appearance and is always "sensible" for Zhao Mingqi's "consideration", so that Zhao Mingqi always has a sense of guilt.

After his wife returned from a business trip, although she found out all this, Zhao Mingqi at that time did not want to divorce. But that doesn't mean his heart for his wife isn't being divided!

Even Zhao Mingqi himself did not know that in his small trivialities, Huasha had already been placed in a position that could not be ignored. This is the biggest reason why he can't help but "help", "care" and "feel guilty" for Huasha.

In fact, the betrayer is never willing to observe the words and deeds of the third person with his heart. If you really don't cause trouble to yourself, then your marriage relationship will certainly not be affected by this.

However, often the betrayer is unwilling to analyze such a truth, and develops infinite tolerance and understanding for the weakness, helplessness and "not intentionality" of the third person!

In fact, this is the most professional "routine" of the third person.

Second: I only care about being with you, not with the money

Believe that this kind of "immaterial" amorous person must be more concerned by countless betrayers, right?

However, the phenomenon that real men and women do not love money when they talk about love is mostly not trusted, and the betrayers express their deep belief in the third person's statement! How ironic should this be?

The seaweed in "Snail Dwelling" is also a master who does not love money at first glance. However, when you analyze it carefully, you will find that her depravity and personality loss style have nothing to do with her sister's need to be helped.

Once when Seaweed took the cash that Song Siming gave her and went out to "squander", Seaweed stood in front of the window and fitting mirror with wide eyes, which was enough to prove her desire for money.

But, she never said yes. And often for the betrayer, the more you don't want to give, the more you give!

So much so that the seaweed mouth did not say what I wanted, but Song Siming gave her everything she needed!

For people who are in the triviality of chai rice oil and salt, bland and contradictory, desire accompanied by freshness, can most arouse people's hearts, and they are willing to pay uncontrollably.

Many betrayers do not know what a person who knows that he has a relationship or even has children loves himself.

If the third person really doesn't love money, then why not just take nothing and see how long such a relationship lasts?

Yes, the betrayer is not willing to try like that, in order to seek a sense of accomplishment that he is adored and appreciated, he is willing to live in that dream. This state of self-mental paralysis is the root of the inextricable "affection" for the third person.

The fact that a third person is able to engage in the immoral act of getting involved in someone else's marriage proves that he has no idea what "virtue" is. How can such a person be truly honest with others?

The song between the betrayer and the third person is needed, either desire or object, and apart from these two points, the relationship is shattered at the touch of a button.

Believe me, every third person is a good "drama". In order to achieve his own goals, he will do enough to be patient and act enough drama.

You know, every third person is a person with good patience and extremely high psychological quality.

If, in fact, the original partner fails to realize this, and is anxious to save it for a while or use tougher means to deal with the third person, the person who is hurt must be himself!

Moreover, the betrayer will be more emotionally hostile to the third person because of the various "incomprehensible" of the person in front of him! In particular, when weighing the pros and cons, the third person will make the betrayer think that he has picked up the "treasure" from the "looking down" of the attack and the actual interests.

After experiencing betrayal, don't turn yourself into a terrible person in order to preserve your position or to be unwilling.

You need to understand that all your emotions are normal, but your focus should be on analyzing the following two "worthy":

1: Is the betrayer worth redeeming?

2: Is your marital relationship worth everything you give to continue?

If it's not worth it, then your emotions are naturally gone!

In addition, if there is a temporarily inseparable interest between you and the betrayer, then consult a professional from now on to make the greatest guarantee for your own interests.

Otherwise, you've been betrayed and you don't want to make yourself worse next, don't you?

I also want to say to the betrayer:

If you put tolerance, generosity, and patience for discovering good qualities to the person in front of you, your happiness must be synonymous with perfection!

If you use your heart to puncture the tricks of the third person, you will find out how stupid you are!

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