Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Men and women interact, the more men take the initiative, more enthusiasm, more pay, the relationship will be more harmonious! However, as long as men do more initiative, more enthusiasm, more giving, must it be true love?
The answer, no!
In real life, what the eye sees is not necessarily true! In the feelings, the man you are deeply touched may not really love you!
Why do some women, when faced with feelings, be so overwhelmed and repeatedly ask: it is he who takes the initiative, he who says he loves me, and it is he who withdraws in the end? Why!
Some men, accustomed to some tricks to mobilize feelings, wait until the woman really gets on the head, he will withdraw! For such a man, after satisfying his desire to conquer, he does not feel that women have any need to pay for themselves!
There are also men who love you when they are real and don't lie when they don't love you!
It's just that, no matter what, there is a difference between a man's love and love!
Some men, his love is very selfish. So, not true love!
Some men, seemingly love roughly, but women are the most reliable and down-to-earth!
Zhao Mingqi in "Keeping Marriage Like Jade" is a good man who takes care of his wife Su Ran! However, he betrayed his wife's "happy" marriage during his six months on a business trip.
After his wife returned from a business trip, the betrayal became more and more exposed. At that moment, Zhao Mingqi vowed to his wife and repeatedly promised to break off relations with the third party, Huasha. However, this central air-conditioned man, as long as Huasha has any wind and grass, he will not be absent!
In this regard, Su Ran trusted again and again, and again and again was full of holes!
Some feelings, really can not only look at the surface, some men can give you enough tenderness and pampering, but he can also unreservedly give this tenderness and pampering to others!
When a man says he loves you, but makes a malicious act of betrayal that hurts you, don't choose to believe him! Such a man is toxic, try to stay away is the best way to avoid being hurt!
If you think that loving you in every way, caring for everything, and telling you not to work too hard is to love you, then you will definitely trust him because you are deeply in sweetness. Finally, when the sudden situation comes, you must be at a loss!
Trust is the foundation of feelings. But after excessive trust, immersion in the happiness of the eyes, and excessive defense, you will find that your trust is really worthless!
Men move their hearts, and "pampering" is very special! That is:
Let women change from the inside out to a better version of themselves!
It's just a pity that many women don't understand!
There are three kinds of favors that men have for women, and only the last one is true love:
First: "Dedication" for desire
At the moment when marriage and love are open, the difference between desire and love is often blindly difficult to distinguish.
However, the before-and-after comparison of intimate relationships is clear whether it is true love or not!
Some men, before getting a woman, exhaust the tenderness and thoughtfulness, and after really getting a woman, they gradually become estranged! Faced with such a situation, women are puzzled and even have self-doubt!
"Am I not good enough", "Is it that he has encountered some kind of difficulties", "Is it that his family is against it"...
In fact, it's not that you're not good enough, or what kind of difficulties he has encountered! As for his parents' opposition, it is not the reason why he alienated you, and he knows better than anyone what adults should do and can do!
If he really loved you, he would have told his parents about his intention to be close to you. Why bother to really get you, the intimate relationship is over, and then remember the inviolability of filial piety?
In fact, whether it is desire or love, it is not difficult for women to find out as long as they observe with their hearts!
If you never agree to his intimate relationship request, he will warm you up; after you agree to his intimate relationship request, he will warm you up...
In short, men who don't love you, withdrawing is a "fateful" thing!
There are also men, only because they see the material conditions of women, in order to achieve their goal of "one step to the heavens", they use all kinds of obsessive tricks, and when women cannot meet his material needs, he immediately changes his appearance!
Second: Blindly indulge all your "unbearable"
I don't know when it started. Women are convinced of the poisonous chicken soup that "to marry someone is to marry a man who takes care of you like a daughter"!
Treat you like a daughter? Are you kidding? In the world, you only have one father! There is only one man who will be good to you regardless of any gain or loss, and let you take all your demands.
Because you are His daughter, willingly under the blood relationship!
And the man who is married to you is neither related by blood nor has the deep affection of the past, how do you be his "daughter"?
A man who falls in love with a woman will certainly give her tolerance, but it will definitely not be connivance! In particular, he will certainly not give you truly selfless love like your father did!
Except for parents, the establishment of any kind of relationship is a "plan" or a necessary "equivalent exchange". In particular, the exchanges between men and women, Mo said men, even women themselves will not really selflessly take care of men like mothers!
So, how can a man really "love" you like a father?
If you don't have the realistic value he wants, then it must be that he embraces his selfishness and makes you "stop growing" or grow backwards!
A person who gets along with you day and night, knowing where you are not good and blindly indulging, this is not love. It's just pretending to love you when he's within his reach. One day, when his endurance reaches its limit, he will withdraw!
At that point, you ask him why, and he won't give you the real answer! And you, too, in this relationship, have been infinitely connived, completely bringing unpredictable negative effects to the rest of your life!
Third: Make yourself a better version of yourself
Healthy love and the right people will make each other achieve and grow! In the days of love and companionship, harvest the best of each other and yourself!
The person who truly loves you, knows your flaws but will not leave you for it, he will only guide you, infect you, and become better in the way you are most acceptable!
In the company of his right love, you gradually grow, mature, and become more and more ideal companion in his life! You will love life even more in the days of running into each other, embracing each other and achieving success.
Loving you doesn't mean there's no bottom line. It is precisely because I love you that I will help you transform!
Some say that you don't need to grow up and be sensible in front of a man who truly loves you. This sentence must have ignored the ugliness of the human heart and human nature, which is why it is so absurd and absurd!
If you like a tree, you will never allow it to grow in a heterogeneous way; if you like a fertile piece of land, you must pull out the weeds for it.
You fall in love with a person, although the advantages and disadvantages of ta do not affect your affection for ta, but you will not indulge ta's flaws to become bigger and bigger. This is responsible for your common life, but also responsible for yourself.
When you really fall in love with someone, you will closely connect your fate with the person you love deeply, so you will make progress and transform together!
Tolerance is not connivance, guiding you to grow does not mean not loving you!
When you recognize the essence of love and embrace the good with the right person, you will know that those poisonous chicken soup that only asks for enjoyment without giving, only stands still and does not grow, etc., is a really harmful thing!
The courtesy drama that you can make for the sake of desire, the unbearable thought of indulging you, is not love!
Love will make you harvest the best self at all times!
In the midst of feelings, women must not only use their ears to listen to sweet words, use their eyes to see the superficial exaggerated appearances, but use their hearts to feel, what have you gained in this relationship?
A right relationship will not make you happy all the time, but you must have experienced the joy of steadfastness and self-achievement around the man in front of you!
What do you think?
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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